hey my ex is trying to give me this crap about sex not being good for her when we had it and that she faked orgasms and stuff.. isnt there a way to tell like while fingering her when she would say she was cumming i could feel it contracting inside and the fact cum was coming out like isnt there physical things that happen that cant be faked?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? GodsGift2Writing answered Sunday August 2 2009, 10:04 pm: Okay, I'll start with this. I'm going to take a guess that you and your ex did not leave off on good terms? If so, then she's really just trying to mess with you. There is usually a good chance of being able to tell if a woman is "faking" an orgasm. If a woman is enjoying sexual intimacy, she will be noticeably wet. THAT, my friend, can only happen with enjoyment from sexual desire. So, yes, physical things like that can not be faked. Your ex is probably just telling you the sex wasn't that great either because she's having trouble getting it, or simply because she misses yours. Don't let it get to ya (:
BahaiMa22 answered Saturday August 1 2009, 4:03 pm: If she is your exgirlfriend then more than likely she is lying to you about it because she knows it will bother you. However for the straight answer girls can get wet down there and not finish yes it is possible. [ BahaiMa22's advice column | Ask BahaiMa22 A Question ]
Razhie answered Saturday August 1 2009, 2:04 pm: Sure there are physical things that can't be faked, but as the guy outside of her body, it's unlikely you'll notice them.
Contracting the muscles can be done by choice, and women are can stay lubricated through the entire act. Only very few, rare women, get suddenly more wet when they reach orgasm.
So basically, no. You can't tell. You can make a few educated guesses, but you can't tell for certain.
Just stop talking to her now.
If this girl feels the need to be this catty and obnoxious after the breakup, then you two should simply not speak any longer. You aren't doing anyone any favors by allowing this childish bullying to continue. You'll never see eye to eye, and you'll never know the whole truth, so please just let this stupid arguments die. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Leen468 answered Saturday August 1 2009, 12:16 pm: honestly, yeah that can happen. sometimes my vagina muscles contract and i get wet but i dont come. it seems like i am, but i dont get the sensations. so yeah she could be telling the truth, but either she is a bitch cuz i never fake orgasms. if i know im not gonna come i just tell him to stop, not in the mood. [ Leen468's advice column | Ask Leen468 A Question ]
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