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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol advice
my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?
My adviice.. dont call and leave a message.. what if his parents or a friend or somethiing gets the message? :-O!
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Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??
well if it helps i am overweight also.. ppl call me fat and ugly too.. it does not mean it is true.. do not say you want to die.. things will get better! nd who cares what they say.. it may hurt but its just bcuz they cannot see inner beauty.. its harsh i know but just ignore it.. stick with your friends and if you need to then get counseling.. or you can try to lose some weight.. although i know its very hard ((i have tryed)) .. there will always be ppl in the world who are mean and rude.. just ignore it and go on with your life and live it to the fullest!
IM me at spoiledx3shortii for more help!!
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Hey. i have a huge problem. see my step cousin that actully has no blood relation to me is actully the perfect guy for me. he wants to be with me and i want to be with him, do you think that is incesed since there is no blood relation to us since it is all by marriage. i mean i really have always had feelings for him even b4 his mom and my uncle met. is it wronge to be in love with this guy please help. I rate!!!!
Thats tough.. well technically you are family.. so yeah.. but if you really really love him then i guess go for it.. its really up to you 2..
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Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do?
uhh.. don't bother telling ppl you are christian.. they don't really need to know.. they should like you for who you are..
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Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do.
If i were you i would tell my parents.. and like try not to hang any where that you know those girls will be..
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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help!
uhh.. well i dont think theres anything wrond with beiing gay so i guess if you feel sooo strongly about him then tell him.. you have a 50/50 chance.. and wait for the whole sex thing.. :P
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Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila
i guess you should just spend as much time together as possible and call hiim.. (( not TOO much)) but often.. and if you guys dont make it then it wasnt meant to be.. thats the way life goes.. well good luck!
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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
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If you are rady i guess.. and if you think this guy is the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with.. and think about if u do get pregnant.. will you be able to care for the baby? and what will your parents think!?
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See I was goin out w/ this guy for lyk 2 months then one day he broke up w/ me...but the thing is i don't kno if he really broke up w/ me or if it was his brother that i think likes me to (they r the same age...my bf/x bf was adopted) but idk if my bf did break up w/ me or not my friends said that in his profile it still says that he loves me n i kno that he doesn't forget to take things like that out of his profile...but idk wut am i suppose to do i dont want 2 call him bc it will b to awkward n he is like never on IM so idk n if he did break up w/ me i want 2 kno why but i just feel way to weird tlakin 2 him on the phone n askin him that...plz help me wut should i do????
I would say... suck it up and call him.. if you guys are still going out then yay lol but i mean its something you really should know!
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ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
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Manda
I feel that you can love at any age.. you learn from your parents to love at a very young age soo.. yeah.. but you should ((in a couple years maybe)) talk to your parents about this.. bcuz if you do marry him.. your parents should aprove.. bring him home with you for dinner or something let them get to know him and understand who is is..
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I still have time to think, but I have NO idea what I want to major in. Im really good in english but dont want to do any teacher sort of thing and the author life is too risky. I love horses, but couldnt be a vet b/c i could never bear the sorrow of putting a horse to sleep. I love animals in general. I love designing too, but Im not awsome in math so interior design would be a bit too tricky. I cant really draw. Could anyone just list some cool things to look into even if it has nothing to do with my interests? Thanks... for the help. :-D
Performing arts is what i want to major in- singing, dancing, acting or other cool jobs... clothing designer, architect, CSI, therepist, magazine jounalist, or even better a celebrity journalist ((interveiw celebs)) =D.. theres soo many possibilities!
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Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?
Thats a tough one.. if i were you i would tell him that you have loved him since you broke up with him.. only so you can go on with your life.. but don't get your hopes up on him breakiing up with his gf for you.. unless he feels the same.. or you could keep it to yourself.. but then you will live your life thinking *what if i did tell him i loved him..* and thinking of what could have happened!!
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My friend is having a birthday/sleepover party this weekend. Problem is..I dont like sleeping over anybody`s house (just a problem I have) I do sometimes though..but i reeally dont like it. Plus, the friends shes inviting are people i dont know at all.Please help, i dont want to go to this party..what should i say to my friend? I really dont feel comfortable sleeping over someone`s house ive never been to before.My friend, whos going to be there, knows about my problem and im afraid shes going to tell.Should I make up a dumb excuse or admit my problem and jus hang at her house til like 10? I really dont wanna hurt my friends feelings or embarass myself.
Thank you soo much for the help in advance!!!
That used to happen to me until like last year or w/e but like i donno.. its hard.. i used to just stay till like 11:00 then say i had a reallly bad stomachache.. then my mom would come get me.. its not very nice though... well i dunno.
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ok i love my boyfriend but i havent told him yet bc i know he doesnt feel the same way about me. what do i do? do i tell him how i feel anyway? thanx!
Thats kinda odd.. you guys are going out but he doesnt love you? he should... well just at the spur of the moment be like i love you! haahaa
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I've been thinking of growing a mustache and goatee.
I was just wondering though.....do girls like that or is it generally a turn-off?
Im sure a lot of girls like it.. but to tell you the truth i dont.. i dont mind if its like a 5 or 6 or w/e number o'clock shadow haha but yeah..
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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)
Girl- Brooke, Madison, Grace, Tiffany, Jenni, Nikki, Toni, Bella, Jersey, Taylor... Boy- James, Dave, Tyler, Zach, Jeff, Dan...
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I'm 14..Well me and my boyfriend broke up because we didn't see each other(If you read my last comment you'd understand) But the night we broke up was a night at a local dance. After we broke up my best friend or what i thought was my best friend was all over him..I still really like my ex..Should I still be mad at her for that or should I suck it up and deal with it?
Thats horrible.. friends should know you cannot go out with a friends ex.. especially right after they broke up! talk to her and be like well i still have feelings for him.. nd you guys were getting *close* and it hurt me.. she should appreciate your feelings and take that into consideration!
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I am a very skinny girl, but sometimes when I am anxious or I have eaten to much or I eat alot of sugar or fatty things I make myself throw up. I don't throw up alot of food, though and I don't think that I've gotten to the point where I am a bulimic. I know that it's really not healthy though, so I haven't done it in about six weeks but I always want to, and I feel like Im on the verge. I really don't want to talk to anyone at home about it b/c I don't want to go to rehab because the problem isn't that serious. What do I do?
Being bulimic is horrible.. if you are already skinny think about it.. there is NO reason to become skinnier.. You should tell a counselor at school or a parent.. they will both work to help you.. even if the problem isnt *that serious*
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i start school in a little over a week on the 30th of this month and i got gym and i heard we have to take showers in front of everyone and i dont want to...what can i do to get out of it and make it look like i took a shower? and do people talk about your body parts to other people that are in that class? helppppp!
They cannot force you to take a shower if you dont want to and if your gym teacher has a problem with that then go to the princapal and tell him/her that you don't feel comfortable taking a shower in front of other people.. they should understand..
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hi i moved july 6 and well i have the oppourtunity to stay at my school where i was going before i only have one more year ( going into 7th) and but i can go to a diff school if i want (it a long story) welll if i go to the new school i can start over but im not sure if i want to and if i go to the same school it will be the same ol' borin stuff!! well i need help and i will rate only 4's and 5's so? can you help?
It all depends on if you are goiing to be comfortable goiing to a new school.. if you are scared or don't think you will make friends than stay at your old school, but if you want to make more friends and have new opportunities than go to the new school!
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