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Question with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blind-folded fear.
-Thomas Jefferson

advice

i want to invite my bf over to my house so he can meet my parents and so we can hang out and thats the only way my parents would feel comfertable with me and him being together is if it under their supervision, so what can we do if he comes over?

You could invite him over for lunch with you and your parents. Than you can just hang out and watch movies and talk.

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I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship.

You can fall in love at that age in my opinion, but not if it's your first relationship. A lot of people have no idea what they're doing when they first start going out with someone. Sometimes they assume it's love, maybe that's that you're doing. :) Don't dumb him just because you may or may not be in love with him. You're young! You have a lot of time and energy to spare, have fun with your relationship. :)

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hi. ok . awile ago i put a question in here "my boyfriend is a druggie". ok well i broke up with him 2 weeks ago and yesterday i found out my former best friend had sex with him. and theyve only been friends for two weeks and he likes her and wants to go out with her and she likes him. and i sked her if she fucked him adn she lied to me and said no and evrything and i had two people tell me she did and so i set h er up. my friend called up the girl and said "omg , francesca found out you fucked anthony" shes like "nuh uh. how. shes not supposed to find out" and shes like well i told you not to tell her and shes like " i didnt" then shes like "well you fucked him right" shes liek "ya but shes not suppossed to find out" and i screamed at her and called her a nasty whore and a dumb bitch and a lot of other stuff. and i dont know what to do about her. i hate her but like i dont know what im gunna do to her monday. i wanna beat her ass but i cant afford to get in trouble. someone help please.

If I were you, I'd pay no attention to her. She wouldn't even deserve my attenion, you know? Just tell people about what she did to you, just don't actually act like she's even alive.

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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

I believe that crime, hate, and open sexuality won't end the world. Sure, those three things make the world a crappier place at times, but sickness and natural disasters seem to me like the only things to actually end the world. :)

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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.

You should tell someone, like a trusted teacher or her parents. If you don't want to personally tell her parents, write them an anonymous letter.

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Okay so im 15 f, and my parents are going to leave me and mybrother alone, he's 18, for a week this summer while they go on vacation. I want to have a party, but I know that if they find out, they'll never leave us alone again. So should I have one? What could I do so they don't find out?

You only live once, so I think you should have the party. To keep it from your parents keep it quiet and clean so it doesn't attract cops and neighbors. Don't have a ton of people over, your neighbors (if you have any) might later ask your parents about it.

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Ok well i've been talking to this boy for a year and almost 2months.. We've been on and of with the best days and worst.. But through out it all I love him to death.. and i would do anything for him. But he lies/cheats but then again he loves me and is always their for me. And this other boy i went out with in the summer wants me to go to prom which i am going.. I still like him but i love the other boy.. And the one i've been talking to for over a year says you know if you get back with him were over.. and the other one thinks im going to leave him again because i did before... Who should i go for?! I mean their both their for me but the first one i've been threw everything with and he always tells me he loves me and he is sorry for everything.. But i dont want to hurt the other one..

The guy you've been going out with for a year and two months says he loves you, but if he really did and meant it, he would cheat and lie to you about it. Even if he's there for you, you deserve better. You may love him, but in the end he may just end up hurting you since he cheats on you. I suggest you go for the second guy. Even if you've been through everything with the first one, you can always go through it again with the second guy. The two fo you may not love each other yet, but it's better than going out with a guy who cheats. Hope I helped. =D

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Can everyone list their sites that they go to alot online- for shopping- cheap or not- doesn't matter, but please no stores that are found in like EVERY mall, thanks!

hollisterco.com
alloy.com
delias.com
triple5soul.com/shop
babyphat.com
hottopic.com

=)

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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?

thank you.

I use Tampax Pearl, they're the best I've used. You should start now, because it takes a while to get used to them.

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Does age really matter when your falling in love? I'm fourteen and I would like to think anything is possible. I've been dating this guy for a short period of time but it has felt different than anything other than before. On this chain letter thing, and I know this sounds so stupid, but I made a wish to fall in love with him. My friends hate the fact that this guy and I are together, but for the first time I couldn't care less what my friends think. What do you think, is it possible?

I think it's possible to fall in love at fourteen. You're still young though, so there will possibly be more guys you'll fall in love with before you pass away... I first fell in love at fourteen too. Other people told me it wasn't love, that it was puppy love. But the words 'puppy love' still have the word LOVE in it, right? ;D

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I can't take this anymore! I'm suppose to be going on a cruise with my cousin and we really don't get along! We just got into another fight because she thinks that she is better than me! Don't tell me to "talk to her and tell her how you feel!" She always thinks that she knows more than me..maybe because she's older?? Also, if she can't get her way, she automatically gets pissed at me...I rate high if you don't give me crappy advice..

If I were you, I'd ignore her. If she kept trying to fight with me, I'd yell and cuss her out in front of her parents. If she doesn't get a clue, maybe her parents will. Or maybe they'll stop her from seeing me because they don't like cuss words...

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i'm 15/f. i was at my aunt/uncles house today. me & my cousin were in the basement. her dad came down to look at his cellphone, then went back upstairs. once he left, my cousin said "i think my dad is having an affair." she opened up the text messages on his cell & they were from the same woman. they said "yeah what we're doing is so wrong i hope no one finds out" etc. my aunt & uncle have always had marriage problems, but as of now, me and my cousin are the only ones who knows about his affair. I asked my cousin if she's going to tell her mom and she said "NO WAY I'LL GET IN SO MUCH TROUBLE FOR LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE AND I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEMS!" She doesnt seem to care tho, but i'm so freaked out and my question is, what should i do, (should i do anything at all...?)

You should try to convince your cousin to tell her mother. Her mom would probably want to know, right?

I found out my one of my parents were having an affair when I was 8. I kept it a secret and it got worse and worse as the years went by. I got depressed and somehow the truth came out and things got better. My family is kind of broken now, but at least we're not living a lie anymore.

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ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused

No way, it's not much of a difference anyway. A junior girl at my high school is dating a sophmore guy, nobody cares too. =D

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At school I sometimes feel I am too mean. I joke a lot but lately I have been feeling like the jokes are too mean. I don't want people to be insecure about themselves around me. If my friends and I joke around I'll say something a bit harsh and I'll feel like I hurt the person's feelings. Even if I say "Oh, but that joke doesn't work because you're skinny," or something I still feel bad.

Now, don't get me wrong. I am not a mean or horrible person. I am very caring and kind. I just feel I can sometimes get too witty and make a rude, unkind joke. Can someone just help me try and be less mean? Thank you.

That's happened to me before. What I do is say 'sorry' right after I say something mean, it saves a lot of talking behind my back people might want to do later.

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Hi im vanessa. im 14 years old and i am in 8th grade in ohio. My qwestion is that i dont really have any frends in my school. school will be over in 3 monthes so im kinda happy. all my friends go to the other school acadamies so i see them on the weekends. i dread going to school without friends. sicne the year is almost over should i just try to get through it? i will be seeing my other friends from the other school in my secondary school (highschool) so i am excited. Help?

Of course you should get through it! Three months isn't that long... Just think about how much better high school will be with your friends. Let them be your 'inspiration,' I guess. =D Good luck.

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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help.

You should wait for the perfect moment and guy, because you might regret it later. =D

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this guy i really like always stares at me in the hallway and alot of times comes up and talks to me. and he sat by me when i was on his bus one time. i dont know if he likes me.. what do i do?

It seems to me like the guy might like you because he stares at you. Ask your mutual friends who he likes, if they say you, then obviously you're in. Maybe you can ask him yourself if you have enough courage.

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I moved into a new city last summer, and there's this guy that lives 3 houses down that goes to my school. He always looks at me when we see eachother during school, and even stared at me when i walked into one of his classes. I want to talk to him and i think he may want to too, but he has a girlfriend. We pass eachother everyday after a class and i dont know how to approach him. Next time i see him walk by, what should i say/ask to get a conversation started? What are some other things i could do to show that im interested besides smile?

When you see him you can say 'Hey, aren't you the guy who lives a few houses down from me?' Then you can introduce yourself... Then you can ask if he would want to hang out with you sometime or show you around since you're kind of new. Good luck. =D

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ok my sister's 16 birthday is coming up! i want to get her something special beacuse ...u know its her 16! but i dont no wut to get her!
any suggestions!
i rate high!

thanks!

How about a framed enlarged picture of you and her when you were little kids? You could customize it... I did it for my best friend last year and she cried! =D

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anyone know the usual cost for professional highlights??

I depends on my long your hair is and where you're getting it done. My hair goes down a little below my shoulders and it costs $30 for me.

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