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IM Not Joking Plz Help ME
OKAY, about a week ago i was having sex with my girl friend and we were realy geting in to it and well my skin on the side of my penis riped all the way down and you can see inside my penis and everything it is realy sick i dont no what to do i cant tell my mom because well i am 14 and sex is not aloud but it hurt real bad plz help me and tell me if i should tell her or let it go and spend the rest of my life not haveing sex and if you think i should be asking a guy this then give this to a guy that will help me!
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go to a school nurse and ask for privacy.she will connect you to a doctor.
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go to the docters and get yourself looked at then jump back on the ladies and tell your dad first he wont give a flying shit..
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see a doctor. quick. make a story up. stay away if from the word "sex". tell her that you need to go to the hospital. at least tell your dad. good luck
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wow that sounds like it hurts. Trust me man ,you REALLY need to tell your mom. or atleast your dad. Start out by saying "i know you're going to be mad at me and all but just hear me out. (girl friends name) and i were just playing around and something happened to me. it really hurts and you should be proud that i had enough courage to talk to you about this. But i need to go see a doctor." you know? i mean of course your parents will be mad but that should realize that you did the right thing by comming to them. You shouldn't stop having sex forever dude....You should save sex for marraige...ok?
Good luck and keep me posted!
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Okay then sorry for effin trying - dont give me a 1 and say your giving me a 5. go to afrocowslayer's advice site, thats my friend steven and he could help you with it, mkay.
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Dude, Why should you be having sex NOW? This wouldn't have happened if you weren't having sex. My advice to you is: 1. Confront your parents about this. This could be very serious and you need to see a doctor right away. 2. Don't have sex ever again until you're married. Or at least way older than 14.
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ok well first of all if your 14 you shouldnt be having sex and if your skin is reely hurting you then tell someone I cant reely help u thought sorry
good luck
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I told my boyfriend and his exact reactions was:
/Horrified face
"GAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!"
"GO TO THE FREAKIN HOSPITAL, FORGET WHAT YOUR MOM IS GOING TO DO, YOU GOT TO GET IT CHECKED OUT"
He's mad at me for that image >)
I'm with him. You're hurt, You are crazy to not to get that checked out, worrying about your mom is probly the least of your troubles.
Edit: A 1?! I don't know what you're thinking, but everyone else pretty much said the same thing and atleast I got a guy's opinion on it. You need to appreciate the advice that's offered to you unless it's purposely to hurt your feelings. If you can't handle decent advice then don't ask for it.
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You need to see a doctor as soon as possible. I don't want to scare you, but if that rip isn't taken care of soon you could end up having serious long-term problems.
Since you're 14, perhaps you could just tell your mother that you have a problem "down there", and that you're too embarrassed to talk about it, but you want to see a doctor? That might not work - she might get suspicious - but you have to take that risk, because a ripped-open foreskin is SERIOUS. You probably need stitches.
I recommend waiting until you're older before having sex, of course. There are a LOT of good reasons to wait. But I don't expect that you'll listen to me about that.
So I'll just say this: if you INSIST on having sex now (well, after you heal), A) have SAFE sex - a condom would almost certainly have prevented this rip, and B) use a lot of water-based lubricant like KY - that would have also prevented this.
By the way, assuming that you're uncircumcised (which is implied by your question), it sounds as if you have phimosis, which basically means that your foreskin is too tight. This can be treated in a number of ways by your doctor.
Certain steroid creams can help to loosen the skin. Or, a minor surgical procedure can loosen it. In the most extreme cases, circumcisions are performed - but that's rare, and you would be able to refuse that option if you wanted to.
DON'T try to handle this yourself - SEE A DOCTOR. If your mother finds out, you WILL survive it. But if you don't have this taken care of by a doctor, you could end up never being able to have sex again. And if you get infected...well, that's something that you REALLY don't want to happen.
Good luck!
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