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still hasn't happened
15/f
i'm 15 yrs. old and i still haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed. I KNOW whoever answers this will say something like " don't worry it'll happen someday" or "when the time it'll happen". I'm not saying i WANT it to happen. but i just want to wonder why it hasn't happened. you know what i mean? please give me your honest opinions.
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We know nothing about you, therefore, we cannot tell you if you're doing something wrong. And chances are, you're not. On the contary to most of these answers, you probably just haven't found a guy you click with yet. Don't blame yourself.
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Hm.. Well really, it does happen with time. What might be a problem is that you're not getting yourself out there enough. Having a boyfriend dosen't always mean kissing, but it definitely helps! If you see a guy you're interested in, take a chance and maybe it'll get further. If you're shying away or not really getting into relationships, you'll probably have this problem for a while.
This kind of thing usually dosen't happen because of looks or anything, just kind of an example of how things play out.
When you're ready, take a chance and make yourself avaliable. (:
XOXO
KAT.
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there is a couple reasons why it probably hasnt happened..
i think one of the obvious ones can be that guys like you, maybe friends, they just choose not to tell you. guys are shy too! they can feel the same way us girls feel about having a crush sometimes.. also, the way you portray yourself. are you confident? friendly? do you come off as decent? these are things you need to take into consideration.. well good luck!
flirty:)
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It's possible that you are giving out the wrong signals - as in 'don't come near me you scare me' or something similar.
If your self esteem is low you can project this out and guys can pick up on it.
My best advice is to start believing in yourself and telling yourself every day that you are a lovely, kind, approachable person. Once you start giving off signals that you are a happy person comfortable with themselves, guys are more likely to want to get to know you.
I hope that this helps you. Good luck.
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