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Slut or not a slut.
Ok so me and my boyfriend have known eachother for a year now and weve liked eachother a whole year and so now weve been dating bout 8 months now and we kissed after 8 months of our relationship because im prety respectable and he understood and never tried to go over any line and waited..so afetr 8 months weve kissed and i feel so SLUTY and i feel so bad i think im such a whore and i dont know why..i just never liked being touched and now weve made out and i feel so bad..can i know why ..am i slut? hhes the only guy i ever kised and the last one..i wana be with him forever
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Don't worry. You are definately not a slut! You waited a long time to kiss him, and you really have feelings for him. Sluts are like girls that do stuff with guys just because they like to, and they don't even have feelings for the guys they do stuff with.
Love,
Nicole x0x0x0
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you are SO NOT a slut. how can you be.. you waited 8months...wow! i mean for my first kiss ever...[this was last year] i waited 9 days. so you shouldnt think that your a slut..ever.
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You are not a slut AT ALL! Sluts are girls who sleep with a million different guys every weekend and walk around with their thong sticking out. But you? You are a nice, respectable girl who is just starting to learn intimacy with her boyfriend. That doesn't make you a slut. Kissing isn't such a horrible thing, is it? It's a sweet and innocent way to be close with your boyfriend. You're not a whore. You're not a slut. Don't ever think that.
Next time, if you still feel uncomfortable about it, instead of full on making out, why not just a peck on the lips every now and then? That way, you can slowly get more comfortable with it.
And btw, your boyfriend sounds like a great guy. Most guys would wait a few days before wanting to make out with their girlfriend. 8 months is a long time to wait. He sounds like a wonderful guy for respecting you like that. :)
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A slut is a woman/girl who has sex with a lot of guys and doesn't care.
Nope. Don't sound like you, now does it?
Listen, you've been together for 8 months. Kissing each other is a perfectly natural thing- it's not a bad or dirty thing. Obviously you care a lot for this guy if you want to be with him forever. So why should you feel bad about kissing him? You shouldn't.
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oh honey, you are NOT a slut! that you think you are puzzles me because if you think of a slut, it means someone who goes with loads of guys after knowing them for very little time, often with several guys at once. in a relationship you can kiss whenever you want and you're not a slut. many of my friends began kissing their boyfriends in the first few weeks and no one thinks they are sluts. believe me, no way will anyone think you are.
hope this helps to reassure you,
laura xxx
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