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wrong with me ?
Is age 16, female, 'very beautiful' (what most men call me) normal to STILL be a virgin ? I think something's wrong with me ! I'm starting to feel depressed that all my friends arent. help !
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It shows how messed up this world is right now when you feel strange that you're a virgin, and think it's normal that your peers are not. You are the normal one, sweetie. 16 y.o. is way too young to start having sex. My last girlfriend started at 16 (she's 33 now), and it caused her all sorts of problems and hangups with sex and relationships in general. Wait until you find someone you love, who loves you, whom you feel safe around, and whom you trust. Then get to know each other very well, and discuss your relationship and what intimacy means to both of you. In a perfect world, I would say wait until marriage, but I know that's not always possible.
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So ? i'm a virgin and i'm 17 ? doesn't mean i need to have sex just cause my friends have ? besides being a virgin is a good thing you know just comes to show that your not easy to guys that call you pretty ? when you find that guy you'll know when to do it,don't go loosing it anyone.
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I'm 17 and I'm a virgin. I get the "you're so pretty!" compliments, too (not to be conceited, because I don't believe them anyways.)
Regardless, It's totally normal to be a virgin. If anything, it makes you even more beautiful because you have values and morals and aren't just throwing your virginity away like other girls our age. Just because your friends aren't virgins doesn't mean you shouldn't be one. Stick to your values.
:)
-Laura (17-f)
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im 16 and im still a virgin. dont worry about it at all ! it shows that your not just looking for sex, and your acually living ur life, and thinking about all that stuff that could happen AFTER the sex, like pregnancy and all that other stuff. dont worrry about it at all trust me, its normallll ! <3
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yes it is normal to be a virgin that means you have a good head on your shoulders.Im 17 and still a virgin.nothing's wrong with you its just some girls wanna wait and some dont.
just wait for the right guy to come along
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Nothing is wrong with you, Im still a virgin too! :-) feel better!!!
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hey im lexa,
do worry hunnie..there is nothing wrong with you or being a virgin! it just makes u a better person then all the skanks and sluts in the world that are giving out!! be proud!!
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It is very normal. Just because the rest of your friends have lost their virginity doesn't mean you need to jump on the bandwagon. I can understand feeling left out, but you don't need to have sex to fit in.
Don't you ever remember hearing those Not Me, Not Now commercials? Don't fall into peer pressure, it's not worth it.
I suggest you wait until you're completely ready to have sex. Do not rush into something as extreme as sex because it is a very adult thing and comes with very adult consequences that I can easily say no 16 year old is ready for. Chances are you will regret it. Just wait it out sweetie. Chances are you'll find a guy who loves you for you & that you'll love very much. You just have to be patient. Don't worry about being a virgin though. It's a good thing. :)
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oh hun please wait at least until you are sure you are ready. I am 18 years old now. Dont get my wrong i do not in any ways regret my son, i wish i would have waiting longer but i got pregnant at 15. it was hard trust me. saving your self is amazing to. i wish i could have.
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Wait until you are absolutely ready and until you have no doubts in your mind.
Honestly, that's why I believe waiting until marriage is the best idea.
But, if you can't wait that long, then just wait until you have found the right guy.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Dear wrong with me ?,
NO! Nothing is wrong with you at all! In fact, I think something is wrong with your friends. You are saving yourself for the right guy, and thats awesome! You're a classy girl, which is even cooler. I'm sorry if you feel depressed honey, but NOTHING is wrong here. In fact, things are really right. I am a firm believer in the no-sex-before-marriage thing. Now, of course, I understand that not everyone has the same look on it as me, but I'll tell you how I see it.
Think of it this way, its like, before you even knew your husband, you had been saving yourself for him your entire life. Now maybe its just me, but I find that extremely romantic.
But if you don't believe in that, I at least encourage you to save your virginity for someone special, someone you can trust, and someone you love. Because once you give it to someone, you can't get it back.
Believe me, you are perfect, and if your friends give you crap about being a virgin then screw them because you're being responsible. 16 is pretty darn early for sex, and some of your friends might not see the dangers of having sex so early. So have fun with the boys, but don't do anything you're not ready for, and don't rush into things just because you think your the only one not doing it. Keep being awesome, babe.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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No way.
Wait until you find the right guy, you'll regret it if you don't wait until you're in a good relationship with a guy who treats you well :)
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