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Hiya,
I've had three boyfriends, all of whom were MAJOR crushes of mine. I was mad about them for ages (months and sometimes years) and took all my courage, told them how I felt and asked them out (one at a time obviously!). They all liked me back which was great but...once we started dating, with every single one of them, I just lost all feelings towards them and felt trapped. What do you think is going on? Am I in love with the idea of unrequited love? Or am I just not ready for a relationship...or what?
Ta! (link)
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Sometimes when you crush on someone so long and get this idea of what theyre "supposed" to be like..you sorta lose reality. I think thats what happened to you. Also you might like the chase. You might just like to crush on someone but then when you have that person..you dont really want them nemore..you just liked the chase of that person. I am alot like that..i like someone and then wen they like me bac..i dont like them nemore.
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Okay, two of my best friendsare really good friends between themselves too, but they fight ALOT!! i try to just sit them down and talk to them, and sometimes i'm the go-between, but right now im caught in the middle. Like, at lunch today, they were in the middle of a fight, and not even sitting at the same table, and both wanted me to sit with them, but i didn't wanna choose a side, so i sat with some of my other friends, and they both got mad at me for that!! What can i do? they wont even listen to me!! (link)
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My advice on this is..get out of this fuss as quickly as possible! I know you wanna be the peacemaker of them two..but its not worth losing two good friends. Just stay out of it..and wen one of them wonders why you're not choosing sides and not getting into this..then hopefully theyll stop this dumb fuss.
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I know this sounds totally gross but since I'm from Sicily Italy and i have really dark brown hair. There is almost black hair on my arms and I dont like to wear t-shirts cuz it shows off my arms and im afraid someone might say something. What can I do? (link)
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Hair growth is just painful in prolly ne direction you go. You could shave them but the hairs will grow back thicker than before and in half the time then wen it grows normal. You could get it waxed..which is really painful but better than shaving. Or you could use Nair or ne hair removal product at the store..it could work but could cause a rash. You could bleach or..go out in the sun or a tanning bed, put lemon juice on ur arms and see if it bleaches the hair (it has happened before)
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I have intense hair flaking. The skin on my scalp is coming off and causing dandriff. Its really gross and a few people asked me if I had lice and I said no its just hairspray but the fact is I dont even use hairspray.. This is really gross and Im constantly worrying about it so I dont know what I should do.. (link)
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Try using head and shoulders..its a kind of shampoo that is just for people with dandruff..i used to use that and it worked. But if that still doesnt work then go to a professional.
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What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?
Signed
Should I give up? (link)
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Not all the way. But put him in the back of your mind for now and move on. Then maybe in the future..he'll come back.
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Whenever I get upset, lonely or just feel bored, I always go and eat chocolate. It's starting to become a problem and I do it everyday. How can I cut down on the chocolate? (link)
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I used to do that all the time except i was addicted to little debbie cakes. Everytime i felt lonely or depressed i would eat debbie cakes..in a day id say i ate about 10 of them. I decided it had to stop so instead of reaching for the debbie cakes i would eat bananas with peanut butter. Now for some ppl it may be gross but for me it was a good choice. Or sometimes i would eat strawberrys with a lil powdered sugar on top. Its delicious..and its a healthy snack..sure peanut butter has sugar but its healthy.
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Hello! I am a 14 year old young lady and I need help with this certain problem. Where I go to school, there are alot of people that dress "punk" or something like that. I love to dress that way and I wear punk clothes outside of school though. I don't want to wear my punky clothes in school because people see me as this smart and conservative girl. Yes, I do have good grades and I am conservative, but I love to dress "punk", but I am afraid that people will see me as this "wannabe" or "poser" and I don't want that to happen. What should I do? Do what I am doing now or should I finally stop hiding from the shadows? I know what people will say, they will say that I should not care what others think, but it's not that easy when you're a teen! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you again! (link)
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Yeah i have the same problem..i love punk clothes. For me..i like to change up my style. One day i might be dressin kind of preppy and other days i might slip on my fav rock band shirt and a pair of dickies pants. This is so ppl will know that i like different stuff and im not a poser i just like variety of brands and clothes. But there will always be those ppl who think you're a poser.
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answer this truthfully cuz i dont want all the just be urself crap
what turns guys on? lke what clothes, makeup, hair, body, personality! Thanks i rate good (link)
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All guys are different. But most guys dont like alot of makeup..like the foundation n all that. They dont like that..ive talked to many guys. But they do like lips soo maybe sum shimmery lip gloss. Umm..the hair well..guys dont like the long hair down the back. Like the long braid down the back. And body..well they like fit girls..some like more busty girls while others like the more athletic body. Personality..most like the outgoing and easygoing.
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I love Halloween and I have no clue what to be. Does anyone have a good idea? PLease help! (link)
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MARIOO!!!
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hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her? (link)
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Yeah thats how i am. And my mom didnt understand at first. But i sat down with her and said ..mom i will never be like preps..i love the way i am..im happy the way i am. Dont you want me to be happy. I cant change who i am. Then tell wat u want to get a pierced and say..i kno this is alot of piercings but maybe we can agree on just one or two piercings. Make an agreement with her.
hope it works
..Heya..
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I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks (link)
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PENCIL. I used to use liquid when i didnt kno how to put eyeliner on and it was a mess! lol
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is there a way where someone can kill themself without it hurting...i wanna know if my brother went peacefully (link)
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Yes there is. Some pills wouldnt hurt. And also you can fill your car up with carbon dixode and just sit there until you die. I heard it was a peaceful death. By the way im sorry about your brother..my brother is goin through sum depression and suicide thoughts so your not alone.
ne questions for me about this stuff please ask..two of my friends have died from suicide and one of my friends almost did but i helped her through it.
..Heya..
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This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx (link)
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Ive been in this situation. Tell him that u just want to be friends with him. And if he still ask you to go out to eat..either agree and say just as friends or be like nahh im busy tonight..but thanks for the invite.
i hope i helped!
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if you stop drinking soft drinks, will that help you lose weight (link)
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YES YES AND YES lol
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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar? (link)
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There bf is DEF NOT THAT. Bipolar is when u change from SUPER SUPER HAPPY N HYPER to a depressed stage. Bipolar is also called manic depresson. If he is bipolar then he already has treatment like goin to a therapist.But if u ask him if hes bipolar and hes never heard of it then hes not. Also ur ex isnt either..he's just playin with ur mind. He's not bipolar.
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i feel so dumb..anyways..what am i suppose to do? like when my b/fs givin me a hickey or kissing me somewhere other than my mouth or doing other things..yah you know..umm like i dont know how to describe it, i just sit there like "duh"..what are some things to do to actually acknowledge what he's doing, show him that i like it, or idk..lol anything so that i'm just not sitting there..
please help..i'll rate :) (link)
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Haha..i dunno..umm make noises or rub his head.
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I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do? (link)
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Wow you should be proud you're tall. And its very normal for girls to be taller than guys at that age..usually wen u get to highschool the guys will start growing and hopefully theyre growing now where theyll be tall or taller than you. So dont worry! Also dont be afraid of rejection..just go for it. And try to find a guy at least little shorter or maybe as tall as you so you wont feel so awkward.
hope i helped
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14? (link)
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Umm..well for me it would be. But some of my friends have went out with there bf's for like 1 or 2 yrs.
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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not? (link)
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Well..i kno how u feel...my cousin is awesome and he makes me laugh all the time. I feel so comfortable around him.But its your blood and unless ur family lets you embreed then i wouldnt dare go out with him. But i kno how u feel..
ne more questions ask me..
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ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way ) (link)
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Well first of all if u say ur not pretty then u dont have much confidence or high self esteem about urself. Just have confidence in yourself!! Go up and just talk to them about maybe how bad ur school is or wat sports theyre playin. (guys love to talk about sports..well at least most do)..if you just be yourself and have confidence im sure plenty of guys will talk to you.
And im sure ur not ugly..ur prolly pretty..u just dont have confidence
hope i helped..if u need to ask me nething IM HERE!!
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