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second chance


Question Posted Thursday March 31 2005, 11:23 am

ok well i have this friend call her leah shes 15 and im 14 and the guy joe is 16. ok well leah had a boyfriend who was her age hit her forced her into sex and he did drug her parents found out and she has alot of regrets. well she met this guy named joe hes really cute and nice. he was supposed to come over but never did. leahs really upset thnking hes going to be like her ex she should give joe a second chance he was at the mall instead of coming over what should she do.

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karazimonki answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:39 pm:
leah should confront joe. She should ask joe why he didn't come over and why he was at the mall.
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milliethu answered Friday April 1 2005, 12:45 am:
she needs to meet him. if her ex raped and hit her, i can see why she would be worried. but if he really is nice when she meets him she will probly notice it right away after having a boyfriend treat her like crap. tell her he is different and make shure she meets him if he is really that nice. she sounds like she deserves a good boyfriend hope i helped

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reach_for_the_stars_14 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 5:19 pm:
ok first of all i think that you should talk to joe yourself and find out whats up. and if you dont want to talk to him then you should have leah talk to him and, but he might not talk to her, so you should, he might tell you something important, and dont worry, i dont think that he will be like the other boyfriend that she did, i dont think many people could be that mean, well i hope this helps
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shootingstar25xo answered Thursday March 31 2005, 4:13 pm:
Although I can understand her giving Joe a chance and her not, I believe she should give him a chance. If he starts to take advantage of her, like drag her into having sex or something, she needs to be assertive even if he is 'making' her. Guys have balls, so she can always use that as self defense. If after awhile you feel this guy isn't safe, talk to 'Leah' about it and tell her; hopefully she'll listen. hope i helped

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Teza answered Thursday March 31 2005, 3:52 pm:
Ask why he ditched her. Not all guys are like her ex-boyfriend and not all of them would do that. But if he was nice he wouldnt of done that to her. She should give him another chance because he might have a good explanation why he did that. If he does it again then she should probablly forget about him. x0

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mrs_radcliffe answered Thursday March 31 2005, 1:41 pm:
She should give he a second change not all guys are idiots! He might have had a really good explaination why he didnt come or show up. Just tell her that your there for her and what ever she wants to do then your happy for her.

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icey0990 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 11:38 am:
if he was really nice he wouldnt ditch her to be at the mall. Did you talk to him or did she talk to him about it? perhaps theres an excuse? well anyway..i dont know many nice guys who would ditch a girl for the mall. Suggest that if he doenst say sorry or give an explanation, then maybe he doesnt desserve her.

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