i am 14 years old and i am a girl my name is alicia.ok i went out with this guy,like for 2 weeks,he dumped me i felt down and deppressed i hated life..i got over it and like messed up stuff around his neiborhood like i wrote NO ANTHONYS ALLOWED.and stuff like that,i felt bad but i was too mad to relise.then like 4 months later my friend asked him if he hates me and he said no we talked online randomly for a week,then we just stopped communicating.now i still like love him and he is always on my mind.i was to stop thinking about him and stay single...but i want to be his friend too like sooo much..he barley notices me and i think he is mad at me cause i went on my friends sn and IM'd him and was talking and he found out and he gott pissed off.hes ok now i guess..but how do i get him to notice me and like me or be my friend
THANKS! ^.^ sincerly,alicia
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? l3tici4 answered Sunday August 2 2009, 12:05 am: you need to give him some space. you've gotta remember that he's 14/15/16? i mean, most boys that age aren't even ready to comitt to anything, let alone a relationship. at least not for very long. and if you went out for two weeks, i doubt he's in love with you. i think you've got like a cute little crush going on, but you're taking it a bit far with the dramatics (i.e. writing name on walls, using other peoples screen names) give him some space. and talk to him as if he WAS your friend, and not someone you're totally in love with. [ l3tici4's advice column | Ask l3tici4 A Question ]
ohitscassidy answered Saturday August 1 2009, 11:11 pm: well, try not to do anything that upsets him.. like writing no annthonys allowed, and Iming him on other peoples screen names. give him some space to think about what he wants, be yourself talk to him on your own screen name, dont sound obssesive though because that can scare him away. you said you guys dated for only 2 weeks, and your saying your in love with him?
you may be, but chances are this is just a crush, there are plenty of guys out there so if this one doesnt like you as much as you like him then he isnt worth it, just move on i know thats better said than done but trust me once you met another guy, youll forget about this one, its how teenage love goes.
DrakeStreet answered Saturday August 1 2009, 7:53 pm: Well there are two things that could be going on right here either he likes you and is kinda mad at you and whenever you come up he just remembers eveything bad about you and gets kinda angry or he really does not like you and does not want to talk to you i huess what you need to do is confront him tell him how you feel but do it person that's my advice tell me if it works and sorry if it doesn't [ DrakeStreet's advice column | Ask DrakeStreet A Question ]
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