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Last Update: August 23, 2009
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Every time my boyfriend and i want to have sex he seems to not be able to get hard. I think it's because he masturbates earlier during the day and then when we try it doesn't work. It gets hard when i give him a blow job but as soon as I stop sucking he gets soft again. We have even tried different positions and everything , and then goes on to blame it on me accidentally biting it once earlier . I don't know what I'm doing wrong if i am. And it isn't as though our sex life is old because we have never had sex. He seems to be addicted to masturbating and doesn't seem to go long before doing it again.
What could be the problem? Any tips would be appreciated. (link)
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There are many psychological reasons why this could happen:
He may not be ready to have sex with you (too soon), he may not feel safe emotionally, anxiety about pregnancy or other issues, trust issues, nervousness, he may not be sexually attracted to you (men are visual; try leaving the lights on). There may not enough body contact during sex (some positions maximize skin on skin contact, like side by side sex vs. doggy style).
My last girlfriend wanted to have sex before I was ready, so I had a similar experience. Once I felt ready (a few weeks after she wanted to), though, we had ALOT of sex. I hope this helped.
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Hey, I have 2 questions.
ONE : Do guys like when girls swallow their cum ? Is that like a turn on or something ?
TWO : If you do decide to swallow, is there any chance of getting prego, or is it a 0 % chance ?
THANKS :) (link)
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Every guy I've ever known, without exception, prefers it greatly. Especially in a relationship, It's a feeling of being totally accepted and found attractive by your girlfriend. As to your second question, there's no chance of pregnancy whatsoever.
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Is age 16, female, 'very beautiful' (what most men call me) normal to STILL be a virgin ? I think something's wrong with me ! I'm starting to feel depressed that all my friends arent. help ! (link)
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It shows how messed up this world is right now when you feel strange that you're a virgin, and think it's normal that your peers are not. You are the normal one, sweetie. 16 y.o. is way too young to start having sex. My last girlfriend started at 16 (she's 33 now), and it caused her all sorts of problems and hangups with sex and relationships in general. Wait until you find someone you love, who loves you, whom you feel safe around, and whom you trust. Then get to know each other very well, and discuss your relationship and what intimacy means to both of you. In a perfect world, I would say wait until marriage, but I know that's not always possible.
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