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Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE! (link)
you probably just mmised it I wouldn't sweat it if it doesen't come within the next few weeks talk to your parents who will probably eventually take you to a doctor. Don't worry much.
Karazi Kenzee


I just started to go out this boy. I really like him. We hang out alot. We joke around alot and he really likes to tickle me even though I don't like it. I still want to go out with him but how can I get him to stop tickling me? He also has been flirting with another girl. It looks innocent but should I worry about it? I rate good. Thanks! (link)
Say to him very firmly I don't like when you tickle me and ask him why he flirts withs other girls. Tell him if he doesen't stop tickling you you'll break up with him.
Karazi Kenzee


Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!! (link)
You might be bisexual and there's nothing wrong with that or it could be friend ship love. I don't know test things out see where they go.
Karazi Kenzee


ok so my guy friend i like him but idk he's been acting werid huging me and stuff touching my hair holding me and he always says i love u babe its freakin me out! wat should i do ? (link)
If you like him and are comfortable with the relationship then go with it. Ask him to dinner at your house so he can meet you parents and find out if they approve.
Good Luck.
Karazi Kenzee


Ok I just found out that the camp that I will be attending for 2 weeks over the summer won't let you have ANY electronic equipment. That includes hair dryers/ hair straightners. I have very frizzy, poofy, thick, wavy/ curly hair, and the ONLY way to make it look respectable and decent is to straighten it. I look extremely terrible without doing this, like it is almost so bad that you cannot imagine.
My question is if anybody knows any products to put on your hair to STRAIGHTEN it. I have tried this straightening shampoo, but it didn't work. Does anyone know something that will actually straighten it (NOT just relax it)? I know about the frizz ease stuff, but that doesn't straighten.
I rate 5's bi the way! (link)
try putting it in a pony tail or if that does not satisfy put it in a bun.
Karazi Kenzee


Hey There!

I don't exactly pluck my eyebrows at all, but they aren't "bushy". Is there any tips to help me shape my eyebrows? Where do I pluck, and where do I not. I don't want my eyebrows to get too crazy, you know? (link)
Go to the hair dresser and get them waxed or something it doesen't hurt that bad.
Karazi Kenzee


Well, I think I might be spotting (Menstruely lol) when I use the bathroom my undergarments are covered with a mixed waste...when I wipe, i get alot, or a little, blood on my toilet paper, sorry if im too graphic...anyway, I havent started my period yet (I'm 13). Do you think this is spotting? or do i have a problem? (link)
I think you have started your period maybe talk to your mom definitly ask for pads.
Karazi Kenzee


I have a boy friend and my perants are cool with it but then my friend said that he was going to ask me on a date my parents say that I can't date till I drive what should I do (link)
If the guy asks you out maybe suggest that they do a movie with alot of friends and then sit apart from the group that way it's not really a date and you can be sort of alone.
Karazi Kenzee


There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend) (link)
I think it's like his macho I have to be cool, showy, offy side that shows when you two are not alone.When you two are alon he is himself.
Karazi Kenzee


I have only been in one relationship before, and that was with a guy who was completely clueless about everything. That relationship really didn't last long.
But now there's another guy on the scene, and I am aware that he is a little more experienced.
I am very self-concious, I am not happy with my lower body (from the hips down really), and I'm not sure how comfortable I would be doing things with this guy. I really really like him, but I have never done anything beyond kissing before and I think this guy would want more.
What should I do? The relationship is in its early stages and I have made it clear that I want to wait, but for the time being it would be nice to have an idea of what I should do.
There is also the problem of me not knowing WHAT to do, which also contributes to the problem.
All advice welcomed. (link)
Don't do any thing you will regret. WAIT.If this boy really wants more and starts to pressure you then he is not for you.
Karazi Kenzee


ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?! (link)
quick! before he asks you out talk to your friend and make sure she doesen't mind. If she does then find out why she might have really good reasons. If it's because she doesen't want you to take her "not boyfriend" then forget her go with the boy.
now about this other guy, say yes to the boy that already sorta asked you out. You didn't tell me about any "road blocks" so it's ok that way you can avoid any problems with your friend.
Karazi Kenzee


I want to have kind of a spa - afternoon at my house, maybe with 1 friend over. But I was wondering - what should we do?? I have a hot tub ..anyone have any other ideas that we could do to be pampered? Please help!! =) Thank you ..ill rate high and give feedback! (link)
you could give each other foot baths and do oatmeal and honey masks for your face just mix the two while you have the oatmeal mask on put wet tea bags on your eyes to help with the bags under your eyes.
Have fun.
Karazi Kenzee


ok well i have this friend call her leah shes 15 and im 14 and the guy joe is 16. ok well leah had a boyfriend who was her age hit her forced her into sex and he did drug her parents found out and she has alot of regrets. well she met this guy named joe hes really cute and nice. he was supposed to come over but never did. leahs really upset thnking hes going to be like her ex she should give joe a second chance he was at the mall instead of coming over what should she do.

signed stuck in the middle (link)
leah should confront joe. She should ask joe why he didn't come over and why he was at the mall.
Karazi Kenzee


okay i have a verizon cell phone and i have a year and a half left of the plan. i wanna get rid of it and get a new cell phone (cingular or t-mobile) but it costs $179 to cancel the verizon plan. should i cancel my plan, or should i just wait until my plan ends to get a new cell phone? (link)
Wait until it expires 179 dollars to cancel is ridculous.
Karazi Kenzee


What's the best way to ask your parents if you can go out on a date- I'm not talking about "boyfriends" that you have in like 7th grade, I mean HS bfs .. and how to tell your parents that you have a bf without feeling-weird and uncomfortable! Thanks (link)
ask them if your boy friend can come over for dinner so they can meet him and tell your boyfriend to be really nice. then find out what they think about him and if they like him vwa-la. if they don't find out why and try to fix it. if they think your not ready for a boyfriend then explain to them that you are how ever old you are tell them you are responsible and maybe do some extra work around the house.
Good luck
Karazi Kenzee


ok..i stole a bottle of perfume,earings,keychain,lipgloss,2 rings, (this was formyself) i also helped out my friend steal her stuff and she helped me steal mine. I never stole anything before..and im kinda feeling bad now. the stuff i took was probably worth $15 or $20 altogether. is there a way i can make myself feel better and get rid of he guilt..besides returning it. And is it true that people steal stuf until they get caught? because ii dont want to make a habitt out of this. have any of you stolen anything before? (link)
O.k theres only one true way to fix this. ok maybe two, you have to give the stuff back.you can either give the stuff back and pay for it, so the store clerk will like you more if you pay or you could just give the stuff back. tell your friend this too don't steal it's wrong and you now may be banned from that store for now or for ever
Karazi Kenzee


When considering a floral design,. i dont know if i should go with babies breath and carnations, or rhonedendrons with a touch of dandilion. This is really important, i have to impress my girlfriend. ANSWER QUICKLY! (link)
O.k go with the babies breath and carnations same thing everybody does and you can't really go wrong.
on the oter hand
picking wild flowers is sooo sweet and she'll probably love it. How eer dandylions (unless sh likes them) are retarted. so nmaybe go with babys breath and rhonedendrons or carnations. Good luck.
Karazi Kenzee


I'm 15/f and a freshman in highschool. Lately I've been having problems with my phys. ed. teacher. I'm not going to be around the bush about this, but he's an asshole. (excuse my language). He's always such a jerk to me about every little thing. A friend of mine had a shirt on that she changed into for PE that had a picture of George Bush Sr. and George Bush on it and it sayd Dumb and Dumber under their pictures. He had a fit about it and I was supporting her saying that she can have an opinion about whatever the heck she wants to. He basically said she's not allowed to have an opinion about it until she's 18. Then he proceeded to say how he can run his class the way he wants to and if I have a problem with it to take it up with the principal. Not only is he a jerk, but alot of the time he seems like one of those really creepy pedophile type people. He's always staring at me when we do stretches and stands behind me when we're doing toe- touches. We had to do jumping jacks this weird way and I'm not coordinated enough to do it so he asked me to stay after class about it. We were doing lay ups when we played basketball and I suck at any sport that involves a ball and he asked me to stay after class to work on it when there were about 5 other people that sucked 10 times worse than me but didn't ask them to stay after. What exactly should I do about this? I mean, he hasn't made "a move" on me so I can't really say much about that but what should I do? Sorry this was long! (link)
Maybe you could try telling him that you don't like it when he watches you so closly. and from what I know of thisteacher he'll pobably give you some more of his shit so just say there are kids doing alot worse than me and you don't have to pay attention to me all the time. so have a friend around to vouch for you. Good Luck
Karazi Kenzee


ok i have this pimple that is like smaller than a pin head. the only problem is that it is so full of like puss and junk that it is white. i have tan skin so it REALLY shows up. the other thing is that it is like right where the outside curve of my nostril meets my face. so it is sort of hidden in a crease but still really noticable. my mom wont bring me anywhere to go get anykind of nutregina or anything so i need a home remedy on how to get rid of this bugger. like putting some kind of food on it or something. i need help and i need it fast. (link)
try turing it into a scab. poke it to get rid of the puss then once the puss is gone scratch it untill it starts to bleed then don't pick i good luck
Karazi Kenzi


well, my friend, who happens to be the same sex as me, keeps getting uncomforatblely close to me... well actually 2 same sex friends do this... and when i ask them to stop they constantly do this and one i think doesn't do it on purpose and she's always doing this and it bugs the heck out of me... how do i make it stop?!?!? (link)
Ask them why they get so close and if they respond in an uncomfortable way and say I don't know they might be bisexual so get them to sit next to each other or something maybe.
Karazi Kenzee




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