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hi. i'm leticia. (le-tee-see-a) i hate eggs, and rude people. and i have a cute boyfriend.
advice
other than limewire, how else can i download music for free?
all of those websites are good for downlading music for free, however, just a hint of advice: perhaps downloading free music isn't the best thing to do. the chance of getting viruses are greater than ever really, and they're on EVERY site. they may say that frostwire doesn't have viruses, but it does. my computer was crashed from a virus from frostwire, and before that from limewire. so just something for you to think about when you decide what to download.
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(Sorry if this is long) Okay, well there's this boy let's call him Adam. I met Adam my freshmen year. I had two classes with him. We weren't really close friends, but we talked a lot. I guess you can say we were acquaintances. He was really nice with me and he was really great to have around. Then out of nowhere I couldn't bare talking to him because I would freeze up. I caught myself staring at him numerous times. I found myself taking the same way he does just to see him. Long story short. I realize I had feelings for him. I still had him for those two classes and we continued to talk until second semester when my schedule got change and so did out seats. I only had one class with him and he didn't sit anywhere near him. So, we stopped talking. And that really hurt me because he's the only crush I've ever talked to and was friends with.
The summer before my sophomore year I thought about him nonstop. But when sophomore year came by I realized that he has changed...a lot. You could tell that he was until drugs and stuff. And I just wasn't attracted to him. So, I got over him that year. I liked other guys. But something happen towards the end of the year. I started to like him again. I really don't know why. I just found myself passing by where he hangs out all the time.
The summer before junior year I realized that nothing was going to happen. And that I really shouldn't like him. He's not a good example and he's into drugs which I don't approve of. And I guess you can say that I got over him. But on the first day of school I saw him and all these feelings came back. And all my junior year I liked him. I have had a boyfriend during my junior year, but I still had feelings for him. I would see him after my classes and we would look at each other...and I don't know. I just get all these feelings when I look into his eyes. He totally changed from my sophomore year. He looked better. And it looked like he cleaned up his act. And all of my junior year I would walk around school looking for him. So, I liked him.
Well, it's the summer before my senior year. And honestly, I'm tired of having feelings for him. I have tried numerous times to forget about him, but I just can't. Everyday after work I pass by his house just to see if he would be outside (which he never is) I want to stop feeling like this. This is my senior year. I don't want to go all year thinking about him and following him. I'm really getting tired of it.
I don't know what to do. I want to forget about him. But I don't know how. How come everytime I forget about him, I fall for him again. This is my senior year, my last year in high school...I don't want to go all year dealing with him. I just want to get over him. But at the same time I want to talk to him and I want to be close to him like it was freshmen year. I want to be friends with him. I am so confused. Advice anyone?
i really feel that the reason you're so hung up on this guy, still, is because you never actually dated him. so, you're still wanting what you never had. maybe once you did date him, you'd realize it was totally wrong (since you disapprove of drugs and whatnot). and maybe you were wanting to avoid this, but, maybe you should talk to him? because otherwise, this is going to drive you insane. maybe something GOOD will come out of the situation. there could be that chance that he likes you aswell, and you could finally give that very very long awaited romance a chance! or, he won't like you and you guys could remain friends. but i agree with you, that going into your senior year you don't want to have to deal w/ always wanting to see him & stuff. so talking to him is probably your best bet. best of luck!
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how do i break up with my boyfriend if he never answers his phone OR calls me back? its a long distance relationship and thats our only way of communication. but i really need to break up with him. it IS NOT working out.
(hes my first bf)
UGH WHAT SHOULD I DOOO?
should i just forget about him and stop calling him? because i have guys coming at me left and right. so if something happens between me and a guy would that be considered cheating on him because i never actually said it was over cause he never answered!
help??
well basically, (and not to be taken in offensive) are you even in a relationship? because if the ONLY means of communication that you have is through a phone and he never picks up when you call. then i'd say your relationship is definitely dead. so, have fun! and when he finally DOES decide to pick up his phone and talk to his GIRLFRIEND. let him know the deal.
so i am going to start applying to colleges this fall and i have a few in mind. one is across the country. i live on the east coast and want to go to the west coast. i'm really nervous to do it though. i really want to be in the entertainment business and i feel that being closer to L.A. while i go to college would help me out.
do you think i should do it? im worried that i wont make friends because i havent made a new friend since middle school. please advise me lol
if friends is what you're worried about, you just need to get past that. if being in the entertainment business is what you are sure that you want and you're willing to make that huge moving sacrifice, then great! go for it. i mean, in college theres so much more diversity. so many different people. you're bound to meet someone who you enjoy, and have similar interests with. and even if you don't, who cares? because you're there for your DREAM. and yes, perhaps friends make the journey a bit more fun... but its just things that you have to toggle through in your mind. what your willing to sacrifice and what your not. a move is always hard. and a move across the country is definitely going to take some getting use to. but i think if its something you truly truly want, then maybe it's something you should consider.
ok. i will try to make this as unconfusing as i can. i like this boy but he doesn't talk to me. i know he likes me though because i gave him a note that said i liked him and he wrote one back saying he likes me a lot but he cant talk to me because he gets to nervous. i on the other hand have done everything, i called him first, wrote a note first, emailed first. he admitted to my friend that he needs to put effort in but he doesn't know how. lately i feel like I've been losing him. he used to look at me and my friend said the looks he gives me are like I'm the most important thing in his life and i don't get those looks anymore, in my opinion. like, i would take a bullet for him and i feel like I'm falling in love alone but I'm not looking to let go of him yet. also, we both attended a party where someone of my group heard him saying he never liked me to begin with but he gave me a note saying he did. I've been so hurt by him but he really is an amazing guy and i really think i can bring the best out in him. so! my question is: am i losing him? why do you think he said what he did?
hi hun! gosh this was pretty confusing. but from what you've put into your little paragraph... you've never spoken face to face before? if so, that's gonna be super critical in finding out the truth. which is probably what you need to do. confront him in person and let him know that you need to know what he feels about you. otherwise, you're going to always end up in this topsy turvy situation. i mean, if for some disgusting and disrespectful reason he was just playing you all along like you stated you heard, then you DEFINITELY do not need someone like that in your life. and they definitely shouldn't be holding some sort of importance in your life either. so i think your best bet is to confront him, and tell him how you feel. and ask him how HE feels. best of luck sweetie!
I have a "weak personality" as my parents have asked me to change. I get bullied and manipulated easily. In a group of friends, I easily turn into a butt of all jokes. I'm easy. I'm too nice, laid-back, and not very confrontational unless pushed too far.
I'm so weak that I even let a bitchy illegal female servant (under the employment of my aunt and the subject of my anger towards myself) boss me around and got me into trouble for 2 years. Until she got what she deserved when she got caught by immigration.
After her arrest last week, I figured it was the last straw for me. During those 2 years I couldn't fight her. She was illegal and under the employ of a relative. If I reported her, she would've backfired and told the police about my aunt on hiring her. My loving aunt could be jailed for that. Oftentimes I've thought of exacting revenge on that bitchy servant. However, I never had the balls to go to the immigration police because the bitchy servant has a deaf-mute son to feed back in her country. I didn't want her son to suffer from my petty anger. But why is it that it's still gnawing at me; I should've known how to stand up for myself.
I always use karma as an excuse to not be confrontational. But why does it feel like I'm wronging myself.
I want to be a bitch, someone who's tough and knows when to be mean. I don't want to be easy.
Whenever I tried being mean and confrontational, I feel guilty and I can't sleep at night knowing I hurt someone's feelings, even if they wronged me first.
How does one become a calloused, mean, bloodsucking bitch?
Does it mean that just because someone is nice and non-confrontational, then that person is a doormat?
*I apologize for the adjectives I used. I'm just angry today. :(
first off, you do NOT need to be a bitch in order to stand up for yourself. if someone is bullying you, or threatening you in any way, shape, or form. you have a right to defend yourself in the way you think is best, considering all circumstances, mind you. being nice is always such a pleasing thing to do, but you shouldn't let yourself always be walked on. i'm sorry to hear that your friends often use you as the butt of their jokes. if it bothers you, you really should speak up about it otherwise they're never going to know it bothers you. nice people do finish last because they don't let themselves be heard. by no means whatsoever do you need to be a total 'blood sucking bitch' to get people to respect you and to fend for yourself. and you shouldn't always be a total bitch, because then you're just stooping to the levels of the people that always wronged you before hand. if you've seen or felt what it's like, why would you do it onto others, right?
ok i have never given a guy a hand job before. I really want to give my bf one but i have no clue how. I don't even know what will happen. I am kinda nervous and i need advice on what to do and what will happen. Also how long should i do it?
i think if you're that nervous, you should probably rethink what you're about to do. your boyfriend should understand. if not, there's not really any special techniques to giving someone a hand job. i'm sure everyone (including you) knows the basics. just, enjoy what you're doing. don't concentrate too hard, or make yourself too paranoid about it. i mean, foreplay like that should be intimate and fun. so don't worry too much! one small tip however, is don't be too rough because it does tend to hurt the guys. and also, as gross as this may sound, dont use TOO much saliva during stuff like that. because it dries quick and burns.
Hey guys. im 13 and i met this pretty hot girl at my friends party last night, and she gave me her number and she was telling me how like gorgeous and hot i am and i told her back. She is going to a diff high school but she still wants to go out with me. i was wondering if it will work. ok now for the making out.She asked me if i wanted to hang out and i was like yeah where? and she said the kids house that had the party last night. i was like cool. what could be do there though? she replied with " make out :) " so im thinking that shes obviously made out before. i said " yeaahh we should ill ask my parents when i can go ". iv never made out before and i really need some helpp with this. i also have braces if it helps you answer. what should i have ready? gum , mints, liip balm, ?
so cute! hope your makeout session goes smoothly. ;)
some tips:
1. don't overly stress out about the situation. making out with someone should be natural, and fun.
2. your braces should be fine, they aren't gonna cut her up or anything. so don't be so nervous about that either.
3. be totally calm! it's making out, not surgery. i mean, just seriously go with the flow and just.. kiss. there's no special technique or anything. just remember not to let your saliva just drown her mouth or anything. because otherwise she might not invite you back. ;)
goodluck!
i am 14 years old and i am a girl my name is alicia.ok i went out with this guy,like for 2 weeks,he dumped me i felt down and deppressed i hated life..i got over it and like messed up stuff around his neiborhood like i wrote NO ANTHONYS ALLOWED.and stuff like that,i felt bad but i was too mad to relise.then like 4 months later my friend asked him if he hates me and he said no we talked online randomly for a week,then we just stopped communicating.now i still like love him and he is always on my mind.i was to stop thinking about him and stay single...but i want to be his friend too like sooo much..he barley notices me and i think he is mad at me cause i went on my friends sn and IM'd him and was talking and he found out and he gott pissed off.hes ok now i guess..but how do i get him to notice me and like me or be my friend
THANKS! ^.^ sincerly,alicia
you need to give him some space. you've gotta remember that he's 14/15/16? i mean, most boys that age aren't even ready to comitt to anything, let alone a relationship. at least not for very long. and if you went out for two weeks, i doubt he's in love with you. i think you've got like a cute little crush going on, but you're taking it a bit far with the dramatics (i.e. writing name on walls, using other peoples screen names) give him some space. and talk to him as if he WAS your friend, and not someone you're totally in love with.
hi My names chloe and i broke up with my friend erin i dont know what to do when i we make friends she starts being nasty then when i play with her friends she hurts my feeling and takes away my friends what shall i do.
wow. if that's how she really acts with you. REALLY REALLY acts with you. dump her. why do you need someone like that in your life? that's not a friend at all, in my opinion.
I'm in high school. And, there's this guy, I'll call him M. Ok so me and M known eachother since Elementary school. I know he liked me up until 9th grade (we stopped talking after that so not sure what to think now), I know he liked me.. well because his best friend screamed it out many times. M just sat there and blushed, never denied any of it for years. I never liked him that way..mainly because I just looked at us as friends, and I was younger so I guess he wasn't my type or something back then! The problem I'm having is now we're going to be in 11th grade, I'm not sure he likes me anymore..but I like him now =/. I found him on myspace and added him, because although we had classes together in 9th and 10th grade..we barely talked because we were never sitting near eachother or anything. Anyways, after I found him, he accepted my add..and I said hi to him in a comment..and he messaged me and we talked for an hour and a half through messages. I'm not sure why..but, I find myself liking him a lot! After an hour and a half..I told him I had to go and I asked for his number. He said "Yes of course u can have it" and gave it to me. I texted him and said "hey, just wanted to make sure i got the right numbers haha" and he texted back "yeah u did ha". After that..I asked what he was doing. Now, I'm not sure..maybe he didn't get the text or something or maybe he's just too busy because after I asked that, he stopped replying. But, anyways. I just don't know if he likes me anymore or not! I wish school started already so I could figure this stuff out easier. Please help me!
Thankyou :)
first off! boys are boys. i mean, you've gotta remember that. so, chances are he forgot to answer your text. if he willingly gave you the number, he wants to talk. :) also. don't get so paranoid! while you've got a variety of means of communicating with him, make him remember why he liked you before. be yourself, and if the spark was there once, chances are it could be there again. and when school starts, perhaps more talking and hanging out could ease things together better for you and him. good luck!
I know this is long, but please help me out.
So, let's just say there are 3 chicks - Sally, Franny, and Annie.
Sally, Franny, and Annie are all friends. I hang out with Sally on a regular basis outside of school, but not necessarily AT school. Franny and I hang out at school (and sometimes outside of school). Annie is someone who I've only talked to a couple of times. We're just acquaintances. I'm not really friends with her, but like I said before, Annie is friends with Sally and Franny.
One day, Franny invited Sally, Annie, and me to go see a movie together. We did. I thought it went well. I talked to Franny and Sally as usual (since they're my good friends, obviously) and talked to Annie too (even though I don't know her that well). We shared some laughs. We weren't together that long, but there wasn't any awkwardness. None of us had hung out together before (I usually hang out with SALLY and FRANNY separately, but I'm not really friends with Annie, so obviously I haven't) but it was still decently fun.
So, today I viewed Sally's Facebook (whom I chat with a lot HAPPILY about the plans we have for this weekend). It appeared she was having a convo w/ Annie (once again, the one whom I don't know too well) about our outing. So, out of curiosity, I looked at what she said to Annie:
"blah blah blah it was fun, yada yada. you, me, franny, so-and-so (not me, but a girl they both know)? SOON."
That's basically, in a nutshell, what she said. Totally didn't even include me in the sentence at all about hanging out again. I'm starting to wonder why she wouldn't want to include me. Is it something personal? Because Sally talks to me normally over Facebook. I thought the outing went well, even though I'm not familiar with Annie.
Maybe she just didn't include me b/c I don't know Annie? What do you think?
personally, i wouldn't think too much of it. maybe she didn't mention you because she just wants to actually hangout with just them? maybe that does come off as a bit rude, but you can't expect people to include you in on everything, right? or maybe because you and annie aren't as close friends as the other girl and her are, that could be a reason why. seeing as how i don't know the social background between frannie and annie and that other chick, i can't quiet estimate why she didn't include you. but! if it honestly bothers you, and continues to bother you... maybe you should just talk to her about it. find out the truth.