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I don't judge. I've seen a lot, and the things I haven't, I'm always open to listening to. I want to make a difference. advice
well this boy and i have had a "thing"(like crushes on eachother) for over a year. all our friends are friends with eachother, everything seems perfect. last year we were talking about making it offical but i hugged to many guys he says. but the crushes still remained. so we finally had a real date just the two of us. i finally admited i like him and he said he likes me too, but now its been about a month after the date and he NEVER calls or texts me EVER! i dont know what to do and i feel like im annoying if i try to callor text him. what should i do?
First, I'd agree with the last person who answered. You should defintely talk to him about the 'hugging too many guys'. It seems like he's either a little immature or just very jealous. Hugging's a really innocent thing, and it shouldn't be a huge problem, as long as you're not ignoring him to go hug someone else or something. Just talk that over with him, let him know it was a mistake. It basically just sounds like you may have hurt him a little, and he wasn't sure how to look over it.
Did it actually go anywhere once you both admitted to liking each other? It's kind of weird that he wouldn't call or text after that, because he should be very excited! If you guys haven't made it official, he might just be nervous to talk to you, or could be waiting for you to make a move. If you DID make it official adn are dating now, you should both be talking to each other a lot more!
I'd go and say that he's either nervous or very busy, however. He could be thinking the same thing as you--"Why isn't she calling? Would I bother her if I called her?" Just know that it's definitely NOT annoying for you to call him. He's probably been waiting for you to. Remember, guys shouldn't always be expected to take the inititive to call first, and sometimes they have to be reassured that it's okay to do that. Just text and ask how he's doing or something. If you haven't talked for a month, it definitely wouldn't be excessive to check up on him, and see how he's doing or what's going on.
Also, if you stil like him, ask if he wants to hang out if he isn't busy! It sounds like things went really well on the last date, why not try again?
XOXO
KAT.
i've lost too much weight and i barely eat now, how do i gain weight..?
Your stomach sounds like it's shrunk. You've gotta start slowly eating more, which will stretch your stomach out more, and allow you to gain weight.
Try setting certain times to eat every day. Don't just start overeating randomly--This'll make you sick! Set times for larger meals 3-5 times a day. Also, allow yourself to snack. Make sure you drink tons of water--You'll get used to feeling full. Also, if just eating healthily dosen't seem like it's working too well, try drinking nutritional shakes. The one on the top of my mind is called Boost, and they come in really yummy flavors and are sold at like, all grocery stores! (:
It's a pretty slow but sure process. Once your stomach expands again, it should speed up, though. Your metabolism is probably pretty low now, from not eating much, so once you do start eating normal amounts again, the weight should come at a fairly quick pace.
If this dosen't work out, see your doctor! Don't just wait it out forever. If you start getting dizzy or anything, the best thing to do would probably be to get an IV, or be put on a plan by a nutritonalist.
Best of luck, and I hope everything works out for you!
XOXO
KAT.
i'm a 16 year old girl and i'm scared to sleep alone in my own room. i'm scared of the tiniest things i see on tv, even if other people don't even think they're scary. for example, i was scared of the boy that came out from the bathtub on scary movie 3 or 4(i dont remember which one) even though that movie is a comedy!
im mainly scared of ghosts and stuff which i know sounds ridiculous, but also of people hiding in our house after breaking in. i know its irrational, but i can't help being scared! i just keep picturing scary scenes and thoughts in my head and then i cant keep my eyes closed.
does anyone else my age have this problem?? and what can i do to stop being scared?? also, my house makes A LOT of noises, like the walls creak and random stuff like that and a lot of it i don't know what the sounds are, which also scare me and cause me to start thinking scary thoughts. what should i do?????? thanks!!
I actually have/had this problem, too! It sounds like you're thinking WAY too in depth about these things, and are getting a tad paranoid, which is completely normal.
First, it's fine to get scared watching movies where things pop out and stuff. Lots of people have the same reaction, believe it or not, even if they've seen the movie lots of times!
Ghosts is a problem I had, haha. What I did was kind of face my fear. If I thought there was something in a different room, behind me, or looking at me from a window or something, I'd just go look. It's creepy, but it takes away from the "What if.." or "Maybe.." factor, and helps to relieve you a little. Also, I started actually watching the ghost shows again that got me so paranoid! Just watch them with a friend and well.. Make fun of them! It'll add a little comedic twist to one of your fears. I'd recommend either Ghost Hunters International (They're so irrational, it's funny), or A Haunting, both on the Sci Fi channel. After a while, you'll actually enjoy the shows, and feel a little more relaxed when it comes to those things.
For being scared of people breaking into your house, do the same thing where you'd check everything to make sure it's secure. Also, if you need to, take extra precautions. Keep a phone/flashlight/bat (?) near where you sleep, so you feel a little more comforted.
If you're getting scared at night, start reading or watching movies or something. It'll keep your mind off what's going on around you, and will give you less time to think and be paranoid.
Also, check out where the sounds are coming from one day! Do it during the day time, and walk around and see if there's any creaking or anything. Turn it into a game or something, and see if you can tell where people are walking and stuff.
Hope this helps at all, and believe me if you just get your minds off of it, everything will seem much less scary!
XOXO
KAT.
i'm sixteen years old, and i've known this guy since i was 14 years old. i seems like ever since the first day i layed eyes on him i liked him. in the beginging we talked a lot and we liked eachother. after a while his feelings stopped towrds me, but i still liked him, after about a year i got a girlfriend and they were togther for a little more then a year. but me and him became bestfriends, but secretly i still had strong feelings for him, later he cheated on his gf with me, and a little later they broke up. after they broke up we became A LOT closer and i lost my virginity to him. i talked to him about it and he said that we are just best friends and that's all we'll ever be, but he still wants to do things? what should i do? i feel like i want to stop talking to him, but he means to much to me, we are bestfriends.
It may seem like you guys are really close, and you really need him becaues you're best friends, but friends with benefits is such a tough situation, and almost never works out. There's so much better for you out there, and it sounds a little harsh, but this probably wouldn't end very well.
It kind of sounds like you know he's using you in a way. I mean, it's great and all that he has a physical attraction to you, but sometimes with guys like this, that's all it'll ever be. It's going to hurt like hell once he ends up getting a new girlfriend or something.
There's no saying you can't be best friends, or even something more over time. But if he knows he can get what he wants physically from you NOW, he knows he won't need to go any further in your relationship. If you still want to be friends, REAL friends, let him know that you'd like to stop the physical stuff. Let him know it's bothering you, and not only will this make him see what he's doing is wrong, but also that that's not what your relationship should be based on. If he decides to stop talking, that's on him and he's probably losing a great girl. If he's smart at all, however he'll accept that you want to stop all of that, and continue to be your friend.
Being 'best friends' should never require you having to give anything up. If you don't mind this, and know your feelings won't to much further, go for it, but for your own well being I'd say to go with my advice and be strong! You know what's best for you, and you deserve a lot more than what you're getting.
XOXO
KAT.
16/f im in love with this boy kyle. and we were dating for about two months. actually we broke up on our two month anniversary. "/ but anyway. we have known each other for about two years. he says he loves me too but he thought it was for the best. hes two grades above me and is a senior this year at a different school. he was completely mature about the break up and it couldnt have gone smoother. he said the sweetest things like hell always love me and i made a mark on his heart and hell never forget me. but i cried so hard when we broke up and i didnt think i would ever stop because he was the most amazing boyfriend i could ever ask for. he was respectful, nice, funny. basically the perfect guy. but we hadnt seen each other in a little while. he went on vacation and was gone for five days (which killed me) and then hes in the band and works two jobs. so we probably wouldnt be able to see each other for a while but we would. i mean if he loves me he would be willing to wait to see me. am i right ? i need to be with him. im so in love with him. how can i get him back ? please help. im miserable without him ):
Hey. First of all, I'm really sorry for the difficult situation you're in. It always seems like when we find the perfect guy, there's going to be something to keep him away.
The thing is, it sounds like he's doing this for the best, if you don't already at least understand/consider his reasoning. He probably wants you to be able to experience someone who has enough time for you, and will be able to see you a lot more. He's also probably under a TON of stress at the moment, it being his senior year, and having two jobs and being in the band. Adding a girlfriend to all of that really leaves a lot on the mind, and makes things very strained at times. The fact that he said he'd still love you kind of shows this. (Assuming there's no underlaying reason, or anything like that.)
It's not that he wouldn't wait to see you if he loved you, it may have been that he COULDN'T. It must have been very difficult for him to make this decision, and he's probably very, very mature to do this for the better well being of both of you. To make things easier on both of you, I'd say to try to be friends for the time being, and see where things go from that. It'd make things a lot less stressful for him, and would give you the chance to see if there's anyone else out there who seems to have the same effect on you (Hard to hear now, but it's possible!).
However, if you absolutely NEED him back, it's going to take time, and a lot of convincing. Depending on his personality, it may be very easy or extremely difficult for you to convince him to get back together. He'll either stick to his very difficult decision, since he took the trouble to actually go through with it, or he'll give in once he sees how you're reacting.
Let him know how you're feeling/why. Be very mature about it, and say that you understand his reasoning, and you're willing to compromise and wait for him, if he'd give you the chance. Make sure he knows you'll be patient, and you'd rather have him like this than not at all. You have to make him understand that you're willing to do anything to keep him around, and that he thinks he's helping but it's really hurting you. At least ask him for a chance for a few weeks--just to see how things work out. Don't make the situation very stressful, and it's likely that he'll listen and be willing to compromise.
I really hope this works out for you, and if not, everything will be fine! It'll all play out the way it needs to over time.
XOXO
KAT.
hi
i was wondering if its safe to put a tampon in your vagina before you actually get your period? like if its safe. my sis wants to know wether its safe or not so plz answer this question!
I'd say not to do it. You're only supposed to use them when there's blood flow, and putting one in dry would really hurt. There'd be no lubrication or anything, so yeah.. Not good. She wouldn't like, die of anything, but not a good idea, hah.
XOXO
KAT.
17/f
I don't believe that my dreams can predict what will happen, but I am slightly concerned right now. The night before last I had a dream about death then had many 'signs' of death occuring yesterday. I spoke to my friend about it telling her how weird it seemed. Just now I found all of the baby birds and their mother that live in my carport dead.
I think these situations are unrelated. However, should I be worried? Last Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday nights I had very clear dreams about terrorist attacks on the HSBC Celebration of Light (fireworks) in Vancouver. I do not usually remember my dreams but I did when I woke up in the mornings last week on those three days.
I plan on going to these fireworks tomorrow night. I shouldn't take my dream too seriously, right? As of now I still plan on going but after the death of the birds I am wondering if I should stay home.
Wow, that's odd. I used to have strange occurances that would seem a lot like what I'd dreamed about, but after a while it seemed more like coincidences than anything else. Was the death of the birds an impending thing that you could have otherwise seen clearly? Even if not, it COULD be a very ironic thing that happened. Perhaps you wouldn't have even noticed these things on other days if it weren't for the dream. It COULD be the case that you're pointing out things you'd normally not notice because of a certain circumstance? I can't be completely sure on that, really.
I personally don't think you should worry all that much. It could just be that you're worrying and thinking more about your dreams, so they're reoccuring and seem so detailed. I'm sure there's at least decent security in Vancouver.
If you believe in dreams predicting things AT ALL, you could also consider that certain parts of dreams don't always represent exactly what they seem to be. I used to have a Book of Dreams that had lists of objects/scenarios and that they actually represented. For example, I think explosions meant lots of impending emotion, or something like that. A terrorist attack could represent something else, perhaps?
I'd say if you really want to see these fireworks, go for it! I'm sure everything's going to be alright. It's probably coincidence that this point, with all of the dreams, but that's just my opinoin since I don't necessairly believe in Psychic activity to an extent.
It's okay to follow your gut, and even your dreams, but make sure they're not holding you back and making you miss out on things because you're worried!
XOXO
KAT!
My cousin's grandpa just died. :(
I'm really close to my cousin, but I don't really know what to do or say to her cause I've never really had someone close to me die.
I was wondering what I should do?
I don't want to seem like a heartless person and I don't want to say the wrong thing and make her feel bad...
All advice is appreciated.
Thanks
Aw, I'm really sorry about what happened, and I'm glad you'd like to reach out to someone like this. I'm sure your cousin will appreciate anything you have to say at this point; It's definitely the thought that counts!
While "He's in a better place" is so cliche, it usually helps to hear. Just try to talk about the good memories your cousin had with her grandfather. This will help on reminiscing, rather than focusing on the actual death. Ask her what she'll remember about him. Little things like what he smelled like, and funny things he said. Maybe it'll make her cry, but sometimes it's good to let it out, and it's one of the best things you can do in a situation like this (just a warning for you).
Just make sure she knows that she can come to you if she needs to talk about absolutely anything. Let her know, flat out that you're there for her. The fact that you're concerned will definitely show!
XOXO
KAT.
Alright. My boyfriend broke up with me last March, leaving me to chase after another girl and reasoning that we just "didn't get along anymore."
I was devastated. I had been together with him for over 3 years and had spent the majority of our time together. He was my best friend and other half. He didn't talk to me for about 2 weeks, most of which I cried.
When he came back from college for the summer, we were on cordial enough terms that we thought we could see each other briefly, perhaps share a beer or two and catch up. We began to hang out more frequently, and soon found ourselves having sex again on a regular basis. He maintained that while he "wanted to be my friend," he "still didn't want to get back together with me."
Things with him and the girl he had been chasing after subsided. I meanwhile grew frustrated since I still loved him after all this time, and eventually decided to move on to someone else.
Old boyfriend now calls me all the time, tells me he feels "weird and sick" when he pictures me and my new guy together. He recently left for a 3 day trip to Chicago and said that he knew me and this new guy were going to spend all that time together which made him feel "nauseous."
What's up with this? Advice?
Owch! Well first, it depends on how you still feel about this ex. If you still really have feelings for him, this is going to come of as maybe a little harsh.
It honestly sounds like you're his 'back-up girl'. Things were good, but once he saw something new, he kind of seemed to give up and chase the new girl. Once he realized that was over, he knew he could go back to you, because you still had feelings. Now that he's alone again, he's decided to move onto you again.
While he COULD still sincerely have some feelings, try to question how strong they actually are. Maybe it bothers him to see you with this new guy, but he didn't seem to really consider how YOU were feeling when he was chasing that new girl. He seems so on/off, and I wouldn't recommend breaking off what you have now for something so unstable; You may regret it later.
You could always forgive him, but don't forget what he did! There's no saying you can't be friends, but I would highly suggest you keep it to a strictly FRIENDS situation. It'll save you a lot of hurt. If he seems like he's changing over TIME, that's one thing, but give it time. Let him know how he made you feel, and why you're making whatever decision you make.
I really hope this has helped in some way, and that everything works out for you! You deserve so much better than what's happened, so I hope you take my advice into consideration.
XOXO
KAT.
ok i have this situation me and this guy have been really good friends and recently our feelings have changed he likes me alot and we have been talking alot more and i developed some feelings for him as we were talking but idk wat happened i just dont feel the same no more and he really likes me he is so sweet to me treats me the way any girl would want to be treated and i feel bad because i dont have strong feelings for him like he does for me and my friends are like give him a chance and stuff so i have been and when were together its wierd now he is kinda shy and then i makes me feel wierd cuz the way our relationship was as just friends was kool always laughing and stuff now its just different and i dont really like it i feel wierd to flirt with him and its just not right and i dont know how to tell or what to do at all he is so nice to me and i dont want to hurt him
Oh wow, this sounds kind of familiar when it comes to my past relationships! Falling for friends can definitely be complicated. The problem in this is that it's more fun and it almost seems forbidden in a way to like a good friend, and then it's kind of bland once ya'll are together.
If you don't want to hurt him, try to wait it out for a little. It sounds ilke it's a little boring in a way to be alone together. Try doing things that don't require a lot of flirting or anything. Watch some movies together so you can just sit around and cuddle and be comfortable. This would make it so that it's not forced really, and if you just relax, it's really interesting. That, or you guys could hang out with a group of friends so that you're not forced to completlely be romantic, and can be more playful and friend-like for the time being.
If you really don't think it'd work out though, try to talk to him and ask him how he feels about everything. Give him a chance to say how he feels instead of instantly breaking up if that's what you're planning on doing. Let him get it all out, then you do the same. Afterwards, give it a week or two and see if things improve. Don't be too nervous about talking to him about it, by the way. It may be a little awkward, but it'll help a lot, believe me! Also, 'taking a break' could be a nice alternative to an instant break up, and it could bring back the 'forbidden fliting' aspect.
If those things don't work, think of how things would be if you guys broke up. Sure, it'd be a little awkward as well, but could you still get along? Would you still be friends? Would you both be happier? Could you find someone better? Will you regret it? Ask yourself questions like this, and follow the answers to help you make the smartest decision!
Good luck!
XOXO
KAT.
I got my tonsils taken out today and they used general anesthesia on me. When I woke up I found myself feeling that I couldn't breat and gasping for air. It turns out the breathing tube was still in my throat. I think I was squirming, because I remember hearing the nurses say, "Stop moving, stop moving!". I think they put me back to sleep though, because I don't remember feeling them take the tube out. Has this ever happened to anyone before, when they woke up earlier than they were supposed to? It was SCARY! Thanks!!
This hasn't happened to me personally, but I know it's sometimes common for people to wake up a little early because the dosage wasn't high enough, or the nurses thought you would be fine awake. It's been said that some people have even been completely concious through anesthesia--Scary! It's likely this won't happen again if you're ever in the situation.
XOXO
KAT.
So i was talking to this guy when he totally just ditched me and started talking to someone else..i couldnt believe it..i fell for his game and now i regret ever talking to him..how do i get over this guy? I feel like there was no closure with him..he just ditched me one day
Aw, I totally understand the need for closure! I'm really sorry about the situation, by the way. Just remember, you definitely deserve the best, and before I say anything, keep that in mind!
Is he just flirting with another girl or something? If this is the case, get competitiveif you're still into this guy. However, if he's just stopped talking to you completely, I'm not sure if he's worth the trouble. If you really still want to be friends and forget the regret, just try to keep in touch with him for a little. See how it goes from there.
However, if you just want to get off your chest how rude it was, just tell him! Or ask him over the phone or the computer or something if you're nervous, why he stopped talking to you. It's good and all to drop hints about it, but being straight forward in this situation would be one of the best things to do. This will get you your closure. If you just hint, you may leave things out and have a lot left over on your mind.
To get over him, try talking to your friends more, or talk to a different guy. While it's not always the best method, it's pretty effective! Just get your closure with this guy and get him off your mind, and try to distract yourself with something new (whether it be a guy or activity--keep your mind free!).
I really hope you get the closure you need and you can stop worrying about this and stuff. It's really unfair what he did, and honestly if he seems like he's not all that concerned, you deserve so much better!
XOXO
KAT.
14/f
This isn't exatly a normal advicenators question but it is still a question.
This is an opinion base thing for all those people who are fans of the popular Twilight series, and the new book , Breaking Dawn, that is released tomorrow morning at 12:01 AM.
What do you think will happen in Breaking Dawn? ? ?
I am really curios to read other peoples opinions.
Oh wow, I really can't wait! My friends and I have had this conversation a lot, really. Haha, my friend pre-ordered it for me in May and I'm all pumped about it. XD
Personally, I'm thinking Bella will either become a vampire/get married to Edward, or the feud will really heat up between the wolves/vampires. For some reason, I've also got a feeling the Volturi will be coming back. Maybe they'll encourage Edward to turn Bella into a vampire? (: I just get that feeling, because remember the Cullens all voted on whether or not Bella should stay mortal towards I think the end of New Moon?
Ahh can't wait!! Haha.
Im fifteen and Ive had a few boyfriends, just one or two in middle school, but Ive never kissed a guy.
But my two bestfriends, exfriend, and former crush have already lost their virginity. Theyve always said they thought that Id be the first to get a guy. Wrong!
Im usually a bit too optimistic and loove a really good hug. Haaha my "scene-esque" friends give THEE best! But I dont even curse, and Ive decided to get myself a purity ring :D
but I think Im pretty great.
Soo why dont guys wanna go for me?
My family has a big history of social disorders including agoraphobia, so I would never be willing to make the first move.
Thats a problem. How can I get over it?
First, don't worry about what everyone else is up to at the moment. Kids are moving faster and faster these days, and it's completely okay if you're not doing the same things. This is the age when some people are just getting their first kisses, and it'll happen when it's right. (:
It's not like you sound like a bad person or anything. You probably actually sound like someone guys would usually go for. Optimism is rare lately, and it's very good that you posess it! That's something the guys should really be going for.
There's nothing specific guys always go for. It's usually just that the good ones are taken, or you can't find the really good ones. They'll come around though. One recommendation would be to get a few good guy friends. Trusting a guy and being close to him before anything usually makes it easy to fall for him later on.
Just make sure you don't let your family's history hold you back! Phobias can sometimes be gotten over just by taking a risk and doing the very thing you're scared of. This could help you in getting over it. Sometimes, you can't wait around for a guy to make the first move because they're just as nervous at dating at that age as you probably are! Heck, a lot of chances could be lost by not actually making a move. This history could be well, history starting with you! If you see someone you're interested in, make sure you make an effort and make it obvious that you like them. If you're too nervous to actually ask them out, just hint around and they'll know to make the move.
Best of luck!
XOXO
KAT.
How do you make guys notice you? as in wow i like her kind of way or a look way?
It all varies from guy to guy. What might catch one guy's eye wouldn't even phase another. There's no one thing you can really do to make any guy notice you.
What I'd recommend though, is to be confident and have fun in whatever you're doing! Confidence is usually something that REALLY appeals to guys, and happiness definitely will make the guy want to be around a girl more. Just try to laugh and smile!
If you want the attention on a physical basis, just make sure you're always dressed pretty well, and you look your best when you go out. Just make sure it dosen't seem like you're trying really hard (though most guys wouldn't notice anyway.) Make everything you do seem effortless and full of confidence.
Overall though, when a guy notices you, he does. There's no certain thing that's going to turn heads, so just do your thing and hope someone's paying attention (;
XOXO
KAT.
HEy do guys get upset if a girl is really athletic and is really better than they are does that turn a guy away? And do guys hate when a girl is really competitive?
Hey, it all depends on the guy, obviously! I doubt a guy would really dislike a girl if she was better at him at something, some guys could see that as a challenge. However, some guys could also feel that they're being shown up by a girl, which could bother them. It's the same situation for when a girl is competitive. I'd say that guys probably like girls who are competitive in a more playful sense than anything else. If it's an aggressive/angry competitive, I'd think that the guys might back away a little.
If a guy's into challenges/games/sports, he'd probably find the competitive/athletic girl more appealing. If he's more reserved or maybe wants more of a girly girl, he'd probably have to try harder to fall for the competitive/athletic girl.
Hope this has helped, and don't compromise yourself for a guy--The right one will see you for what you are. (:
XOXO
KAT.
I am vegetarian and I am often offered foods containing meat. I always feel so rude saying no to their food when they have taken so much time to prepare it and stuff.
How do I get around this without feeling rude or offending people?
If this is an issue when you go to your friends houses or something, make sure you let them know beforehand that you're a vegetarian. If it's in other social situations, just make sure you try to drop hints that you're a vegetarian.
Just politely say "No thanks, I'm a vegetarian." If they still offer. It's not being rude at all, really! Actually, THEY probably think they're offending you. Just make sure you let them know that you're not offended, and you hope that you haven't offended them. Be straightforward, and you'll get good results! (:
If it continues to be an issue, just make sure you bring money or pack food when you're going somewhere. That way, the people won't need to completely make another meal.
XOXO
KAT.
is it normal for a 13 year old guy(me) to have never been in a fight, be really sensitive(cry when im angry and when im pissed off/annoyed) and just weird things like that
It's definitely normal! It's most likely that most of your hormones are kicking in at this point. You're getting older and things are different, as well. It's okay to be sensitive, and you'll be able to cope better with everything over time.
Also, I'd like to say, it seems like a good thing that you're being sensitive rather than lashing out and fighting. Ladies are generally bothered by violence. Just make sure you NEVER take your emotions out on yourself by hurting yourself or anything. It'll all settle out over time, and no worries, this is all pretty normal, even if it dosen't seem like the other guys are going through the same thing!
XOXO
KAT.
15/f
i'm 15 yrs. old and i still haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed. I KNOW whoever answers this will say something like " don't worry it'll happen someday" or "when the time it'll happen". I'm not saying i WANT it to happen. but i just want to wonder why it hasn't happened. you know what i mean? please give me your honest opinions.
Hm.. Well really, it does happen with time. What might be a problem is that you're not getting yourself out there enough. Having a boyfriend dosen't always mean kissing, but it definitely helps! If you see a guy you're interested in, take a chance and maybe it'll get further. If you're shying away or not really getting into relationships, you'll probably have this problem for a while.
This kind of thing usually dosen't happen because of looks or anything, just kind of an example of how things play out.
When you're ready, take a chance and make yourself avaliable. (:
XOXO
KAT.
what does it mean by having a one sided love or a two sided love? i never understood that.
please&thanks!
One sided love would be like one person loves the other, but the other dosen't feel the same way. Two sided would be that both people loved each other (aka, in love).
XOXO
KAT.