Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
Gender: Female
Location: Fayetteville, Georgia, EXITING hehe
Occupation: Student at WHS
Age: 15
AIM: jazz82289@aol.com
Member Since: September 25, 2004
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ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me. (link)
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No, you aren't un normal you are just HOROMONAL. It's no big deal, Men just can't really go more than two rounds, actually alot of them can only get through one. Try masturbation, satisfy yourself if you really really need to. I don't know what else to say lol. Good luck
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ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...im suppose to go to the movies see him later today w/ one of our best friends..who goes to my school..who used lived down the street from him...so can u help me? -thx in advance *i rate* (link)
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OK, you need to tell him to do things that relate to his personality without telling him they relate to his personality. I know that sounds silly, but it's not. If he's aggressive he needs to just ask her straight up. If he's passive or sweet, tell him to pull her aside, share how he feels and asks her. All he has to do is take it slow, give her subtle hints that he likes her, don't tell him to do the friend asks a friend thing, the story will get changed around. He just needs to be sweet and give her hints,THEN he can either take her aside and let her know how he feels or just go for it. That was a hard one, i hope I helped sweetie!
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HELP! how much money should i give my friend for her Sweet 16 tonight? (link)
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Probably about 50 dollars, or a gift check, of maybe even a gift card. But don't just give her that, make her like a home made card that reminds her of all the good times you have had, and maybe get and old pic too. Money is just paper, it's the thought that counts
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OK, Before me and my boyfriend were going out we were bestfriends. We've been going out for a week and I have realized that I like being just friends with him. I can talk to him better if we were friends. How do I break up with him without hurting our friendship? (link)
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O, I had two of my best friends do that in sixth grade, turns out he felt the same way. So your boyfriend aka "best friend" is probably attracted to you and thought he liked you but really likes you better as a friend. Just tell him the truth, tell him how you feel.
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Mkay.. im 13 and i am really falling in love with my boyfriend. Like i want to be with him for the rest of my life and ive never felt this way before. How do i know if this is really true love? Is it to eairly to have a serious relationship?
p.s. my aunt found her true love in Jr.High. they got married so maybe it will happen to me! (link)
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Oh my goodness! I'm in love too!, I've been in love with this guy since i was 13 and i KNOW it's love. Don't be afraid to love girl! Age aint nothin but a number! Good luck!
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well, im turning 14 in february and i wanna go somewhere special with three of my friends... i live in miami(it might help if u knew that) any ideas where i can go???? thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Ooooo!!! Miami is my favorite place in the world, try going to Sawgrass Mills, buy new bathing suits, and then go to the beach!!! Anything with friends is fun. Or you could have like a clothes trading party where you guys dress up in your best sun dresses and bring bags of clothes that are cute but you don't wear. Make like a goody bag for everybody about the size of a shopping bag and then you guys can "browse" through the clothes. All the ones that don't get picked, you can give to the Salvation Army. You guys can have lunch, finger sandwhiches, punch in wine glasses etc. it would be fun! Happy early birthday!!!
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Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....
Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?
PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother. (link)
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OK,you need to wait, do it when you feel physically and emotionally ready, because you can't take it back once you do it. Tell him you aren't ready and if he loves you he'll wait for you. It'll be ok girl.
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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
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YES! THAT IS SOOOO ILLEGAL!!!!!!!!!
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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks. (link)
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You need to get a pregnancy test now. Then if it's positive you need to tell your parents it won't make anything better if you don't tell them. THEN tell your boyfriend. DON'T tell him that you think you are pregnant!!!! He may bail on you, save the test, make sure your parents talk to his parents, and if you aren't thank God, and use PROTECTION from now on.
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ok so there's this kid who goes to my school who is 13, and he is really funny, and i kinda liked him, until my friend told me that he wasn't a virgin and had done it like 5 times and i just can't look at him the same way anymore. I can't even talk to him. what should i do? (link)
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He's probably lying don't worry about it about 80 percent of boys who claim they aren't virgins really are.
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Well me and this guy were "talking" or w/e. And we stopped i guess or i dunno. but the other day i told him i liked him and i asked him n what kinda way did he like me and he said "im not sure" and then i signed off. well what does this mean? and was it a mistake 2 tell him that i liked him? (link)
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NO sweetie there is nothing wrong with sharing your feelings. Guys are really vague about things like that. Don't bug him about it, I know you are dying to know what is going on but just give him time,he'll come around.
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Ok so I want to change my make-up. I have very very pale skin, grey/blue eyes and quite dark brown hair. I look almost celtic. I really want to start using more dramatic make-up like black eye liner and stuff but I'm not sure how to start, any tips? (link)
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Actually, the "dramatic" look is very out now. Plus, you want to look natural. Because you are pale try a bronzer to give you a little color. Line your eyes with brown instead of black, it will bring out your eyes and put a pinkish blush on your cheeks brushing up towards your temples making your face look more defined. YOu don't have do look gothic to look pretty, i promise. Good Luck Chick!
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okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!! (link)
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I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you, talk to someone else about it, VENTING always helps, don't bottle it in, approach some guys, talk to them, put yourself out there. Don't put it all on yourself. It's not like you are going to marry any of these guys so it's not a big deal I promise. I know people have boyfriends and stuff, but maybe it is just a sign that you were meant to play the field, and maybe by playing it you will find someone. It's just highschool you won't remember half these people anyway.
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Alright well, my friend C and K fake make ouut and kiss all the time. You know where you put your hand over there mouth and kiss it? Well, the other day C kept doing it to K. And put her legs all over her and was all into it. She kept touching K. K looked really uncomfortable. I'm thinking C is lezbo-curious or bi-curious whatever you want to call it. By the way she is only 12.!. What do you think?? I would love to hear your comments. I just think it's wrong 'cause she is only 12. (link)
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I wouldn't worry about it, You guys are twelve, that's kind of a coming of age time, she's finding out who she is or maybe she's just confused, give her some time she'll come around whethere she's str8 or not. Good luck sweetie
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holy crap people i want to beat the shit out of everyone at my school.
There is this grl that i sit with every single day at lunch and i chill with her at school all the time and i really like her cuz shes 1.REALLY HOT..but 2. shes the nicest n sweetest person i have ever met in mi whole life and like seriously i love her..ppl r like kid ur so shallow u just like her cuz shes a cheerleader..when thats not even the reason...wut do i do?? beat the shyt out of all these gay kids or just ignore them cuz theyre just people and i shudnt care wut they think?? (link)
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That is an easy one. Nobody should sabatage what the two of you may have. NO you should not beat up these people, Absolutely ignore them and stand by your girl. They are probably just jealous anyway. I wouldn't worry about it
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well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled (link)
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I'm in the same situation babe, it's ok I promise, you always, always, always stick up for people who have been there for you. As for her being homeschooled that's too bad, because it's like running away from your problems. But yes I would do it, and I DO do it. You are doing the right thing girl. Stick by her.
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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?
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You need to cut these people completely from your life whoever they are. Be proud of your body, YOU ARE NOT FAT. Find some new people to hang out with. I wish i knew the whole situation, keep talking to me hunny
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Hay.. i once when out with this guy Hayden.. we went out for 5 months...im only 13 years old.. yeah really young to have any thing SERIOUS* well.. one time we went swimming.. we went into the house... n he was touchin me n places i didnt want him to touch me.. rite b4 he left.. he fingered me.. n i didnt want this to happen.. im affraid he is going to tell everyone at school what happend.. cuz if this gets out, they mite think imma hoe.. n im not the kinda girl who wants to be n this situation.. also.. i broke up with Hayden because he was a sick perv... i found a much better boyfriend named Justin! He is so great! *not a perv* but he heard about this rumer... i didnt want to tell him what Hayden did to me cuz i didnt want him to think i wanted Hayden to do this to me or that im that kind of person.. should i tell Justin what happend? or should i keep it to myself... Also.. what should i do about Hayden? i told him the real reason i broke up with him is because i didnt like him any more... should i tell him the real reason or keep it to myself.. Hayden and me broke up July 7.... i need help! answer all my questions please! (link)
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You need to tell both of them the truth. That's it both of them the truth. And as for you being a hoe, you aren't one and you know that in your heart, and that's all that matters. Being in school people are going to talk about you and there is nothing you can do about it no matter who you are. Good luck sweets
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I have short legs which look even more stumpy with my fat calves . i know i can't do anything about the length of my legs , but how do i get my calves smaller ?i don't wear skirts anymore ,cuz it's embarassing .my thighs are fine , but my calves are really rounded and fat . not muscular . FAT > please help ! (link)
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Do things like leg curls to exercise your legs. There are so many magazine articles on this kind of thing, turn the fat into muscle as for skirts, you don't have to throw them away sweetie! Get the kind that are shorter in the front and longer in the back, at least until you get them in shape. But really sweetie just be proud of your body, because we are all different and beutiful. Have a great day!
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ok I like this one guy named Ben and he likes me also and weve been friends since the first day of school and Ive liked him since then well it slowly turned into love. And I still am in love with him. Sounds like nothings wrong right>> Problem I just got asked out by this guy named Ryan and I dont like him because most of my feelings are for Ben and Ben and Ryan are friends and Im going out with Ryan. Ryan is so much different from Ben. Ryan smokes pot, hes weird to hang around with, and im never happy around him
On the other hand Ben hes cute,funny, and Im happy when im around him, gives me hugs all the time!! And is such a sweetie. So this should be easy but its not!! I dumped Ryan yesterday (thursday) and got back together with him today OUT OF GUILT and then before 6th period I felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life!! AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I was planning on telling Ryan that I dont want to be his girlfriend because I dont know him all that well and WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY O i dont want to go out with you because Im in love with your friend even though u say you love me Ok bye! what should I do and I would like guys to answer this but girls are fine TOO!1
please dont delete this I really really need help
LOVE Ash (link)
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Wow.Ok, you need to dump Ryan right now. DON'T wait. The longer you wait the deeper you will get yourself into this. TRUST ME, i was in the EXACT SAME situation. Then you tneed to tell Ben how in love with him you are. And see where it goes from there, the outcome should be pretty good, as long as you tell the truth. Good Luck girl
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