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confidence issues
13/m sorry for the question being so long
lately one or two of my friends have been real dicks to me at first i thought i was just a joke but now they just wont stop teasing me, if its not one person its the other and they tease me about little things like i need to get a hair cut or i dont have the latest brand clothes
at first it didnt bother me but now its really getting to me because my grades have been lowering and last week i spent the whole week of because i didnt want to listen to his constant comments on my behaviour or how i have a really crap car and i cant afford to get a new one
and ive talked to my parents and theyve talked to my teacher and principal about it and the principal talked to the guy and said if he keeps teasing people and stuff like that(because my teacher told me hes been doing it to other people, but i havent noticed that) and still he wont stop doing it its like he doesnt care about anyones feeling except his best friend (btw his best friend does it to me but only sometimes)
so thats about it
btw please dont be saying stuff like just go confront him cause i know what hes like hell just laugh at me
and also please dont say just go away from him because he hangs around with my friends and i want to stay with my friends
thanks in advance
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never let what people say keep you down ,,,,,why look like the rest of the sheep with there fancy cloths ,do you really want to be like evryone else its all an illusion ,dose haveing some a$$holes name on you shirt make you a better person ,dose a nice car get you there where your going in a better manor that a cheap one ,if you need to impress these people with all ths crap do you really even want to be around them , a true freind would not do this to you ,its funny i had something similar happen to me lattely and im 28 ,i make alot of money and still where tore up old cloths and had some crack head in a nice shirt put me down ,i kinda let it bother me ,went back to what i have always thought just cause you where a suit dosnt make you a good person and vise sersa hope this helps
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"please dont be saying stuff like just go confront him cause i know what hes like hell just laugh at me"
1. I won't tell you to confront him because people like that are too drenched in their own stupidity to realize that what other people have to say to them means something.
"please dont say just go away from him because he hangs around with my friends and i want to stay with my friends "
2. I'm going to point out that if your friends are really your friends and good friends, they should know about this situation and should not be hanging out with this jerk.
3. Friends are everywhere you go. I'm sure you can find new friends in no time. Personally, if these "friends" of yours are too "wowed" by this jerk-esque to notice what he's doing to you, they're not worth keeping for the cost of being bullied everyday.
4. Stay away from this guy as much as possible because he'll never get it that what he's doing is selfish, immature, stupid, and rude. People like that are probably never going to grow up, never have real friends, and will encounter lots of problems in the future. No use in trying to keep friends that want to hang out with a guy like him.
5. Don't insult him. In fact, don't do anything to him or show any signs of him impacting you. The more you show stress or the more you do something that shows this guy has a grip on you/can play around with your emotions, the more kick he's going to get out of what he's doing and he's going to continue doing what he's doing. So just ignore him and act "friendly" to him if you pass by him in the hallway. This will most likely to cause him to rethink about what he's doing and if he's getting as much fun out of it as he is wasting his time. So if you don't react, he's not going to bother as much in the future to watch someone ignore him and live a separate happy life.
6. Live a separate happy life. Pretend that he never existed and walk away if he starts to act like a jerk again. Get new friends, pick up on your school work, get yourself involved in activities/clubs/sports, etc. and move on in life. No use in trying to keep friends that are his friends, no use in stressing out over a jerk, and no way should you let this guy hinder you from getting the best you can out of life.
Good luck!
Emily
16/f
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Try just ignoring him. WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T STOOP DOWN TO HIS LEVEL. Who cares what he thinks?! He's a jerk, so it's not like your even the slightest bit interested in him. If he says something mean you can be like, okay, whatever. Or you can go along with the joke, if he says your car is crappy, just be like, yeah i know! Just go along on it. Eventually, hopefully, he'll stop because it doesn't bothor you.
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