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Making out for the first time


Question Posted Saturday August 1 2009, 2:27 am

Hey guys. im 13 and i met this pretty hot girl at my friends party last night, and she gave me her number and she was telling me how like gorgeous and hot i am and i told her back. She is going to a diff high school but she still wants to go out with me. i was wondering if it will work. ok now for the making out.She asked me if i wanted to hang out and i was like yeah where? and she said the kids house that had the party last night. i was like cool. what could be do there though? she replied with " make out :) " so im thinking that shes obviously made out before. i said " yeaahh we should ill ask my parents when i can go ". iv never made out before and i really need some helpp with this. i also have braces if it helps you answer. what should i have ready? gum , mints, liip balm, ?

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l3tici4 answered Sunday August 2 2009, 12:08 am:
so cute! hope your makeout session goes smoothly. ;)
some tips:

1. don't overly stress out about the situation. making out with someone should be natural, and fun.
2. your braces should be fine, they aren't gonna cut her up or anything. so don't be so nervous about that either.
3. be totally calm! it's making out, not surgery. i mean, just seriously go with the flow and just.. kiss. there's no special technique or anything. just remember not to let your saliva just drown her mouth or anything. because otherwise she might not invite you back. ;)

goodluck!

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Cux answered Saturday August 1 2009, 3:12 pm:
I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]

But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss.

Just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.

Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.

There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.

From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:

1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.


My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.

www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699


--Jack
(17/m)

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NiiShaBayBiie09 answered Saturday August 1 2009, 11:08 am:
Hey! iim 15 and I rememba the 1st tyme I maDe out I think I was abOut your age [and I had braces] so I doubt that should interfer with anythng and you should mayKe sure ur breath smells good so I chewd on starburst b4 I went to me him =) O and yeah mayKe sure your lips arent chapped the really turns a girl off anyways hoped I helped you enough
-NiiSha BayBiie

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