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Real Love..
15/m uk..
Ok, so ive known this girl for quite a while now and we went out for 8 months non-stop, then i ended the relationship hoping to give all my time to concentrate on my studies.. that didnt happen.. as the days went on shes all i thought about and i always wanted to text/ring her, spend time with her or just do anything with her! While we were apart, we kind of made a deal that we'd both wait till after our exams to get back into a relationship - as when i ended things my feelings for her hadnt changed.. Alot happened in that time, sitting on other guys laps, she had feelings for another guy etc. I really tried to keep her feeling for me and only me, i tried my best, but it wasnt good enough. So i did what i wanted to do for ages, i asked her out again but said we should keep it a secret from everyone. This has been going on for a few weeks now, and things are going great. But, still i feel insecure about her and most other guys she is with.. I just feel like every guy she is with is better than me in someway, and that one day she will see that for herself and leave me for them. I really really love this girl, she means the world to me and id do anything for her! She is all i ever think about, and the only person i wanna spend my time with. How do i deal with all this insecurity?
Thanks..
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Well if she would choose other guys over you she must be strange. LOL JK JK. You sound like such a great guy. Don't worry about her and the other guys. She just probably likes getting the attention. I am sure she wouldn't leave you for anyone else without a good reason. You have no reason to be jealous of the other guys, I can tell that your better than all of the other guys.
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Nicole x0x0x0
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To me it sound like she has a great man! and thats you! no one is better the no one in anyway, just tell her that you love her to death but can she please stop doing that....or maybe she is just doing that to get your attention, cuz maybe she want you and her to be like that
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think about it if shes with you she must love you and dont worry about those other guys she obviously sees something for in you then she does in them dont feel insceure it seems like the feeling is mutual to me so dont worry and get jealous she wont leave you if she loves you trust that and be less insecure and more happy that you got her back.
good luck
hope i helped
-ash
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