ok i have never given a guy a hand job before. I really want to give my bf one but i have no clue how. I don't even know what will happen. I am kinda nervous and i need advice on what to do and what will happen. Also how long should i do it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? l3tici4 answered Sunday August 2 2009, 12:11 am: i think if you're that nervous, you should probably rethink what you're about to do. your boyfriend should understand. if not, there's not really any special techniques to giving someone a hand job. i'm sure everyone (including you) knows the basics. just, enjoy what you're doing. don't concentrate too hard, or make yourself too paranoid about it. i mean, foreplay like that should be intimate and fun. so don't worry too much! one small tip however, is don't be too rough because it does tend to hurt the guys. and also, as gross as this may sound, dont use TOO much saliva during stuff like that. because it dries quick and burns. [ l3tici4's advice column | Ask l3tici4 A Question ]
Cux answered Saturday August 1 2009, 3:07 pm: You want to do it, but you don't know how, what will happen, and you're nervous.
This tells me that you are NOT ready to do this. So, here's my advice on what to do:
Don't do it. You obviously aren't mature enough to handle the consequences of "what will happen", so this act is not something you should be partaking in.
But, if you're going to disregard everything I've just told you, well then ask your boyfriend what he wants.
x2yankeesfan2x answered Saturday August 1 2009, 3:06 am: ehh theres nothing really too it haha. you just basically lay him down and you take his bottoms off and you pretty much just grab him and go up and down with ur hand fast or slow change it up see what he likes just dont be too rough it might hurt. and i would keep going until he cums..other wise there wouldnt be a point lol. you will probably get some sperm on your hand but thats about it. what you do with it is up to you. wipe it off swallow etc...if you feel comfortable with it you could also put your mouth on it somewhat like on the top or run your tounge down the side where the vein like thing is.
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