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Should I be worried/insulted?
I know this is long, but please help me out.
So, let's just say there are 3 chicks - Sally, Franny, and Annie.
Sally, Franny, and Annie are all friends. I hang out with Sally on a regular basis outside of school, but not necessarily AT school. Franny and I hang out at school (and sometimes outside of school). Annie is someone who I've only talked to a couple of times. We're just acquaintances. I'm not really friends with her, but like I said before, Annie is friends with Sally and Franny.
One day, Franny invited Sally, Annie, and me to go see a movie together. We did. I thought it went well. I talked to Franny and Sally as usual (since they're my good friends, obviously) and talked to Annie too (even though I don't know her that well). We shared some laughs. We weren't together that long, but there wasn't any awkwardness. None of us had hung out together before (I usually hang out with SALLY and FRANNY separately, but I'm not really friends with Annie, so obviously I haven't) but it was still decently fun.
So, today I viewed Sally's Facebook (whom I chat with a lot HAPPILY about the plans we have for this weekend). It appeared she was having a convo w/ Annie (once again, the one whom I don't know too well) about our outing. So, out of curiosity, I looked at what she said to Annie:
"blah blah blah it was fun, yada yada. you, me, franny, so-and-so (not me, but a girl they both know)? SOON."
That's basically, in a nutshell, what she said. Totally didn't even include me in the sentence at all about hanging out again. I'm starting to wonder why she wouldn't want to include me. Is it something personal? Because Sally talks to me normally over Facebook. I thought the outing went well, even though I'm not familiar with Annie.
Maybe she just didn't include me b/c I don't know Annie? What do you think?
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personally, i wouldn't think too much of it. maybe she didn't mention you because she just wants to actually hangout with just them? maybe that does come off as a bit rude, but you can't expect people to include you in on everything, right? or maybe because you and annie aren't as close friends as the other girl and her are, that could be a reason why. seeing as how i don't know the social background between frannie and annie and that other chick, i can't quiet estimate why she didn't include you. but! if it honestly bothers you, and continues to bother you... maybe you should just talk to her about it. find out the truth.
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Dude ... You over thing this and your too insecure.
If I was in Sally's position, just unnoticeable I would not mention you because Annie doesn't know you.. If Sally personal problems against you I don't think she'll ever speak to you or hang out with you in or after school.
Don't think about everything negatively and try not to be that insecure !!
Good Luck =]=]
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