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My name is Lisa and I have blonde hair, green eyes and i am like 5'2.My advise can be interesting depending on my mood hehe. Um i like giveing advice but i dont like taking it. + advice is something we already know but wish we didn't... muha, Lisa

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Okay so today i went jogging for the first time in awhile. I was planning to jog for 2 minutes and alternate between that and walking. But when it came to jogging, after 3O minutes i felt like I was dying. My throat started to really hurt and i could taste blood but there wasn't blood in my mouth. This ALWAYS happens when i run or jog and i have a friend that it happens to her also. It took a good 15 minutes for my heart rate to go down and about 3O minutes for my throat to stop hurting. Does this happen to you and how can i stop it?

WOW well that doesnt seem normal. i cant say that, that happens to me, maybe you should go get that checked out. and if not try not to rin if it affects you do bad...hmm just a thoiught... Well anyhow Good luck!
_Lisa

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i dont exactly have a question...but i just need someone to talk to and just for anyone to give me advice...i am a Freshman..im 14 im in a relationship. and i've been stressing alot of skool lately!!...its just that im failing 2 of my classes rite now!. its just that my 2 teachers give out TOO much assignments and its just stressing me bcause i dont do it! my sister says i need to learn how 2 manage my time! and i told her its not bkuz of cheerleading...(because im always @ praktice or @ a game) and well i just dont know! somebody help!!

Well maybe you should get a tutor, cuz if you dont improve your grades then you will be kicked off the cheer team anyhow and then you will have all the time you need for school but i am sure you dont want it to come to that. at PHS we have all kinds of things to get your grades up and what not. in any event, ask your teachers if they know of a tutorial program perhaps i dont know... Good Luck!
_Lisa

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Well, theres this guy that Ive been liking for a while now. All of my friends know I like him, and most of his friends know too. Everytime I talk to one of his friends, they'll say something like "ooo, guess what? _______ says he likes you!" or some other thing like that. Are they trying to tell me something,like what he says when theyre hanging out, or do you think they are just immature teenage boys? I really want what theyre saying to be true cuz i really like this guy, but i cant help but think theyre just teasing me. Please tell me what to do about these dorky guys!

Well you could go up to your crush and tell him that his friends are telling you all these things and if he says something cute like what if they are and then you could possibly say something like well i like you to and then do omething that you wouldnt normally do like kiss him and then if he kisses you back then wahooo and if not he missed out on a fine piece of a$$ haha just a thought
_Lisa

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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend!

haha no that doesnt make you a slut that makes ur friend a horrible person! thats really crapy of him to go and do that...GOOD LUCK!
_Lisa

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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...

-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...

he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..

i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...

and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...

-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"

--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys-

ok well i got confused a couple of times reading that...ok well let me sum this up; you like him and you have kinda told him, but you also told him that you turn guys down,he wants to ask this girl out....ok well he knows you like him and i think if he felt anything more or saw you as what he is looking for then he would have already asked you...im sorry that kinda sounds harsh but life is a B****! Well i hope i helped in anyway, tell me how everything goes. good luck
_LISA

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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!!

Well you could talk to him and ask him if him asking you out has anything to do with your dad. If he says in some small way then be like ok well you dont need to. tell him how you need someone for emotional suport in your time of need and how you dont want to jeperdise your friendship. if he is a really good bestfriend then you might consider telling him that you dont want things to ever be weird and not take things on that level...well i hope i helped in some small way:)
-Lisa

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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me!

He might be in some small way pushing you away cuz he knows you will not always be there. But at the same time he might be feeling like you will and perhaps he is confused.just be there for him and tell him how much he means to you and maybe things will work out better:)Good luck to you and the things that you do.
-Lisa

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I've been trying to loose some weight. I know i'm not fat, but i'd just like to loose a few pounds. I started last week, and it went pretty well, but i've decided that this week i'm just not going to diet but start up again next week. I know i shouldn't but i have my reasons. But ever since i've been on this diet, all my friends ever do is hound me about it and make fun of me! they always steal my food and count the calories in it, and everytime i tell them to just stop getting involved with this, they tell me to just listen... they laugh at me and count my calories and tell me how fat i'm gunna get, and it's really really annoying and being on a diet is difficult enough since i have a terrible sweet tooth, but they make it worse. I've tried many times to tell them that it's not their place to hound me about what i'm eating, but they don't listen to me and make a big deal out of everything. I have no idea what to do and they're making this really difficult for me. any ideas what to do? sorry it's so long.

well your friends arnt verry supportive and thats kinda sad. This sounds like it hurts you so you should be like"wow and i call you guys my friends and be like this really hurts" make them feel as bad as them make you feel and then most likely things will be alright. I hoped in some small way i helped. Good luck to you and the things you do.
-Lisa

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Me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden nd imma freshman now! tha other day we got into a fight! this is wat happened!..tha nyte b4 i got drunk bc i was allowed nd i didnt feel good tha next mornin nd he kalled asken if i wanted to chyll w. em nd i told em no bc i was sick nd wasnt inna good mood! well he got on tha computer nd we were talkin nd shazz nd tha next thing u kno he tells me not to take my shazz out on hym nd i didnt do ne thing! soo he went to jessicas nd she told hym nd my b.f things tht werent true soo i got dumped bc of it! later tht day i got on tha computer again nd was talken to my best friend nd he tells me tht he dont wanna talk to me nd imma rapist nd a stalker soo i went to his house w. my mom to talk to hym nd he ran outside from tha situation..well tht jessika girl was there well she kalled me nd my mom a bitch nd soo i walked down tha road nd asked her y she did it nd shazz nd soo he ((my bff)) ran out tha door telling me to stay outta his life! i feel soo bad i mean i didnt realli do ne thing mean to hym ir ne thing! i do a lot of stuff for hym nd its hard not talken to hym! wut shudd i do?! i mean weve been bff since kindergarden! ive cried alot about this! plzzzzzzzz help me!

wow ok that took for ever to understand...uhh well i think your friend is lame and so is your bf and i think they are doing that to you cuz they can and you need to surround yourself with better ppl. cuz they suck...i know you probly think i am mean but really who does any of that... i hoped i helped
-Lisa

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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?

this is all verry simple...you have to tell your mother that you would rather not have her in there i had to do the verry same thing. There is nothing to be worried about most likely your mother will have no porblem and if she does i am sure the nurse or who ever will tlak to her. your comfert is top priority adn i am sure the people at the clinic or doctors know that. no worries sweetheart. XOX Lisa

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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help.

tell her you would rather hangout and not go trik-or-treating. This way you are still with her but doing what you both want to do. hehe

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A friend of mine and i went to the movies the other night, and as were pulling up, i see the guy i like standing next to a car down the lot. I was getting all excited when he stood up, and then i saw what he was holding, and i was repulsed. In one hand, he was holding a lit joint, and in the other, a half empty bottle of vodka. I had no idea he did these things!! And i have my values..i try not to associate with ppl who do harm to themselves in such ways. Even though his lifestyle goes against my beliefs, i cant seem to get over my feelings for him. I just dont how to do it. How do i 4get this guy?

ok he may do things you dont aprove of but that doesnt mean you have to forget about him. if you are as strong as your beliefs then he wont have any kinda of influence on you so you have nothing to worry about... shesh

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Hey there's this sophmore girl that I like... she's going to be 17 in Jan... (I'm a 14 yr. old freshman male) well anyways we've hung out and stuff, and with our other friend, but yeah I guess I kind of like her... and my friend was speaking to her and then I said what and then she's like oh... well I would probably like you if you we're older than me... and I was like oh... ok and I was kind of sad... I mean she just like told me this out of the blue haha... but anyways, my question is how can I get her to like me more??

she is obviously lame and a wast of time if she isnt open with age..its not like you are grosly younger then her...that was kinda harsh but so is life

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