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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.
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what are some good ways to gt a guy to notice you? He's sorta popular and i'm kinda in the midle not a geek but not really popular and i'm not really thin i don't have like a hawt body..well i don't think i do lol yea oh btw i'm 14/f
talk to the guy,smile at him when you look at him.show him you are interested
i need help to see if this guy is interested..
1. k well ill get up and sharpen my pencil during class and he will look up and stare until i look at him
2. he ALWAYS looks at me
yeah, this is pretty much gay but i just wanna know considering this kid is like so great.
he might be interested but just afraid to talk to you.so if you like him back make the first move.
hey.. my boyfriend doesn't always respect me. ok he does, really he
does, if he didn't i wouldn't be with him but the other day we
were out with my friends and he got all mad because he says that i act
differently around my friends and he doesn't like that.
he walked away at my birthday, but did come back shortly after.
i guess i could just keep them seperate although i wish i didn't
have to, but i don't know how to talk to my boyfriend without it
sounding bad.
hes testy. i've tried but we always joke around being mean to each
other, but its all joking.
my friends think im blinded by my love for him and i shouldn't be
with him if he does this, but i love him so much i can't bare to let
him go.
please help!! i've tried sitting down and talkin to him, and yelling
doesn't work either. please help!! thanks.
leyt hi ggo however it hurts.he may love you but hes also disrespectful.you both need to sit and talk abpuut your relationship
HEY!
does anyone know any really cute girly romantuc songs? well they can be like rock too. They can be new or old. Just not like 1970's old. thanks! Love ya! i rate 5's
from this momment by shania twain.no else comes close by joe,
Sorry this is soo long.
Ok soo i live with my dad 9 months out of tyhe year ad i really miss my mom. Well i just got back today frm visting her and my dad picks me up at the airport, we get home the house is a complete pig stie like theres his cloths everywere and there liek ants of the counters and the only clean rpoom is his. Rigth after he drops us off( not seeing us for 4 weeks) he leaves and gose to work. He self employed soo like its not like he has a boss telling him- oyur fired- hes the boss! ok sooo also he went out ot party tonite and left us with our aunt!! now am i the wrong one for being kind of mad andsad, likei miss my mom soo much, nd the only thing holding her back from coming here is the money for mthe divorce, she said once he agreess on a price thta i actually acurate which he thinks is too high she bee out here in 5 mis. Now im really buggign my dad ot just give my mom what he owes her, and he slams nad locks his dorr to his room, im starving but im scared ot eat the food b/c of the ants! am i rong for feeling this way, i just had a 8 hours plane ride- boston to las vegas got home and he leaves! withmy mom i feel loved but eith my dad i feel as thought the only reason he has us is ot prove a point ot my mom. I love thme both reallly alot, but i just think me and my sister should be with my mom not my dad. Please i just dnt no i miss my mom and i just dont think i can put up with living with him anymre!!
you need to talk to you dad about how you feel and about that thing that he has you to prove something to your mom .also talk to your mom about it.also eat food pls.go buy some. and if you have to live there it would be nice for yuo and your sis to clean the house and look after yourselves.if his not goin to do it.do it for yourseves.
Is there anyway i can find out if my ex still likes me? because I still like him a ton. & hes been IMing me a lot lately & saying like some of our old insiders. Is there anything i should do? & i Dont know if he has a girlfriend because in his profile it said i LOVE U SO & SO. & Now he took it out. So im not sure if they broke up or whatever.
ask him if he still does.
well ... i got up the courage to let my friend erin tell this guy brendan that i like him...(i really love him)and i really thought i might have a chance cuz were really friendly and i thought he might have liked me.
erin was at my house at the time... so she let me go on her screen name wen she left so i could talk to him... this is how it went:
erin(me): wasnt that surprising?
brendan: i kinda could tell
erin (me) : oh?
brendan: not to be mean or anything but i would NEVER go out with her
erin (me): oh I have to go...bye
and i signed off... i dont know what to do! I need to know what to say to him... im allowed to go on erins screen name again in the morning... but idk what to say... what do you think i shoujld... should i try to convince him? well the worst part is ... i keep blaming it on parts of me... like i think i make too many jokes now... and now i think its because i am a little overweight... but i thought he was the kiond of guy that didnt care about looks...
please dont say "get over him" because i have liked him for 2 years and ive tried that!!!
i'll rate high...please ... i need help before like 10 tmw morning :-(
~heartbroken
i think you should give him a break.let go of him.stop going online and talking to him as as different person.also if you do go on as erin ask y he would never go out with you.then live him alone please.give others who care about you a chance. his a loser .
ok im 14..and ive gone out with tons of guys..but i havent had my first kiss yet..a bunch of my other friends have though..im currently dating this really nive really hot guy, and he seems to like me a lot, but hasent shown any sign of wanting to kiss me..i dont want to make him kiss me and send the wrong message..is that weird? what should i do?
xOxO--> troubled love
make the move if he wont.take control.maybe hes afraid
i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend
talk to your friend.i think that maybe you are the only friend she has and shes afraid of losing you.so shes bieng protective of you from others.tell her that you would never do that to her.and that you are her best friend for ever.
hope it helps
This guy, Justin, and I got back together a couple of weeks ago after breaking up. We have been on and off for about a year, the longest time we went out was for 2 1/2 months. Well I went out with this guy Nick, and Justin didn't call me almost all summer because he thought I was still with him. When he found out we weren't together he called me and we both confessed that we'd never stopped loving each other. Now that we're back together, I've fallen harder for him that ever before, and we have alot stronger connection. He's a totally changed person. He's trying to stop doing drugs and smoking, he backed away from a fight yesterday for me, he actually DANCED for the first time in his life and before we started going out he called my dad for permission to be with me. He's actually doing his schoolwork and staying out of trouble and he tells me it's because he loves me and will change to be with me, even if I don't ask him too.
That's just a little bit of background information though, so you can see that we really do love each other and this isn't just an impulse desicion. Well...I've always thought of him as maybe being my first and lately I've thought about it more and more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to do it for a long while, but I do have a few questions.
How bad does it hurt?
What do I do...if I'm on bottom OR top?
What are the condoms that are most reliable?
Did you regret your first time?
Anything else?
Sorry it's so long but THANK YOU SOO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER!
it hurts a little for like a minuts and its gone.you can be on bottom or top.trojan .you wont regret it if its with a person you love and no complications happen.i think you should do it if you are really sure and trust who you are doin it with.also it should be your decision not his
no one should pressure you.also you dont have to have sex to show you love someone.
Okay, I'm 13 and i'm 5'0 (yeah im small!) and i weigh about, lets see 60-70 pounds. And I'm very concerned about it. Do you think I'm TERRIBALLY under-weight, or just little low?
And also, I HATE milk, so I dont drink that.
I eat alot of meat.. probally 3 times a week.
I eat ALOT of junk foods... i'd suspect to be fat by now.
I drink alot of soda, if that helps. And water also.
Last time I had a check-up, I was 12, and I weighed about 58 pounds.
And everyone is jellous for some reason that I'm that weight.
So, can I have your advice on how to gain about 10 pounds? I'm really into your advice, I'll read it thougly, completly untill im 100% okay with it and rate it what it deserves!
Please help :)
xOx Laura
hey if you want me to help you give me your email in feedback or sn
i like this guy. ive liked him before about two years ago. he was i guess you could say one of my biggest middle school crushes.we stopped talking for a while. got new friends. just didnt really talk anymore. im in high school now. we started talking again. of course my feelings came back for him. there are points when we talk that i get the feeling he likes me back. but other times he makes it seem like hes mad at me or im annoying. i told my best friend that i like him. she practically laughed in my face. she said hes ugly and that he only wants a piece of ass. i guess a few people have told me that. about last week we kinda i guess you could say hooked up. made out at his house. he wanted to go farther then making out. and i said no. which he was totally cool with. then just yesturday he admitted to liking me. he said doesnt want a girlfriend now though because of all the bad relationships hes had. which i totally understand. i want to get to know him better before we do anything else. but half of me thinks hes only saying he likes me to get a piece of ass. but the other half just wishes or hopes hes a great guy that i hope he is. what should i do? should i listen to my friends and give up on the kid? or should i go forward to hooking up and getting to know him better?
i know its had for you to believe but HE JUST WANTS A PIECE OF ASS.stay away from him.maybe he just wants someonearound to messwith anythime he wants.
does any body want to be my diet buddy? if you are on a diet then we can do it together and stuff. so we IM eachother when were bored, etc. also, we can give eachother tips and stuff. itll be fun and helpful. dont think im a weirdo, my friends just dont think i need to b on a diet, but i just dont want to GET heavy. so yea. lol. k later babes
i will be you diet buddy .what diet are you on.live me your sn and we willstart from their.
i really REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLLLLLLLLLLY like this boy whos my age but a year younger grade wise. but one of my best friends (a year younger than me so going into his grade) who goes to my school is going out with him! we both met him at the same exact time and stuff. but he doesnt go to our school. any way she know that i like him! like i told her i did and then she was like ME TOO. and that was before they got together. i like him so much but so does she. its soo hard. but im happy for her. i dont want to get over him but i dont want to be soo obsessive. i kno this is SUCH a common question and stuff but like you know. have u ever been in this situation? what did you do?
maybe you shoud move on because if he likes and dumps her for you.it might ruin your friend ship with your friend.do you think his worth it.so move on find someone knew and forget him becausee his hers.
Ok, so there's this girl who I REALLY love (real love, not "is she hot"), and she knows I like her, and I want to ask her out in a special way... not just "Hey, will you go out with me?" No. No way. I want something special like they did in Bye Bye Birdie (except her name has no rhymes or puns, and I'm the worst songwriter in existence). If it helps, it's my first time asking someone out, I can't do it in person because all the classes we have together, we're on opposite sides of the room, and I'm an insanely shy person. Are there any cute & special ways to do it on the interweb? That looks like my best bet right now... please, I really need help!!!!
mabe you should buy a card or make one telling her how you feel about her.then slip it into her locker or just hand it to her in private.
Does anybody know where you can get really nice cute clothes for bigger sized girls, I mean im not fat fat but i am bigger than most girls my age ( 15 ) so if anybody knows any good places to get cute clothes your help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!!
how much do u weigh,try jc peeny or go on line and look for curvy girls clothes
can anyone tell me how to give a 'love bite' or a 'hikky'? i cant seem to do em and i would really love to be able to give my bf one. so if any1 has any tips etc on what to do and how to do it please help me. thankies xxx
amtry kissing him somewhere for a long time
I fooled around with my boyfriend last night hehehe, it was great but yes but, today i am so horny i have no idea whats wrong with me, i was watching tv today and it was a music video and i got fucking horny off of that!! ive never even been horny really before and now im SO horny. What the hell is wrong with me? Is this normal?
masturbate
Welp this one girl angie was going out with a kid jon. While they were going out i sort of did things with jon =/ They broke up though and i lost my virginity to him. I asked him if he would ever consider going out with me becuase i dont want to be used. He said he would consider it but in his away messages and things it says how sorry he is to angie and how he wishes he could go back. i dont know if hes faking it? But i dont know what to do..somebody please help!
he was using you to replace angie.he is such a loser
OKAY, about a week ago i was having sex with my girl friend and we were realy geting in to it and well my skin on the side of my penis riped all the way down and you can see inside my penis and everything it is realy sick i dont no what to do i cant tell my mom because well i am 14 and sex is not aloud but it hurt real bad plz help me and tell me if i should tell her or let it go and spend the rest of my life not haveing sex and if you think i should be asking a guy this then give this to a guy that will help me!
go to a school nurse and ask for privacy.she will connect you to a doctor.