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is it normal for a 13 year old
is it normal for a 13 year old guy(me) to have never been in a fight, be really sensitive(cry when im angry and when im pissed off/annoyed) and just weird things like that
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Sure, why not? You're human and have emotions like anyone else. Crying is good for and your body's way of releasing all that tension built up when upset, scared, frightened or even in a fight. Just because you're a boy doesn't mean you can't cry.
Keeping stuff bottled up is wrong. So yes, big boys do cry and should but it's that macho BS image thing that makes them think they shouldn't. So, even if you cry a river when upset some time their ain't nothing wrong with it. In fact, if you didn't I would be worried.
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nothing wrong with being a nice person ,i wish i could say the same when was your age i dint know how to controll my anger i turned to drugs instead lsd made me nicer truth ,not sujesting to do drugs it will lead to a really bad life im28 and living it ,i find my self crying at the stupidest things ,i was at a funeral the other day and didnt cry but will cry over something stupid in the news ,,so i guess crying is alot better than hurting others
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You remind me of myself, because I was and still am exactly like you.
I've never been in a physical fight [I think it's stupid and pointless], and as much as I don't like to admit it, I am sensitive and I used to cry a lot more about almost everything, but now it's died down a bit.
You're perfectly normal, and don't let people tell you that you aren't. Because there are a lot of guys out there like you, and like I said, I'm one of them xD.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Perfectly normal.
You don't have to say "weird things like that." It's not weird. On the contrary, it's a great thing. Fighting is silly and useless. And regardless of what they say, many boys cry.
By the way, many girls find these qualities attractive. It could be very useful to you :D.
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It's definitely normal! It's most likely that most of your hormones are kicking in at this point. You're getting older and things are different, as well. It's okay to be sensitive, and you'll be able to cope better with everything over time.
Also, I'd like to say, it seems like a good thing that you're being sensitive rather than lashing out and fighting. Ladies are generally bothered by violence. Just make sure you NEVER take your emotions out on yourself by hurting yourself or anything. It'll all settle out over time, and no worries, this is all pretty normal, even if it dosen't seem like the other guys are going through the same thing!
XOXO
KAT.
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Why wouldn't it be? You are who you are and you shouldn't let others influence you. If anything, it's a GOOD thing you're not out beating the crap out of other guys and that you actually show your emotions =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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Yeah,it's normal. It just means your a sensitive guy, and that's perfectly fine. All guys are different.
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it's normal.. everyone has different ways of dealing wit things. some people have anger problems so they fight... some people cry because they feel its better, some people write poetry or play drums... and about not being in a fight, thats totally normal.. that means you dont look for problems or people get along with you.. you're just 13, so you have alot of time to change, and trust me things will change. your state of mind, state of being, etc. so good luck!
flirty :)
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Everybody's different.
Not all guys fight you know. And to be honest, from a girl's point of view, I don't see guys who fight a lot as tough. I see them as immature.
And about the being really sensitive part, well you're thirteen. You're just starting to go through puberty. Everybody's a little more sensitive when they go through puberty. Even guys.
I have a younger brother who's around thirteen and he shows emotion when he's angry. It's okay.
It's normal to occasionally be so angry you cry. It doesn't mean you're a wimp.
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