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Is age 16, female, 'very beautiful' (what most men call me) normal to STILL be a virgin ? I think something's wrong with me ! I'm starting to feel depressed that all my friends arent. help !

hey im lexa,

do worry hunnie..there is nothing wrong with you or being a virgin! it just makes u a better person then all the skanks and sluts in the world that are giving out!! be proud!!

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hey im 18/f and on thursday i have my first pap smear and pelvic exam. Im kinda nervous because i've never had one done and i've heard that it hurts a little bit. I am sexually active and on birth control so they need to see if everything is good like a yearly check up. The only thing i've had done before was like an ultra sound of my ovaries they like stuck a probe up my vagina and looked at them. Somebody who has had these done please tell me how the experience was for you. Thanks a bunch!

-Ashley

Hey Ashley,

Im Lexa btw lol
Im 17 and I had a pap smear bfor and I can tell you this..It all depends on the doctor you go to.Some say that male doctors are more gentle with us then women are. My doctor was a female and Im not gonna lie to you it hurt a little, but its something all females growing up should do to make sure we are okay! You be fine : ) Let me know how it goes!! Good luck

Love,
Lexa

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