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Alright wel i found this brwn spot on my niple. I wuz wonderingif i could be pregnant? my vagina is also smelling. and i might bloated. I am soooo scared if im pregnant or not? helpp)": (link)
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that could be a freckle or if you wore something black or dark colored might have gone on your nips happens to me. your vagina smelling could be from a yeast infection or you need to clean it. the bloating is a sign of getting your period also getting slight cramps before your period means youll get it and maybe your breasts hurting is a sign of getting your period but also pregnancy but im sure your not from what your saying.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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dump him hes a dick like the rest of them. seriously he can do that to you and deny it over and over again. you deserve better or do it to him. thats not right.
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okay im 11 and i want my period so bad becuz i just want to get it off my mind and ive had cramps and stuff and i still havent had it yet do u have any advice on like wen i might finally get it??!! HELP!!! (link)
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sometimes girls dont get thier period maybe till their 18. and when you do get your period your going to wish you havnt lol but it means so much to then you will get it around now or in the next few years dont worry.
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I think thats what I will do. He has called me three times since I was asleep, and he left me a voicemail. He seems like he's perfectly fine, but for some reason that bothers me? Is it normal for someone to want someone else to feel just a little pain, because they do? I am feeling 10x worse inside now. Im just hoping it will get better. :/ (link)
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its nice to feel cared and when you thought that he was a mess with out you it might have made you feel better. being wanted is a great feeling and just because he sounds like hes okay maybe he really isnt it sounded like he cared about you dont worry he called you he deffinately cares.
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Well, I feel like I did the right thing. He's still on my mind for the time being, but its only been 3-4 hours since we broke up. As of the moment, I don't feel any pain inside when Im on the phone, or doing something to get my blood flowing, but of course as soon as I get off the phone, the pain is 20x worse, and I don't understand how come that is? Do you have any idea? I know you don't like hearing about my silly relationships, but to me-talking to someone who doesn't know me, or my boyfriend just makes it a lil easier, because if i was to talk to someone who knows me, or michael- they would tell me lies, and not truth. (link)
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you could still like him and if you spent everyday with him it hurts to not have that person with you like you used to. sometimes being apart from someone for a long period of times either shows you that your happy you arnt together or you miss that person and want them back. id say give it a couple weeks maybe a month and if you still hurt and your missing him start slowly going back to him like hang out one week
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Okay, I took your advice. Michael came over today when I got off work, and we talked about it. I let him read the post I left you, along with what you said. He stormed out of my room, and when outside. I followed him. He started crying, and said he was angry and heartbroken. He began to say that I never cared about him, and that its all his fault because if he would have been "good enough" for me, I wouldn't be having these mixed emotions, and once again I expressed to him that it had NOTHING to do with him what-so-ever. After that, I took him home, and he called me. I told him I think it was best if we was just friends, and if we was meant to be, than god would bring us back together for good without the mixed emotions, but there wasn't no need in me basically leading him on and getting him more attached. He started the whole "Im so stressed out and all your doing is putting more shit on me" blah blah blah same guilt story everytime we come close to breaking up. We both agreed that we will remain in each others life whatever way is easier for us. Now that we are over, I feel a sigh of relief; but I also have been crying. I feel heartbroken, and that I made a mistake. If I keep feeling like this, Im going to be tempted to get him back. If its what I want, than how come I feel like it isn't now that its all said and done? (link)
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i think you did the right thing im sorry hes sad and so are you. you do care about him thats the thing you dont hate him and wish bad things to happen to him so of course you feel hurt that hes hurt. break ups are hard you had him in your life for a good couple months its going to be hard. your confused and dont know what you want you know your sad is all just remind yourself that its not right to keep someone when your not sure about things in general. and you never know you guys might be meant to be. but until then you need to know 100% that you want to be with him and know that those confused feelings wont come back and if you do get back with him worrying that the feelings will come back doesnt help at all hell know how your feeling even if you dont tell him. and stress him out. you said yourself that you feel a sigh of releif so your on your way to figuring stuff out. being 18 is all so overwhelming im your age and im trying to figure stuff out too and if i knew that i dont know if i love my boyfriend the way he loves me i wouldnt date him for that moment in time. your feeling so many things like what am i going to do in the next year i am anyway your becoming an adult soon so for now if it makes YOU feel better stay friends with him. and in time things will fall into place he didnt do anything wrong and hell soon find that out in time if he really did love you then its gonna be tough for some time to get over the fact that you guys were not meant to be. idk for sure but like i said you guys were going out for a couple months its going to be hard for the both of you your not going to dump this kid and feel nothing. if he puts you through a guilt trip again let him know listen i dont need this now i care about you truly but would you rather be lied to and not loved the same way. and from what you told me you told him before that you love him but your not in love with him so that right there is letting him know you know what i mean. im sorry if it seems im ramballing lol and just confusing i think you did the right thing if you dont like him the same way he likes you and remember in time if you find you cant live with out him then take him back if not remain friends. good luck come and ask more questions if i wasnt that clear or you have a new one.
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So i am 18 years old and this guy that i worked with was a 30 year old man that is married and has kids. When he first started working there i was attracted to him immediately. He was the manager. We flirted and stuff and he kinda made it known that he was into me but didnt say so directly. He would tell me everyday how i made his day and he loves seeing me. I had a huge thing for him. So he finally gave me his number one night. I would tell him a lot of stuff cause he was my friend. So things got kind of intense when he told me that he wanted to be with me and that im every mans dream and i just dont relize how amazing i am.So we texted all the time and one day i told him i couldnt talk to him anymore but soon said i didnt mean it and i loved him. He wont respond to any of my texts or calls. I so confused. Did i hurt him? Do you think he sincerly cared about me or does he just not care? Im so hurt cause i believed everything he told me. Did i mess up by telling him to leave me alone?? Please give me advicce. Im literally driving myself crazy trying to anlyze everything. I just really need someone else's view poit. (link)
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he probally had feelings for you but more sexual then anything else but i dont know what hes been saying and youve been saying to him so i dont really know so to me it sounds like he was just looking for a good time. and it really sucks that he was leading you on like that because he is married and he has kids and maybe he doesnt want to completely loose that. and he knows that if he continues with you everything he has could go away and become a hectic life for him. i have a feeling that hell talk to you again and he will act like nothing happened. call him ask him whats up? or wait until you see him. or maybe just keep your distance for now. you didnt mess up completely maybe you saying that made him realise that he cant be doint what hes doing. and i'm not sure he really cared about you, you could be just one amazing person but he knows can never have.
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Alright well i just lost my virginity today, and i wuz wondering if a condom could be too big for a guys dick. Because my boyfriend put on an extra ribbed trojan condom and it wuz big. wuz it supposed to be? also, it kinda slipped off after a half hour, and we DIDNT put it back on and use it. Do yu think i am pregnant? My boyfriend told me he didnt feel a rip or tear. It wuz tighter on the top of the dick, not as much on the bottom. It wuz our first time having sex also. I made sure he wuz careful also. Do you think i am preggo? cuz if so, ima crap myself. I wont know what to do. i cant drivee. help mee.... (link)
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if a penis enters your vagina there is always a chance of becoming pregnant tell him he needs to find better condoms because you did not like those and the fact that it slipped off didnt make you happy. if your period is late for more than a week you have to seriously think that you might be pregnant and go buy a pregnancy test and go from there.
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Im 17/f , & I will be 18 in Nov. Michael is 16 & will be 17 in Oct. He is the youngest guy I have dated. We have been dating for 4 months. He's my first serious relationship I have had since my ex Thomas in 06'. When he first asked me out, I said yes, but I felt like I made the wrong decision cause I was scared of what people would think of him cause he isn't the cutest thing in the world, but he's sweet. I gave him a chance, cause I didn't want to be shallow & miss out on a good guy. After 2 months, I told Michael that I had an ex (Thomas) coming over to see my family cause he was really close to them, & Michael didn't care at all; he trusts me. Thomas & I sat in his truck just bringing up our past, & it brought back a lot of memories. He said he still loved me, & that when im 18 he was going to ask me back out, cause he is 21 & his parents weren't okay with the age difference. He was aware about my new boyfriend. We didn't do anything, NOT EVEN HUG. After he left, I started having mixed emotions about if i wanted to be with Michael or not, so I talked to him about it, & explained how I felt to him; days went by & I had a feeling inside me that I felt guilty, but I had nothing to feel guilty over. I finally broke up with him; I felt happier; but than again I felt as if something was missing. When I left him, he cried & was very hurt; we talked & got back together cause we both thought it was Thomas's presents that I was feeling this way; and we also thought that it was the fact that we barely hung out with each other. So we started hanging out alot more & the mixed emotions went away. We had sex once a couple of weeks later. Ever since then we have been fine until Friday; I told him I wasn't in love with him but I do love him; he said he was in love with me. My mixed emotions are coming back. I brought it to his attention again, & he says its cause Im on my period, cause last mixed emotions happen while I was on my period also. I feel as if our relationship is boring. We have tried new things, but our relationship doesn't get any better to me. When we hang its like we are bestfriends, but I know I like him as more. Looks aren't everything, hes a good guy which makes me like him more.We use to be able to talk on the phone for hours, & now I dont like talking to him any longer than maybe 10 minutes on the phone cause he irritates me. The littlest things he does gets on my nerves, & I don't understand why. I use to love to kiss him, but now I don't. I have no problem cuddling with him, but its only when I want too. I dont want to hurt him, cause he has treated me the best that I have ever been treated & he had a rough past where people would just walk out of his life & I dont want to be like that. Sometimes I find him immature, even though he really isn't. He just doesn't think before he speaks. He has tried to change himself to keep me, but I dont want him being something he's not. I know its not lust, cause we aren't all over each other, & I dont like doing sexual things with him. I just really don't know what to do.I've been thinking that maybe it's the fact that I like the idea of having a boyfriend, but Im not too sure. I don't want to break up with him, and than regret it, but I dont want to stay with him just to get him more attached to me and than hurt him more. Its like when I break up with him, I feel heartbroken & I want him back, but when I take him back, I dont want to be with him. Im lost, and confused.
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you are really confused but it sounds like you and him are just not meant to be. he and you are better as bestfriends then boyfriend girlfriend. thats why you feel so heartbroken you dont want to loose him completely but you dont want that much attachement from having a relationship. or just the fact that you hurt someone hurts you and you dont want him to feel that way because you know his past about people walking out on him. its not your responsibility to keep him happy your young and so is he your not happy and you need to date someone that you want to date and love then just being in a relationship and floating on by with life. your not going to be with him forever and if you dont have strong feelings now then when will you? it just doesnt grow on you. i think when you start dating someone its because both people really like eachother and you sorta just went in it just to give him a chance. this isnt fair to you and just because his feelings will be hurt for a little while doesnt mean you have to feel bad and go back with him. just think its not fair to him to be so in love with you and you just having i love him as a person. just tell him you know i see you more than a best friend to me then a boyfriend and i dont find it fair that im doing this to you. i care about you but your just not the one for me we are still young and i know theres someone better out thier for you and me. and i dont want you to change for me because that just isnt right. im really sorry. and thats all you have to say. if you want to break up with him which sounds like you do to me. i hope i helped you out if not let me know im happy to revise my answer for you.
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I got pregnant & had a baby last month. My boyfriend got me pregnant because he didn't want to use a condom so it's all his fault. I only let him see my daughter when we go out like on a date but she don't stay with him at all & I care for her all the time. Mom said he needs to be a man and support us since he's the one that got me pregnant. I told him I want him to get a job after school and give me money to support my daughter because I'm in school too and I can't raise a baby and go to school AND work a job. He needs to take responsibility. He got mad and was like it's just as much his fault as it is mine that I got knocked up and he was real mad about it all and said if I make him pay me money then he's gonna break up with me and leave me. Mom said to take him to court if he won't pay me money for my daughter and I think she's right that he needs to man up or whatever but then I feel bad because I don't want him to break up with me. Should I go after him to make him pay me childsupport or what? (link)
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he needs to pay child support and it is true you both were part of making this baby just because he has a penis doesn't mean you didn't let him do the things he did. but tell him i dont want to break up with you and i dont want this to get out of control both agree to get a job and help out
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So my parents are getting divorced. Well, they've been saying that for 17 years (since I was born) but they're actually going to now.
Of course many of my friends have divorced parents and I thought that if they were going to get divorced, it's later on that'll be okay but I'm actually wrong. I just feel so...I can’t even describe it! Like the divorcing part, I really don’t care much I guess since I keep going into this mode when they always talked about it to prepare myself.
And back then I was. But now that there's so much at stake and I'm going to university next year and I have two younger siblings to think about, I really don't know!
How did children of divorced parents even get through with this?! Please help me. I just feel awful and I can’t believe that of all things, THIS is happening to me on my last year of high school. (link)
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hey my parents divorced when i was 7 my little sister was 6 my older sister was 12 and my little brother was 4 i think. lets see i remember crying for my mom for hours i never knew till i was about 13 why my parents divorced i lived with my dad i missed my mom constantly and now im 17 i dont speak to my dad ever he basically hates me my sister hates me my step mom and her kids i resent every minute with them because they took everything i ever had away. my house dog everything down to my plates beds everything. i can say that i need to talk to somebody i was so young and im angry about like everything but i cant say anything to anybody. this process is confusing for little kids or your age and hurtful and its the parents fault they are selfish people and dont care about other peoples feelings expample their kids. i really hope that this goes better for you then it has for me.
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*Answers from sexually active and experienced individuals would benefit greatly!!
I had condoms stashed in my closet for my boyfriend and me. There were two sets of two that were connected to each other. The first time we used them (August 25th), I broke off one from the other. When I saw where I stashed them to make sure everything was okay and nothing was touching them, I saw that the other condom that the one we used was attached to was ripped a little on the top. The wrapper was square obviously and on one side it was opened on half of the side. It stayed in my closet laying (cool, dry place, etc.). We used it tonight (September 1st). He opened it from another side carefully and the right way and I remembered afterwards that one of the sides of the wrapper had been ripped. He came inside of me. We pulled out carefully as we always do and the fluids were on the top of the condom in that little area that is loose as they should be. I asked him afterwards out of being nervous anyway if guys could tell if it broke and he said yes (he is 22 and experienced and I am 20, not so experienced). He goes to the bathroom and takes it off and wraps it up to throw away. But I guess you can't see if there is a little hole, only a break? Would the rip have caused a hole or anything? The cum packed up in the condom area on top of the penis because I remember looking at it after. It was white on the tip and all kept up in there. I read online that a rip n the condom can cause the condom lubricant to dry and cause breakage but would we have seen that? There seemed to be good lubricant and it was a spermicidal lubricant condom from Trojan by the way. I am extremely nervous. We just had sex tonight and he will check the wrapper tomorrow. We will get the morning after pill immediately if we fear anything. If it helps, I'm due for my period September 13th and today is the 1st. (link)
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the breaking would be the whole condom to rip and you would notice. its not going to be a tiny hole. so it sounds your okay dont worry to much. well it happend to me so this is true if the condom is to dry it will break. even if its lubed. and old condoms would do that too. so im right.
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I dropped my ipod touch in water will it be better if I dont put in the charger for a while?
I dropped my ipod in water in school and soon as I dropped it I put it under the dryer. It was still on, put it kept freezing,turning on and off, and the apps kept coming on and off but the ipod was on. when I tap something, something else will come up. Its been 3 hours since I dropped it in water. I don't wanna tell my mom because this is the 3rd ipod that's been dropped in water. Its dead now because the battery was low when I dropped it and it was still working. and I don't know if it works now.Now its dead. It still works as far as I know, its not like the last 2 Ipod I had when I dropped them in water they wouldn't come back on. should I wait to charge it? Will it work better if I dry it or let it sit a few days?
Ive tried a bowl of rice and it didnt work. The first ipod that was dropped in water my nephew did it. the second time I dropped it on accident. (link)
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my brother did the same thing his stoped working and asked me to get him a new free one and i did! what i did i went to bestbuy (where he got it) and said that yes my ipod touched water but did not submerge and ive had problems with it before. it had warrenty on it so yours should if not then you can always try. and if they say you need to buy a new warrenty because its was water damaged then say no i dont because i didnt.
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Iv been with my common law wife for 6 years and we had a good sex life up untill the last past year and now no sex no cuddling no nothing and its driving me crazzy I asked her what was wrong she told me it hurts for her to have sex yet she won't go see a doctor .so now I think about having sex with someone eles but not haven't done that yet .I love her to death but without sex I cannot do .I'm very high sex drivven think about it all the time but with her it just doesn't happen and I won't go on withou it .I don't consider myself selfish but I do have needs to be filled .so what do I do in this situation I have no clue but its making me deppresed and angery at the same time and masterbation is getting old its not the same as beeing close to that specal someone .but what do I do if I cheat that's not good either and don't realy want to do that and throw away 6 years of what we have together (link)
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how about you talk to your wife. tell her how your feeling that not having sex is driving you crazy and you know its selfish and would like to be close again. you can have sex other ways then inserting a penis in her vagina. how bout blow jobs or eating her out handjobs is a thought. u know and tell her you dont know how long not being with her you can take and that you suggest for her health get checked out because when someone has sex it shouldnt hurt.
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I am 13, and sexually active. DONT tell me off, becuase its MY life. I do use condoms, and I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, whom i have no intention of breaking up with. We love eachother very much, have a very healthy relationship (my mom agrees!), and sex was a wanted mutual agreement. I would like to tell my mom, because she thinks I tell her everything, but she says she would sign custody of me over to my strict Aunt if I lost my virginity (she would like me to wait until im married!!). She also says that its my life and one way or another, im going to do what I want, i just have to deal with the consequences, one of which being the Aunt issue (technically, thats saying i DONT have a choice). I dont know what I should do, because 1) I feel like I should tell her (but dont think i can) 2) I would like birth control but 3) I dont want to lose my boyfriend... Any advice?? (link)
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well if i were you i would go to planed parent hood or any free clinic and get birth control from them its free. and personally if you dont want to be sent away and never see your boyfriend again i would not tell your mom. maybe one day when your old.
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If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem. (link)
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to you this may not be cheating but to many other people it is being sexually active with people is cheating kissing blowjobs anything you do with another guy thats not your boyfriend is cheating flirting is emotionally cheating kissing holding hands sex of all sorts is cheating. just imagine your boyfriend getting head from some girl how would you feel? thats gross and wrong you and your boyfriend should end your relationship because lying and cheating on him and not thinking its wrong is just not right.
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So I was chatting online with my friend about drinking and stuff cause I was getting red spots after getting drunk. We were talking about vodka and stuff then I went to the bathroom. When I came back, my mom was in front of the laptop. When I was trying to say "wait", she just had a straight face. I think she read our chat. So now I'm really scared. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? HELP ME PLEASE.:(
xoxo,
J
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well i wouldnt because if she didnt read it then your ratting yourself out and starting with did you read my chat would be sketchy and she can just ask questions like yah y what were you saying stuff like that. if she did she probally would of said something then and there. if you ask to go out or something and she tells you no for no good reason then i would ask her.
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It's not that I am not socialable, it's just that I don't want to do things if I think that it is logically useless and that it is not even in my interest range.
I'm in my final year of high school this year, which means a lot of things going on. I don't even want ot go to prom, but my best friend is forcing me. And we have two overnight retreats that are $65 each to go on.
I'm not a big fan of sleeping over. And I don't know since I'm sleeping during that time, but what if I'm sleeping with other people and I fart in my sleep, say something stupid or something bad about someone in the room, drool, or hell, even wet my pants?
Do you think I should go? Some people say that they regret not going to it or for missing one of them, but many people say that about prom and prom isn't like the movies. (link)
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you should deff go to prom its so much fun and you would miss out i think its part of the expierence and from the sleeping thing if you fart drool no ones gonna know their sleeping too if you normally wet your bed or talk in your sleep really loud then i suggest you sleep on the floor for wetting the bed and buy some night pull ups talking in your sleep you dont say full on sentences its just little things like "the letter is gray"! so dont worry about that your being to paranoid. have fun dont think of to much things just go have fun with your friends create a memory!
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I'm 20/f, my boyfriend is 18. We've been together for 3 years. We've had our ups and downs, but we've always worked out. Basically, he's done a lot of crap to me that I just put up with.Anyway, I found out that he cheated on me a couple of weeks ago. (He had sex with another girl;I don't know her) And now I can't figure out what to do. I know it seems obvious..I have always said I would dump somebody in a minnesota minute if they cheated on me, but I never expected this. Like I said, we've been together for 3 years. He is the only guy I've ever slept with, and I love him.
But I keep going back and forth about what to do, because I still love him and want to be with him, but at the same time, I can't get over him betraying me like that. All I can think about is how he was intimate with someone else, and it's driving me insane!
Plus, I don't trust a word he says now. I found out on my own about him cheating, and he denied,denied,denied until I finally drug it out of him cause he knew I knew. So now even if he just says he's going to walmart my mind starts spinning..
anyway, advice please!
is 'once a cheater,always a cheater' true?
should I even be trying to work this out?
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well itll be hard to trust him ever agian i mean he didnt tell you he cheated you had to find out on your own so what makes you think that hes going to tell you other things you know and it is hard you wouldnt expect him to do that to you and now that he has you have no clue if you should dump him beacuase he is a liar and cheated on you or stay with him because oh it was one mistake and you love him. is it fair to you that you have to keep thinking that hes going to talk to another girl behind your back thinking hes going to do it again you need a serious talk with him a calm one saying you cheated on me that hurt and not telling me hurt more i want to know what drove you to want to do that to me we have three years of history and i dont know if i can trust you at this point i love you and i want to make this work i need to know if you want it to work and go from there bottom line is if you cant trust someone call it a day take a break maybe thats what you both need to figure out if you want eachother or not.
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My gf and i have been together for two and a half years. In the beginning, things were going so great and we really loved eachother. But lately, i just dont even enjoy spending time with her. we argue about everything. I don't want to be with her anymore. On top of that, there's another girl that ive been talking to that i really like. I told her that we could be together once i leave my current girlfriend, and i really do want to be with her. The problem is, i cant bring myself to break up with my current girlfriend and hurt her. I know thats stupid, because ive been hurting the girl i really like all along by telling her that she and i can be together, and im having a hard time maning up and doing the right thing. Also, im leaving for college in a few days, and its 6 hours away. Any advice at all would be awesome. Thanks :) (link)
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i'm kinda going through the same thing right now me and my boyfriend same age as you 2 years and some odd months and we've been fighting about everything we both love each other i'm sure but we have issues that he or i have not discussed and need to talk about so we did and hopefully things will get a lot better i want things to work and so does he so we will try our hardest to get back to the good part of a young serious relationship. if my boyfriend were to be like you and want some other girl i wouldn't think anything of it meaning i probally already had this pop in my mind. of course if your fighting and things are rocky then you cant expect someone to stay with that. if you really like this other girl and the fact that your going to college in a few Days means that your ready to explore more options and you want to see other things that are going on with other people and not having another person on your back all the time totally understandable if thats the case in some way let your current girlfriend know that. say that things are really rocky it has been and its not healthy for the both of us and as i go to college im going to go through something in my life where i want to do other things and be with other people its been good peace. if things are tough and wont let up its time to say its over and she will be hurt and cry and wanna talk to you still but things happen for a reason i guess and it happens.
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