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http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=9367&category_id=256
i think i want this bag but i dont know.. do you guys think its cute? (link)
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I think that it is wicked cute. Haha now I want it. You should definately get it, and wear it with a cute outfit.
Love,
Nicole x0x0
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14/f
I have never been fingered in my life, only rubbed.
My boyfriend tried to finger me, and when he BEARLY pushed I asked him to stop because it stung...
Is this normal..i've yet to be fingered because I am afraid..
My question is this:
How bad does it hurt to get fingered..
Or anything along those lines for someone who has never done anything sexual..
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It shouldn't hurt too bad unless he is being too ruff, and if he is you should either stop, or ask if he could take it easy. Have fun, you should enjoy it.
Love,
Nicole x0x0
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13/f
I am going to a party Saturday with people from another school who I do not know very well. It's just a birthday party; but supposedly the guy who throws these parties makes them crazy fun [hookups, major freak lines and stuff].
The thing is, I need a cute, sexy, not sleezy outfit. Skirts are a "no no"... I do not want to look like I am dressing up.
I dress sort of preppy/vintagey.
Does anyone have any good ideas? (link)
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Boot cut, dark jeans, and umm tight tank top. Make sure the top is hot, but not too slutty, pink or light blue would be nice. Have fun :)
Love,
Nicole x0x0
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I am going to be getting braces over the summer of 2007. I would like to know if anyone had any tips, hints, or advice about anything about braces.
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Well... People say to get invisible braces and stuff, but really thats not the way to go. Why??... because if stuff gets stuck in them you can totally tell, and it is wicked gross to be talking to somone with like lets say spinach in their teath. EWW!!! Also when picking your colors NEVER get white, same reason as before.
: ) hope that I helped,
Nicole x0x0
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hi, i'm a fourteen year old female
& i'd like to know what's a healthy amout of calories i should eat in a day
not really to lose weight, but be more healthy
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A healthy amount of calories to consume each day for a fourteen year old is 2,000-2,300. Even a little more is fine if your are very active in sports, and stuff. But it also depends on your size and height. But if you are average size then about 2,000-2,300 is good.
Hope I helped.
Nicole x0x0x0x0
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Lately I've been feeling.. not perfect. I have had a stomach ache and I sometimes feel like I'm going to throw up. It only happens after I ate... maybe is it that I over-eat? I am lucky in that I can eat what I want and not really gain a lot of weight... so I do eat a lot. Right now I have a head ache (third this week) and I feel sick to my stomach. Last night the upper part of my stomach hurt when I breathed? Anyone know what's wrong with me or something I can do that could cure this? I have felt like this during the evenings of this week and I can't be sick tomorrow because I have lacrosse and a soccer party to go to. Please help! (link)
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You might have heartburn. There are certain medications to cure it like Pepcid, Tagamet, and Zantac that will help you if you have heartburn. You should probably conact you doctor, just to make sure that you don't have anything serious.
Feel Better :)
Nicole x0x0x0x0
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Is it possible to fall in love when you are thirteen?
Im asking because its been 7 mounths since my ex bf broke up with me and now we are good friends and everytime i see him I cry because I know he'll never like me so do you think its puppy love? (link)
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Im soo sorry. Yah I know how you feel no matter what he does you will always feel the same about him right?? Well love can come at any age and at anytime. So yah you could love him.
Feel better :)
Nicole x0x0x0
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I want a healthy relationship.
Before, I thought I did have one. I told a friend that I never had a fight with my boyfriend at the time. We were going out for about 9-11 months straight and we haven't had any argument [screaming, avoiding calls, etc kind of thing]
She said WE WOULD HAVE A FIGHT. and that our relationship would be healthy if it did.
but we never did.
Is Conflict a MUST for a good relationship?
Because I'm all good and there' no problems.. like fights. I honestly don't like drama.
Is that bad?
In my relationships we don't fight.. It's just something we don't do. We talk about things and compromise
Is that .. wrong or what?
Or was she jealous? (link)
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Well it depends on your opinion of a relationship. Some people think that a relationship is boring if there aren't any conflicts. But other like to keep things normal and not fight. You both just have different ideas about the situation. I think that it is great that you and your bf don't fight, but then again eventually you might have a fight. But don't worry about what she says, and most importantly don't start a fight with him because he might think that you are just trying to find a reason to break up with him, and he might try to break up with you first.
Hope I helped. ASk me stuff anytime :)
Nicole x0x0x0
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If a guy says a girl is "Alright" and then says another girl is "Cute". Is one better then the other, or does he basically mean the same thing about both girls? (link)
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It depends on the guy's tone of voice. If he is sarcastic lol then he is just joking around, and he probably thinks that she is really ugly. But if he says both like he means it, than cute is better than alright.
Hope I helped.
Nicole x0x0x0 :)
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Well...my friend has this really cute boyfriend and whenever I see him and her together I get a little jealous.He talks to me but he just talks to me a little.What do I do?? (link)
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I was in the same situation. Ok, so you you get a little jealous when you see them together. Well what I did was talk to the guy more than I did when they didn't go out. (Your not stealing her boy your just trying to be friends with him she cant get mad at you) So eventually they broke up. And me and her "ex" are still best friends and she is wicked jealous of me because she doesn't talk to him anymore. Thw guy will probably realize how much he likes you if you hang out more. Flirt with him whenever you get the chance to as well.
Hope I helped. Ask me more questions whenever you pleasee.
Nicole x0x0x0
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ok, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 4 days and tonight we went to see a movie. well during the movie she leaned her head on my shoudler so i leaned my head on her head and we held hands, usual stuff. how can i tell when she wants to make out or not? im not the type of person who is straight up so i dont like to ask. wut r some physical things that can sign she wants to make out? please help me. (link)
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If she looks into your eyes, then you know that she wants to make out with you. But even if she doesn't look into your eyes if you want to make a move go for it. I am pretty sure that she will just follow your lead. I mean you are the guy.
Ask me questions whenever
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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15/m uk..
Ok, so ive known this girl for quite a while now and we went out for 8 months non-stop, then i ended the relationship hoping to give all my time to concentrate on my studies.. that didnt happen.. as the days went on shes all i thought about and i always wanted to text/ring her, spend time with her or just do anything with her! While we were apart, we kind of made a deal that we'd both wait till after our exams to get back into a relationship - as when i ended things my feelings for her hadnt changed.. Alot happened in that time, sitting on other guys laps, she had feelings for another guy etc. I really tried to keep her feeling for me and only me, i tried my best, but it wasnt good enough. So i did what i wanted to do for ages, i asked her out again but said we should keep it a secret from everyone. This has been going on for a few weeks now, and things are going great. But, still i feel insecure about her and most other guys she is with.. I just feel like every guy she is with is better than me in someway, and that one day she will see that for herself and leave me for them. I really really love this girl, she means the world to me and id do anything for her! She is all i ever think about, and the only person i wanna spend my time with. How do i deal with all this insecurity?
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Well if she would choose other guys over you she must be strange. LOL JK JK. You sound like such a great guy. Don't worry about her and the other guys. She just probably likes getting the attention. I am sure she wouldn't leave you for anyone else without a good reason. You have no reason to be jealous of the other guys, I can tell that your better than all of the other guys.
Hope I helped.
Nicole x0x0x0
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Ok so me and my boyfriend have known eachother for a year now and weve liked eachother a whole year and so now weve been dating bout 8 months now and we kissed after 8 months of our relationship because im prety respectable and he understood and never tried to go over any line and waited..so afetr 8 months weve kissed and i feel so SLUTY and i feel so bad i think im such a whore and i dont know why..i just never liked being touched and now weve made out and i feel so bad..can i know why ..am i slut? hhes the only guy i ever kised and the last one..i wana be with him forever (link)
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Don't worry. You are definately not a slut! You waited a long time to kiss him, and you really have feelings for him. Sluts are like girls that do stuff with guys just because they like to, and they don't even have feelings for the guys they do stuff with.
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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my boyfriend is really hot and cold 1 minute it seems like he ignores me but then the next minute hes all lovey what do i do???? (link)
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My only advice is that if you are clingy that may be why he plays hot and cold. He might just want space. But if your not then you should break up with him. Hes not worth it if he is just being a jerk to you part of the time your going out.
Hope I helped.
Nicole x0x0x0
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hey im 15/f and I was wondering if I should ask this guy to a dance. I talk to him during one of my classes.
The thing is, I already asked him to sadie hawkins dance and he came with me.
I dont love him but i sorta like him? I have another formal dance coming up in like 2-3 weeks. I wanna ask him again, but I dont want him thinking that I like him or Im in love with him. Cause hes probably thinking im a weird freshman.
So I dont know if I should ask him or just bring a friend. For this dance its better to bring a guy but if i have no one , i can bring a friend. i was gonna ask other freshman guyfriends but either they have a girlfriend, or someone asked him. The person Im wondering about is a sophomore.
At the previous sadie hawkins dance, he was stuck with freshmans and some sophomore from another school. If I ask him to this dance, he will most likely bestuck with freshman again, except for one of his freshman friends who do track with him. :] I mean, at least he has one friend... but maybe he wants to go with sophomores this time..
Once we get to the dance freshmans, sohpomores, juniors and seniors will be there so i guess its fine.
I just dont want him to think im in love with him if I ask him again.
Should I ask him?
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OMG YAH! If this guy really likes you then he won't care who else is at the dance. He will just be happy that he is with you. And don't worry he wont think that you are in love with him, but he will probably be happy that you like him.
Hope I helped!
Nicole x0x0x0
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okay i have one question. How can pornstars have so much sex and not seem to get diseases or pregnant? (link)
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They might be on birth control. And they are probably safe when chosing the two people. Like they probably wouldn't have a person do that "stuff" :/ if they had aids.
Hope I answered your question.
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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Okay. So there's this guy(he's 15) and I like him(14). We're at this spot where I feel like we're more than friends, but he doesn't see it. He is very... blind? He asked me out two halloweens ago at a dance, and then 9 months later told me he didn't know we were going out. >_< Anyway, I love this guy, a lot(no its not dumb high school stuff. I want him. For life. I would MARRY him if he asked me. srsly.)
Last night we went to see a play(slasreveR neveS[he's so backwards... he loved it]) and the whole time we were messing around, playing with each other; poking, teasing. Afterward, I called for our ride, and we were hanging out in the lobby with this girl, and it was fine, totally natural, no jealousy, no flirting with her. Well, so we got in the car, and the next thing I knew, his hand was with mine. I'm like WHAT? he didn't hold it all through the show, but the minute people couldn't see us...? He also brought me a present... Earrings. GORGEOUS earrings. darkish silver, circular with red beads. perfect for me.
the only thing is, he doesn't like me. I asked him to the Sweethearts Dance at V-day, and he said IMMEDIATELY; "Just as friends right?"(he went, we danced the one slow dance)
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His problem is probably commitment. It sounds like he likes you, but he just doesn't want to be ur bf because maybe he has had gf trouble before and doesn't want to get hurt again. Maybe you should ask him why he doesn't want to be anything, but friends. If he is really your friend than he will give you an honest answer and you might end up going out with him or just friends. But nothing can be worse then wondering. Trust me talk to him :)
Hope I helped. If you have more questions go ahead and ask me.
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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Hi.
I'm 14/F.
To start off, I hate my life.
My parents hate me and they say I should die.
I don't enjoy life. I cut myself all the time to take a way the pain. My mom won't take me to see a doctor since she hates me.
School is rough. I'm called names everywhere I walk. I'm made fun of for no reason. I feel hated.
I feel like I don't belong. I feel like if I committed suicide, I would definitely be happier. People would be happier.
I know you probably either want to say "Suicide Isn't the way out!" Or "Your parents really love you!"
They don't my parents don't. They told me they don't.
I feel like I don't belong. I've had so many breakdowns. I sit alone at lunch. I don't have any friends. What should I do? Whats a good way to commit suicide?
Please help.
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Well I know that you don't want to hear this, but Suicide isn't the way out!!! You should talk to an adult that you trust and tell them about what happens in school and at home. A responsible adult can really help you. If you ever want to talk, ask me more... I really want to help.
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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15, boy
I think out of all of my friends, I'm probably the only one that hasn't had a girlfriend. Is that weird? I'm a really independent person and I'm not really into any girls. It's almost like there isn't anyone worth going out with at school. I'm also pretty picky so it feels like I have no chance.
When people would ask me why I didn't have a girlfriend, my usual response was that I was so busy and didn't have time for that stuff, or that no one would really like me that much. I mean, I really don't know if any girl would want to go out with me. I'm really tall for my age, I'm in marching band, I'm one of 3 guys on my swim team, and I run track. I get really good grades as well, so basically I'm the typical nerd, or thats what people say. haha.
Most of my friends have had girlfriends before, and they usually end in as a train wreck. They always tell me that I'm not missing out on anything, but sometimes I'd like to know what it's like. Is it really as great as some people say, or is it just a waste of time?
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No of course its not weird!! Guys become attracted to girls at their own pace. If you don't feel the need to have a gf then why have a gf. Its true that you may be missing out on somethings like kissing and "stuff" ,but your not missing out on heartbreaks, and stuff like that. Eventually you will become interested in girls, and you will have a great gf. Just take your time, and don't worry!
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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If you stop eating meat in general, it can help weight loss? (link)
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No, meat give you protein and energy to be active. In fact sometimes eating meat helps you to lose weight because you have more energy to run, and play sports. If you do start to be a vegetarian though, make sure you get enough proein in your diet to keep you healthy!
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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