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Should I Ask Him To the Dance?
hey im 15/f and I was wondering if I should ask this guy to a dance. I talk to him during one of my classes.
The thing is, I already asked him to sadie hawkins dance and he came with me.
I dont love him but i sorta like him? I have another formal dance coming up in like 2-3 weeks. I wanna ask him again, but I dont want him thinking that I like him or Im in love with him. Cause hes probably thinking im a weird freshman.
So I dont know if I should ask him or just bring a friend. For this dance its better to bring a guy but if i have no one , i can bring a friend. i was gonna ask other freshman guyfriends but either they have a girlfriend, or someone asked him. The person Im wondering about is a sophomore.
At the previous sadie hawkins dance, he was stuck with freshmans and some sophomore from another school. If I ask him to this dance, he will most likely bestuck with freshman again, except for one of his freshman friends who do track with him. :] I mean, at least he has one friend... but maybe he wants to go with sophomores this time..
Once we get to the dance freshmans, sohpomores, juniors and seniors will be there so i guess its fine.
I just dont want him to think im in love with him if I ask him again.
Should I ask him?
THANKS
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Don't be ignorant! You don't need to love him. What is going through your mind? You have to love him to go to a dance? Crazy, it doesn't work like that! It's simple!!
If you like this guy, there is a chance he likes you. Ask yourself this, DO YOU LIKE THIS GUY? Be sure you do. But you don't have to be positivley sure to ask him. Ask him. You don't have to be serious with him. Let the river flow it's natural course. Ask him. If he says yes, then that's a good thing. Don't wait for him to ask you or he might be asked and you will be a lump on a log which doesn't feel that good. During thd dance, be friends and maybe if he likes you, he might not think you as a friend. It just depends.
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OMG YAH! If this guy really likes you then he won't care who else is at the dance. He will just be happy that he is with you. And don't worry he wont think that you are in love with him, but he will probably be happy that you like him.
Hope I helped!
Nicole x0x0x0
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I definitely think you should ask him!
You should say something like this:
"Hey [Name], what's up? [Talk about some other stuff] Are you going to Sadie Hawkins with someone? [He says no]. Oh, that's cool. I'm not either-& I was wondering, since I had such a fab time you at the other dance that we went to, I was wondering if you'd go with me? Not 'cause I like you or anything, but I have a lot of fun when I'm with you. [He says, YES, I'D LOVE TO!!!]
Or something along those lines...
Let me know what happens,
Best of Wishes!
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wow, this seems oddly familiar..
I wouldn't worry too much about this problem. I am a freshman as well, and I have plenty of friends that are sophomores. I'm a guy and my best friend is a sophomore, and most of his friends are freshmen. Guys really don't care that much. If you want to go to the dance with this guy, you should, or just invite him and some of his friends and some of your friends so no one would feel awkward.
Hope this helps.
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