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mixed emotions-conclusion
Okay, I took your advice. Michael came over today when I got off work, and we talked about it. I let him read the post I left you, along with what you said. He stormed out of my room, and when outside. I followed him. He started crying, and said he was angry and heartbroken. He began to say that I never cared about him, and that its all his fault because if he would have been "good enough" for me, I wouldn't be having these mixed emotions, and once again I expressed to him that it had NOTHING to do with him what-so-ever. After that, I took him home, and he called me. I told him I think it was best if we was just friends, and if we was meant to be, than god would bring us back together for good without the mixed emotions, but there wasn't no need in me basically leading him on and getting him more attached. He started the whole "Im so stressed out and all your doing is putting more shit on me" blah blah blah same guilt story everytime we come close to breaking up. We both agreed that we will remain in each others life whatever way is easier for us. Now that we are over, I feel a sigh of relief; but I also have been crying. I feel heartbroken, and that I made a mistake. If I keep feeling like this, Im going to be tempted to get him back. If its what I want, than how come I feel like it isn't now that its all said and done?
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i think you did the right thing im sorry hes sad and so are you. you do care about him thats the thing you dont hate him and wish bad things to happen to him so of course you feel hurt that hes hurt. break ups are hard you had him in your life for a good couple months its going to be hard. your confused and dont know what you want you know your sad is all just remind yourself that its not right to keep someone when your not sure about things in general. and you never know you guys might be meant to be. but until then you need to know 100% that you want to be with him and know that those confused feelings wont come back and if you do get back with him worrying that the feelings will come back doesnt help at all hell know how your feeling even if you dont tell him. and stress him out. you said yourself that you feel a sigh of releif so your on your way to figuring stuff out. being 18 is all so overwhelming im your age and im trying to figure stuff out too and if i knew that i dont know if i love my boyfriend the way he loves me i wouldnt date him for that moment in time. your feeling so many things like what am i going to do in the next year i am anyway your becoming an adult soon so for now if it makes YOU feel better stay friends with him. and in time things will fall into place he didnt do anything wrong and hell soon find that out in time if he really did love you then its gonna be tough for some time to get over the fact that you guys were not meant to be. idk for sure but like i said you guys were going out for a couple months its going to be hard for the both of you your not going to dump this kid and feel nothing. if he puts you through a guilt trip again let him know listen i dont need this now i care about you truly but would you rather be lied to and not loved the same way. and from what you told me you told him before that you love him but your not in love with him so that right there is letting him know you know what i mean. im sorry if it seems im ramballing lol and just confusing i think you did the right thing if you dont like him the same way he likes you and remember in time if you find you cant live with out him then take him back if not remain friends. good luck come and ask more questions if i wasnt that clear or you have a new one.
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