Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time
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Okay, Idk what I want to be for halloween!! UGH!
I want to be something sexy. NOT whorish! Just sexy. Like the short fluffy skirts.
I'm looking for something cute, not gag me though.
I'm not EMO, I don't want anything like that.
I like to have fun! I don't want anything funny though. & My boyfriend also wants us to go as like, a theme? Like me be a sailor and him be the captain or whatever. HELP!
Sorry that I cant give enough info to help you guys out. Anything will work though, thanks! (link)
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Okay .. I have two great ideas spontaneous ideas =]
1. Dead bride and groom :
Which is basically dressing like a bride and groom but instead of white twist it into black.
You can get a corset dress or just a sexy short (not very short but short enough) black dress.
Instead the white veil you get a black veil ( i did it myself, you can do it yourself at home).
Get long black gloves that covers half of your arm. You can pull of the classy look or the more modern look.
Add to the outfit a nut colon under your dress, it will make you look sexier =]
Afcoures you can't forget your high heels (get them extra high and shiny)
For your guy : Well he can just wear normal groom cloth but let him add a black vest and let him loose the jacket, don't let him look too formal.
2. Moulin Dancer and her Pimp =]
(Me and My ex boyfriend did this last year)
This is how you basically should look like :
http://www.flagshipfancydress.co.uk/ekmps/shops/flagshipenterp/images/moulin-rouge-costumes-101-c.jpg
I had a very similar costume
Your boyfriend : Should dress up like a pimp (I don't need to explain that)
Good Luck =]=]
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16/f
well, basically when i dont spit game; i jus try to get to kno someone and most people say i jus have a natural charm. usually, i can get who i want - not in a cocky way but if i want somethin im gonna get it i guess.
well anywaysss, i met this girl about 3 weeks ago who from the first time i saw her, i wanted her. lets call her D. i saw her at a hookha lounge, and we found out we went to the same school. we have a LOT of mutual friends and ever since then i was all (link)
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Well it's a bitchy thing of O to do, because you mentioned liking D before she gets with her and she had to some how respect that.
Well honestly/Unfortunately you can't do much without pissing O off.
You have two options :
A) You have a brain, use it and find a way to steal D from O and that leads to "You got what you want"
B) Life sucks and no one always gets what they want, so get over it and suck it up ..Get over D, I totally understand that you like her so much but she's taken and she choice O so how about you getting over her and finding someone cooler, hotter, and better, and distances makes you forget plus always remember there is plenty girls out there
You can definitely choose yourself but if you want my opinion I'd so totally go with option B because it's less painful ..
Think and choose wisely =] All I can say now is ...
Good Luck =]=]
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If it is a sin to feel lustful, wouldn't that cause everyone to be a sinner? No matter if you realize it or not, because lust is a strong sexual desire.. correct? Well, if you guys are like my friends and I, and we talk about boys a lot cause we're lame, you probably have said something like "I would do such bad things to that boy" or whatever, you get my drift. Anyway, wouldn't that be considered lust?, which would be considered a sin?
I know that people masturbating isn't a sin but the lustful thoughts is what makes it one, cause in the bible it's never stated anything about masturbation. When I found this out I just became curious about those things, that's all.. haha. Thank you in advance. (link)
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Well, I'm not sure that masturbation is NOT against religion, I think it is. Yes, it's true nothing is written about in the bible, but if it's a sin to think about someone and masturbation isn't, don't you see something wrong? I do ..
Look, everyone has their own beliefs but if you want my opinion, don't believe anything that anyone tells you or anything that you read. I'd be considered as an open minded religious person, that's confusing? Yes it is but it makes sense to me.
What I simply did .. I studied Jewish religion, Christianity religion, and believe it or not, Islam religion.. and If someone asked what's my religion, I'd simply answer "I believe in god, and I do what feels right and what makes sense to me"
Hope I answered any of your questions .. !
Good Luck =]
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Wrong website guys, sorry!!!
anyways, what do you guys think about this site:
www.thinkbeauty.weebly.com
thanks for your help! (link)
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It's nice, I love the colors ...
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Ok, so i know this question is is totally off the wall, but have you ever seen RENT? Well if you have you know who anthony rapp is. in his book, he mentions a freind that had and died of aids. He also mentions that this freind wanted aids... i forget why, but it was a really good reason.
is it bad that i kind of want a disease that i would die from? its not like i would go try to get aids or something, but im just wondering is this crazy to think like that? to want a disease? i mean we are all gunna die someday, so why not die from a disease????
What are your thoughts on it?
thanks. sorry if this is a totally random and weird question. (link)
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Actually I have never seen Rent, but... I have an answer to your question ..
No, It's not bad, actually weeks ago I randomly told my mom 'I'd rather die from a disease' and she looked at me like I'm crazy but yeah .. I really do rather die from a disease but life has advantages and disadvantages, i though about this a lot.
Yes, we are all going to die. Like for example when a friend of mine says "This guy died from a car crash, I feel sorry for him", I don't get it, why would we feel sorry if we're going to die anyways? It doesn't matter when or how, it's going to happen, so suck it up. Like when my grandma died 90 years old, I wasn't shocked or surprised, actually I was expecting it, it's about time isn't it?, everything happens for a reason, and she died for a reason at the age of 90, maybe we're all so curios to know the reason and if we had a choice we will choose to know the reason of why things happen, but when we know the reason, we will wish we didn't.
As for myself, I'd rather not know the reason for any of things that happened/happening/will happen to me.
When you die without a disease, you will die suddenly without the fear of death because you didn't really expect to die NOW.. So that's an advantage from the sudden death but the disadvantage is "what if you wanted to apology to your boyfriend about something or your parents or your best friend" and you died suddenly without apologizing or without achieving you dreams.
When you die with a disease, you will have time to do stuff, like apologize to people you hurt and go play golf because you always wanted to do that, if you have a disease and you're going to die after two months, you will do right things, you will live the best two months of your whole life because you'll do whatever you always really wanted, you'll make the right discussions, you'll feel the value of life, but the disadvantage, you'll die with fear, you'll die wanting to live instead.
So either way it sucks. Happiness isn't why this planet exists. Some bad stuff happen to you and people go like "It's God's fault", No it's not.
Life isn't great but if you believe it is, it will be.
Like I see life just like a test. Like a shopping Mall, there are stores on the left and on the right. The rules are, You shop only at the stores on the right, you'll pass your test but you won't do everything you like. You shop on the left, you won't pass your test but you'll go clubbing, have sex, and rock n roll.
It's up to us... Hope I helped or answered any of your questions.
Good Luck =]=]
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HI 14/f
Ok, me and one of my very close guy friends likes me. His names Joey.We are very close because we use to date, last year we did. Well, we had a bad break up and he went out with my friend, i warned him she's not right for him and she will cheat on him, and she did. He felt bad for not believing me. Well that's when he started liking me.At that time i didn't we went to the movies together, as friends, and we are very close. I just found out a month ago from his best friend and MINE that he secretly liked me. I don't know why he didn't tell me himself. Finally i asked himself myself if he did, and he said yes he did, but he doesn't want to date anyone right now. Well, i think that's because he just broke up with his recent girl friend (she dumped him :/) , but he's actually happy about it because he didn't really like her, so his best friend said. What i want to know is when will we date? I REALLY truly like him, and want to be his girl friend, and he really like's me to because every time we look at each other and lock eyes, it stays like that for ever it seemsā„ Boy, he's amazing.
Thanks for the help. (link)
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I think you should give him space but at the same time let him know you're there for him but don't call him 24 hours a day, because that will pressure him, don't do stuff couples do, just be a friend and act normal.
If you pressure him, that will drive him away, and that is not a good thing.
Eventually if he truly does like you, he will ask you out and you'll get what you want but you have to be patience and not pressure him.
It will only take time =]
Good Luck =]=]
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Hey okay this is quite a long story so il do my best to sum it up ina nutshell.
basicly at then end of school before summer myself and 2 of my other best friends fell out with a girl in school litteraly over nothing.
she over exagterated the whole thing,she went home to her sister crying and told her that we were bullying her and spreading sh*t about her.
now she was one of our really good friends wed never do that to her or anyone it was just some good natured fun we were all having even she was at the time just teasing each other over stuff like we always do and we didnt take it too far,it went on during english class and we were all laughing and even the teacher was there so shes proof that we werent bullying her or anything it was just a classic case of give and cant take,
we were just saying to each other shes an attention seeker too,she started screaming and crying in the school corrider the next day over it in front of everyone making us out to be bitches. so we havnt talked since then,i'm ok with that though because shes extremly childish and I dont need people like that in my life.
the problem is her sister has it out for us,we were out last night and me and my friend were making our way to the bar and someone shoved into us really hard and knocked our drink flying we turned around and it was *laura her sister,she screamed watch where your going at us and started yelling and starting a fight with us we just laughed told her to grow up and walked away.
but it wasnt the first time it happend she did it a few weeks back to just my friend when i wasnt there and shes been writing stuff over facebook to her sister about us,and telling some of our guy friends that were tramps and not to hang around with us. I mean her sisters 20 and were 16 for god sake its really starting to annoy me so I was wondering should I confront my ex friend about it and tell her to just stay out of my life and tell her sister to stop harrasing me because I didnt even do anything? or should I pay no attention to either of them?
I really don't know what to do considering im back to school tomorrow and its so awkward when shes there and I cant talk to certain friends if shes tlaking to them and stuff you know? so im dreading it =/I mean before this happend I was half thinking of making up with her on monday so theres no awkwardness in school I was even going to apologise for doing nothing wrong for the second time! (I tried before school ended because she put on this big show and started crying and apologised to my other friend over it on the last day because shes moving we then found out it was just an act because she was still being bitchy towards us after)... anyway
so anyone any advice about this situation? im at a loss.
anything will help
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Okay. If you seriously didn't do anything to her and she's overreacting, if it's all an act to fuck you up, if it's a lie .. Screw confronting her.
Because she'd probably use it against you, and she'll probably have this big ass ego that you're a pussy and all scared from her sister and you're only apologizing because you're afraid and this is not the right way to make things right because I bet she won't stop or make her sister stop, they'll probably laugh about it too..
You should avoid them somehow but not completely, I know this is somehow going to sound wrong, but if she's playing dirty, then play dirt in return, stand up for yourself, don't let a tramp like her sister who is older than you by the way who should be mature enough not to do this and try to settle things between you and your other friends but instead she chooses to knock of your drinks in a bar, dude that's not cool ... You should stand up for yourself and knock her drinks before she thinks about knocking yours because you aint some game they can play with.
And who cares what they say about you, actually take this as an advantage to know who your really friends are.
You shouldn't be threatened by her or her sister, and stand up for yourself, don't just laugh about it because it's going to get to a point when it's not funny anymore.
You should tell someone about it, and when i say you should knock of her drinks first, I mean it, be confident enough to kick her ass. I mean for fucking sake she is 20 an official adult.
I bet you have a brain so use it ;) but all I can say is ..
Good Luck =]
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hi, i was just hoping to get your opinion on something: what do you think is the most independant animal? something which doesnt trust others too easily, and is cautious?
any ideas? i was thinking of a king cobra? but any ideas are welcome (link)
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There is a lot but I don't know which is the most independent but I'll list some animals.
Tiger. The tiger is a confined solitary hunter, coming together with its own kind only to mate and raise the young. Other than that, the tiger hunts alone, sleeps alone, travels alone... basically does everything alone... except for sex of course, which cannot be done alone!
Sharks.
The amoeba. Self replication, minimal living space, simplified energy requirements. "It don't need nobody!"
Preying mantises. They're so independent that they'll eat their siblings and the females will eat their mates.
The Blue Whale.
Hope I helped =]=]
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hi, 17/m. Ive been going out with this girl for about 2 months now. We really liked each other in the begining. She's on holiday, and is coming back next week (she will have been away for a month). I'm not sure if its because i havn't seen her or anything, but im starting to have second thoughts. I know she really likes me, but i dont know if i like her as much as i used to.
Im not sure what the reason for this change in thought is. One of my female friends told me that if i dont like her, i should end the relationship, because its not nice to lead her on, and the longer i stay in the relationship, the harder its going to be to end it. But she also said, that if i was unsure, i should stick with it, because i may regret it if i ended it.
Any help people? im rather confused. Cheers (link)
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Well, the friend that gave you advice is right but she didn't quietly explain her advice..
Well if you don't have feelings for this girl, end it now better than later. But if your unsure, stay so you can think about it and than take you discussion, but you can only do that when your in love, not little feelings like the once you have, they aren't as big as love.
You might regret it later if you end it now but you also might not.
But think about it this way, isn't it unfair for your partner to like you a lot and you don't like her as much? It's not fair..
Or, you can take a break from the relationship and be honest with her about your feelings and tell her it might be distance.. ! Because some people with distance, they like each other more and miss each other. But others, the feelings fade, and I always say 'Distance helps you move on'
Think carefully and make you discussion wisely.
Good Luck =]=]
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I know this is long, but please help me out.
So, let's just say there are 3 chicks - Sally, Franny, and Annie.
Sally, Franny, and Annie are all friends. I hang out with Sally on a regular basis outside of school, but not necessarily AT school. Franny and I hang out at school (and sometimes outside of school). Annie is someone who I've only talked to a couple of times. We're just acquaintances. I'm not really friends with her, but like I said before, Annie is friends with Sally and Franny.
One day, Franny invited Sally, Annie, and me to go see a movie together. We did. I thought it went well. I talked to Franny and Sally as usual (since they're my good friends, obviously) and talked to Annie too (even though I don't know her that well). We shared some laughs. We weren't together that long, but there wasn't any awkwardness. None of us had hung out together before (I usually hang out with SALLY and FRANNY separately, but I'm not really friends with Annie, so obviously I haven't) but it was still decently fun.
So, today I viewed Sally's Facebook (whom I chat with a lot HAPPILY about the plans we have for this weekend). It appeared she was having a convo w/ Annie (once again, the one whom I don't know too well) about our outing. So, out of curiosity, I looked at what she said to Annie:
"blah blah blah it was fun, yada yada. you, me, franny, so-and-so (not me, but a girl they both know)? SOON."
That's basically, in a nutshell, what she said. Totally didn't even include me in the sentence at all about hanging out again. I'm starting to wonder why she wouldn't want to include me. Is it something personal? Because Sally talks to me normally over Facebook. I thought the outing went well, even though I'm not familiar with Annie.
Maybe she just didn't include me b/c I don't know Annie? What do you think?
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Dude ... You over thing this and your too insecure.
If I was in Sally's position, just unnoticeable I would not mention you because Annie doesn't know you.. If Sally personal problems against you I don't think she'll ever speak to you or hang out with you in or after school.
Don't think about everything negatively and try not to be that insecure !!
Good Luck =]=]
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is 6inches long for a penis (link)
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It's average... !
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at my school and cheerleading team it seems to me like everyone is so immature. im a junior in high school and im really quiet mainly because im shy but also because i just never know what to talk about or how to respond to people at my school.
i went to a summer program for high school students this summer and i made a ton of friends there and was pretty talkative because we would all have actual real conversations... but coming back here im really quiet and i can't make friends easily because everyone is always hyper and crazy and i just can't relate to them and i never know what to say and it has gotten me depressed lately...
is every high school student like this or is it just mine? and is college going to be different or is it just me that has issues? and how do i start having better social skills and stop being depressed? what do i do about not being able to communicate with them? (link)
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Well everyone wants to be crazy, hyper, and rational. It's normal.
But you don't have to change for anyone, and if people won't like you for who you are than they are not worth your time.
Would college be different?
Everything is different, in college people get crazier but more of a grown up.
Look just chill and take it easy. You might have anxiety disorder. But that's a really low chance because you actually made tons of friends in the summer program.
Time changes people, and you might change later. But there is no such thing as social skills but there is a key word and that is 'be yourself', and be confident. If you lack confidence than that's a tiny problem you need to solve.
Just be yourself, if your not comfortable talking to crazy and hyper people, then don't. But if you are just do, and chili, take a deep breath and say what you want or like.
Good Luck =]=]
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ok so here's the problem. my "best friend" and i did everything together. LITERALLY. but anyways, over time i started to like him a little more than a friend. then it became serious. but then i figured out that he was actually using me for secrets. all he want to know was all of my secrets. but i didnt really talk to him about it. but then when i didnt really have anymore secrets to tell him, he left me (as a friend) for two of my other best friends. of course he was using them also. but they didnt believe that. after he left me for them, he never EVER talked to me. but at the end of the day he would always ask the two girls to text or call him. or he would tell them that he would call them. HE NEVER EVER call me EVER. not even wen we were friends. he broke my heart so much. i would cry everyday. LITERALLY.
so its summer now and i am so happy that i have a bf. someone who actually loves me for me; not my secrets. so im basically trying to forget about my friend. but i cant get him out of my head. i keep thinking about him. and i found out that the two girls arent his friends anymore. and two days after i found that out, he text and emailed me saying "hey wats up? havent talked to you in awhile. call me so we can catch up."
ARE YOU EFFIN' KIDDING? he wants me back since the two girls left him. but im afraid that im going to either break my bf's heart because i still have feelings for my friend. or i will end up falling for my friend AGAIN next year.
"Now, your at the point where you want to forget about the past....all the rude things he said, all the girlfrends he went through, all the secrets you shared, all the tears you shed, all the laughs you shared, and all the time you spent together...but you know you cant...only because you couldnt just forget a person that you spend every second thinking about."
***sorry that was a part from my journal!
please...someone help me get through this. anything will help :)
ps. im a 13 year old girl. going to 8th grade.
and sorry its so long. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO READ IT ALL.
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Look this guy is a jerk, I understand you still have feelings for him because you're hurt but you have to understand you can't be with this guy or even be friends with him because he is a jerk.
Why would you break your boyfriend's heart? You obviously like your boyfriend because like you mentioned you are happy and it's obviously because of your boyfriend.
You don't need this jerk in any way, so reply to his text 'Sorry I'm busy and You're not even worth my time' and when you do that put a big happy smile on your face , move on, and have fun with your boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
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Ever have those friends so close they feel like siblings? I have a really close brother-friend, and i mean we're ex bf/gf, but that just brings us closer. aaaanyway. he's turning 18, and i want to do something super special for him to let him know how amazing he is and how much he means to me! Any ideas?
just for info
-he's really into creating music in his virtual studio.
-he plays the piano
-he lives and breathes for teching and audio engineering.
-he's a pretty quirky guy, kind of lives for those "i'm insane, and your reaction was hilarious." moments. (link)
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Well ... If you want to throw a birthday party for him, first thing you need is a theme for the party.
Like if he is one of those boys who is obsessed with comic books and superhero, then get everyone to wear a superhero costume, and decorate everything with superhero and his cake and stuff.
And if he likes gambling and a big fan of poker than Casino theme and get everyone to wear fancy cloth and get poker tables and decorate the location, and the cake too.
If he likes the 70s then the 70s theme.
Check this website, it has details of everything :
http://www.dgreetings.com/birthday/70s-birthday-party-theme.html
Good Luck =]=]
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So there's this guy. From grade five up until grade eight we had always been really close friends. Actually he always liked me more than a friend and he told me that. I never liked him back though. However, at the end of grade eight he stopped talking to me completely. Rumor was that he stopped talking b/c I was too obsessed over this guy I liked and I talked too much about him. That just doesn't seem like what he would get mad over though. He never has before, so I doubt he would this time. I've tried talking to him online,on the phone, at school, just about everywhere... but it's like he never knew me. However he knows me better than anyone I've ever met. It's been 7 months now and things just keep getting worse and worse. It's like I don't exist to him, he honestly doesn't notice me at all ever. I miss having him as a friend so much, he was the only one I ever really trusted and he kept me happy. To make it even worse, I have this small crush on him that keeps growing by the day... I don't know what to do or how to solve this. I have no clue whatsoever why he's mad. No one does. Some good advice would be great. Thx so much!
xox~Becky (link)
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Well once I had this friend who I liked and told him that I have feelings towards him but he never said it back or anything, same situation but the thing is I always had hope that one day he is going to like me until I came to my sense and understood that he will never like me so I got really pissed and decided that distances is going to make me forget him so I stopped talking to him, but he tried every kind of connection to talk to me, but i refused because i was kind of mad at him and myself.
So he gave up and gave me space, and I start thinking about it, I'm strong enough to stop liking him and I felt sorry for him that I suddenly stopped talking to him.
So give him space and confront him face to face, tell him about this little crush you have, be honest about your feelings and how confused you are. Get his address and give him a visit, trust me that's exactly what he needs and want.
Good Luck =]=]
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heyy. well, im really really in love with this one kid. and we flirt like crazy alot...but...the thing is...were good friends. should i just not like him or something? im not sure how to just get it out to him? maybe a friend or something? please help!
signed,
-helpless (link)
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Look life is short and without risks it isn't worth living, and if you didn't tell him how you feel now, it will be harder tomorrow.
You can't be friends with someone you have feelings with because you'll never treat him the way you should treat friends and that is wrong and somehow lying to him in a way.
So you have to tell him how you feel, and who knows he might feel the same way, and just a shy guy and can't tell you or maybe not generally a shy guy but he's a guy who is scared of rejection and before he has a chance with telling you, there might comes another girl and take him away from you.
So do it now, better than later.
Good Luck=]=]
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Hello advicenators,
F, just turned 17.
Okay so now im working in CVS, but im being sponserd by the govetrnment, becuase I got into a program meaning that CVS doesn't personally pay me but the program does. Well anyway so im new and this is my first job. Im a very respectful young girl, I smile a lot and am very kind. So anyway I feel like they don't want me there. (Coworkers) and I feel so left out by even the manager! Becuase everyone else can be there doing stuff and like when im done with my stuff I don't know what to do. And I can't ask the manager anything becuase he scares me becuase he talks so rude to me once I told him I wanted to sign out and he was like so? Look for someone else ? Why are you telling me this? Basically he is so rude. And like I started to tear becuase I feel so leftout and lonely in that job. Other than that I like it. But that's a big prob for me. I feel like everyone looks down on me becuase im the new girl and im young without expirence. What do I do? Please help?.
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Yeah, my sister had the same problem for a very long time, because she was new and unexperienced... Trust me, when you're extremely experienced you'll be just like them, you need to look down on people when you're experienced because that will make them prove themselves.
So basically you need to prove yourself in this company, and by time, by gaining experience, you will eventually prove yourself.
Good Luck =]=]
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19, female.
so there's this guy, we use to be pretty close like THREE years ago. we still see each other now and then but its nothing like what we were before. we're both attracted to each other but i just always have a hard time even texting him, let alone ask him to hang out. its that "having a crush on someone, nervousness" but like a week ago i had to ask him something so then we started talking and i was like can we hangout when i get back from vacation? and he was like yea im down. and so now i'm back but i just dont really know how to ask him to hangout. he's always busy too, playing sports. he always has hockey and baseball. so i kind of want to just be like "so...when are we hanging out" but i dont think that will get me very far because i can see him being like "whenever" and its different because i always text flirty with him like i've said "you only see the one side of me, and thats the good side" and he was like "well whats your other side?" and i was like naughty;) and he was like why arent you like that with me! and so on haha. AND the thing is i've been to my cousins twice since i've been back and he's their next door neighbor and not once did he text me even saying like yeah we should all hang out, because hes close with my cousins too. i just overthink everything! is there a good way to ask him to hangout without the fear of being rejected and him being like sorry im busy. AND i dont even know what we would do!
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Look, rejection isn't so bad, life is short and without risks it isn't worth living.
And yes it seems like you like him, and yes you are over-thinking stuff.
So how about you take a deep breath and give him a call, just suggest you guys go play bowling or something...
Good Luck =]=]
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Can i be pregnant if im a virgin and my boyfriend came near my vagina but not in it (link)
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Well you can get pregnant only if he released his sperms in your vagina, and in other cases on your vagina (but you can't get pregnant unless one of those guys got in and that is unlikely in most cases)
So your chances of being pregnant is pretty pretty low. But it's going to make you feel better, than take a test or something. And hey if you got your period it's no way your pregnant.
Good Luck =]=]
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Like many others I am in a relationship and going to college in less than a month. He'll be near Phillidelphia, PA and I'll be near Providence, RI. About a 5 hour drive, and we've decided that breaking up isn't an option and we're in this for the long haul. His program will be somewhere between 9 months to a year and a half so its a shorter time than most people but I'm starting to get seriously depressed about leaving him. I'm really excited about living on my own and the whole college experience but the thought of us being so far apart is killing me. I get a horrible sinking feeling in my chest and I'm always on the edge of tears. Even if we're just saying goodbye for the night I don't want to let him go because I know our time is limited. I don't know how I'm going to get through everyday without being an emotional wreck. I want to have fun in college and live my life without being sad all the time. So I need ways to keep myself busy so I'm not sitting in my dorm thinking "Damn..I wish he was here right now" because I know I'll drive myself crazy that way.
Please please please help me.
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I understand what you're going through ...
But look distances relationships sucks, and I don't consider yours as a distances relationship, just take it as space for a little while, and that is a good thing because you guys will miss each other, and will love each other more, and the spark is going to be brand new when you kiss after all this time.
You don't have to be depressed, you have college, a new life and everything. So why would you be depressed? You even have a boyfriend who you love. Don't make this a big deal, just take it as 'everything happens for a reason'
And you'll have a lot of things to do, e.g. Studying =]
Good Luck =]=]
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