Q: Well, I have a friend who visits an advice site (the name slips my mind) where most everyone posts idiotic relationship questions riddled with bad spelling, punctuation, and grammer, pretty much in that order. My question is this, how do I tell my friend that he is a moron? And how can I make him stop asking stupid questions? And how can I get him to stop using things like "u" for you, or "r" for are?

Thanks for the help.

Q: Okay, so there's this guy in my school that most of the girls would give their leg to date (not literally of course) He's one of the best skateboarders around, and was even chosen to go to this contest thing across the US... Anyways, he's so cute and he doesn't even know it. From what I've heard he doesn't like having a gf because it gets in the way of skateboarding. A few weeks ago he(Mark) broke up with the girl I have hated since elementary school (she used to pick on me before I lost a lot of weight and discovered make up. lol) This guy that I know from around my neighborhood is dating my best friend n also friends with Mark. He told me that he thought I was 'hot' and that he liked me. Well, he is also really shy. You'd think that because of all of this attention from girls and skating he wouldn't be, but he is. I was hanging out watching them skateboard and he didnt do anything but look over at me a few times. So, before I left I heard him say "No hug?" which was the first time i heard him say anything really. So i gave him a hug and left... When i passed him in school Mark barely said anything other than a "Fine dont say hi to me, i see how it is" so I did and my friends and I walked on to class. When I've passed by him, I saw his eyes on me the whole time we walked by each other and I know he did it on purpose for me to see. I can't help it, I like him so much even though I don't know much about him. Something about being not like the other guys who make those rude comments as you walk by. He's just... So cute! lol. Well, I don't know what to do anymore. I've been talking to him as much as I can, but I don't want to ask if he wants to hang out because I think that's his job and I really want to get to know him better. I also don't believe he likes me because i tend to put myself down a lot and I don't think that he *could* like me. I'm thinking of the worst, like, its all a joke or not true or something, not that he really does like me. Can someone help me with what I could do? Thanks ((I rate if that helps any... Btw, Mark is 16 and I am 14))

Q: i became friends with this one girl named Jenna who was new this year. weve been in school for about 5 monthes now and me, one of my best friends, and one of my guy friends are her only friends in our school. well one of her guy friends from her old school likes me and i dont like him back. he saw me at the movies one night and gets mad because im with another guy, he tells Jenna and Jenna gets mad at me and says some extremly mean things to me, things that a "bff" (as she calls us) would NEVER say. she then apologizes the next day when she hears the real story from one of my friends. i dont know if i should forgive her because she really feels bad.. or shes apologizing because she needs friends at our school and if im mad at her, then she knows my friend and my guy friend will surly be mad at her too.. also she has gotten me in a LOT of trouble.. like trouble with cops.. please help!

Q: my 16th birthday is dec. 27, and i know it's a little early, but i want 2 have a party but i have no idea what i want to do? does anyone have any suggestions? what did u do on your 16th? thx

Q: I'm an only child. Through my childhood, I spend a lot of time at home. I didn't have THAT many friends at school, and I didn't have any friends in the neighborhood, so I was at home a lot, and I spent a lot of time being with my parents. When dad was at work and mom had to go somewhere, I would go. When I was a little girl, I spend SO much time with my mom. And my dad. My friends and other family members would say that I went everywhere my mom went. By 7th grade, I started to get a little...crazy. I got very moody around them, and every little thing they did would bug me. I felt like I needed to get out of the house and get away from them. I got to the point where I would go to my room and cry because they bugged me so much. They weren't abusive, they weren't mean, and they gave me everything I needed and more. But just having them around and nagging bugged me. I disliked them so much. But I didn't tell them, because I had no reason to. They just thought I had developed an attitude. Now, I'm in the middle of high school, and my mom has threatened to leave before because I treat her mean and I get mad at her all the time. And I really shouldn't, I know that. She's a great mom. But now, its like she's always nagging at every little thing and calls me like every 5 minutes (not to 'check up' but she has to have me do something for her, or she has to tell me something that I already know). She doesn't understand anything. And she's nosey. God, I just don't know what to do. I do have an attitude towards my parents, they've given me everything I needed, etc. I just spend way too much time around them. I even told that to my mom one time, and she was crying and yelling at me, saying "Well then from now on, I don't even want to talk to you! You're always so mean to me! From now on, you find your own rides and I just won't have nothing to do with you!" When she told me that I started crying too. I don't totally want her out of my life...I'm so confused. What am I supposed to do?

Q: i relly really think my man is cheatn' on me bcuz
he talks ta otha gurls on tha fone so this is wat happened ...... 1 day i called him and he said hold on that time he had me on hold for whole half an hour just to talk ta some gurl kassy or something but then he says he doesn't giv out his # to gurls but i kno he is lyin'bcuz he got a bunch of gurls names on his cell phone. i really dont care if he is talkn' ta gurls but he ratha talk ta them more than he shuld talk ta me.
wat shuld i do i rate very high.

ps.wheneva i give a feed back im goin' ta say thanxxxx

Q: I have two friends, a girl and a guy. I have a crush on my guy friend....but my girl friend is in the way. I mean, she already has a BOYFRIEND...but it's as if her boyfriend is our guy friend. I also think that he likes her, because he's always hugging her and being nice to her, while both of them leave me out and make me feel bad. And when they talk, I can't get into the conversation, because I have no connection to what they are talking about. HELP!

Q: i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?

Q: alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high

Q: ok im 13 and have always been energic. Ever since this school school year started ive been exusted every day after school. Its so bad that i acually want to take naps (ive never done that). i don't do after school programs so those can't wear me out. plus for the last 3 days ive done nothing but want to eat (also never done this before). i have no idea wats wrong and i can't go on like this. plz help i'll rate.

p.s. i can't take naps after school i have no time!

Q: what should i do for my 14th birthday party with all of my friends and they are all girls and it needs to be somthing fun!! right back ASAP please

Q: Does He Like Me?
Posted Wednesday November 03 2004, 4:52 pm
Hi I am 13 years old and i am female... Here is my problem..So, for a while now, I've had my eye on this guy... He's more like my best friend... I've really really liked him since the middle of last year, I tried to move on but I couldn't, as much as I wanted to move on, I couldn't... I just liked him even more... A couple of weeks ago I told im how I felt about him, it was a bit dramatic, since I gave him this letter which was about 2 and a half pages long, mentioning everything i feel about him... He read it and he didnt mention the letter since I pretty much asked him not to mention it. You'd expect things to get peculiar between us, since we're best friends and i love him way more then that... But things have kind of gotten better... He's been "closer" to me, as in, he hugs me every minutes, puts his arm around me, follows me, tickles me, flirts with me, sits next to me, looks into my eyes, and everything... he even invites me to hang out with him and stuff....it seems like he likes me, but I dont know for sure how he really feels, I mean.. I dont have enoguh guts to walk up to him and be like "do u like me" it might put us in a peculiar stage. So, what are some signs that shows if he really feels the same way about me as I do about him??
-- PoeticxTragedy

Q: I have always had one best friend (let's say her name is tori). Recently, at parties Tori has been ditching me for someone she calls her "new best friend". She tells me that I am still her best friend. I hate her friend though! I can never hang out with Tori and her friend, cause every other sentence is a new private joke, so i get totally lost and feel really stupid when they're laughing and I have no clue what they're talking about. Plus, the worst thing is that I've always hated her new friend, and I told her that even before they were best friends. Now I am sure she told her what I said about her, cause she's always giving me dirty faces. Usually I am not this paranoid, it's just I had the first really good friendship with sumone and that s.o.b. is ruining it all! Thanx in advance! Lexis xoxo

Q: okay.. my best friend.. lets call him"josh" is hanging around like tha.. idk how to say but like.. the "ghetto" people.. sry if that offended anyone.. but thats what our school calls them..they are really nice people but "josh"has always been like.. the EXACT opposite of them... now he's saying he's tired of being picked on and being called loser n stuff.. i totally understand him.. but now hes wearin his pants to his knees.. trying to do the crip walk(sry cant spell it) and hangin out with them, n talkin like them, and jus blowing me and the rest of his friends off..hes totally changed.. like i was crying for over an hour once n i called him cuz he always makes me feel better n he was just watching TV n totally zoned me out.. and my other friend got in a car accident that mad her cry cuz she was wicked freaked out, so she called him, and he jus watched TV n didnt say ne thing.. one of his other really cose friends wont talk to him now b/c shes tired of it, i dont want him to change like that b/c i know deep inside of him... he aint like that, me n her rnt the only ones noticing it either.. how can i make him realize that he is losing his friends and needs to idk how to put it.. come back to how he ued to be lol?

Q: okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid?

Q: Ir's weird. I always came to these websites to help people and give them advice but now I'm the one that needs it! lol. ;)
There's this guy named Michael that I've been friends with since our last year of elementary school. We were so tight back then but over the years, we both changed. Now, in high school he's the big popular jock and hardly ever talks to me but when he does, we both make eah other laugh and smile.
He's so cute and could probably get any girl he wanted and he knows that so when he sees a girl that he thinks is hot, he tells them and asks them out. I really like him and want him to ask me out. What can I do to grab his attention? I know I should be myself but is there anything else I could do to get him to like me?

Q: Things have been going great with my boyfriend. But I can tell my best friend is jealous. I guess I dont blame her but still, I'd like to be able to talk to her about it without feeling guilty like I'm bragging. I've tried to talk to her about like our first kiss or stuff like that but she either gets all quiet or says bad things about him.. like he's a player or something like that (which he isnt, we both really like eachother but thats besides the point). I just really want to be able to share it with her and not feel bad about it. Should I still talk to her about it or just talk to my other friends? Thanx so much.. I rate high!

Q: Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!

Q: okay i live in like this small town. Guys at my school think i am not pretty well they say they do but dont mean it . . but when i go to the town next to us it different they all think i am really cute or hott and like my figure . and i always chill with them and stuff the thing id otn get how cum kids in my town dotn like me but kids in the town next to me do . . i mean i am 14 n i have 16 n 17 year old guys chekin me out and gettin there number . . i jsut dont get ittt helpp me please dont dleate

Q: My nana gave me a real gold and pearl necklace for my 17th birthday. I was wondering is it safe to wear it in the shower or will ir ruin the pearls??

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