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im not ready to let go
alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high
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Dear not ready let go.
He seems like someone who is influenced by his pants not his heart. Whatever you do don't go back to him. He is obiviously to immature to handle a girlfriend on a physicial and mental level. Look for someone else who is more understanding and likes you for you, and not because you'll make out with him. Don't do anything to yourself, because he's totally not worth it. Just hang in there. Look for god in yourself, and wait for the right guy.
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wow, i know how it feels getting attached. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel, maybe he'll give you another chance, and if he doesnt there are plenty of others out. Remember no guy is worth hurting yourself over!
Good luck! Hope i helped!
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dear not ready to let go,
if you feel this way, then tell him. he needs to kno bcuz u never kno he mite be doin all of this stuff for your attention from u. just tell him straight up. dont even consider doin anythin 2 urself. i kno u love him w/all of your heart, but u probably have tons goin 4 u. if u want him back then tell him and try goin back out. tell him lots that u need him. tell him everythin u said bout him. that u need him, that hes ur life. u never kno wut could happen. hope i helped!
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hah i agree with spike397
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Hun, you have to get over him! You don't NEED him anymore... trust me! I know he may have seemed to be your WHOLE life, but he sounds really immature for dumping you like that... And don't hurt yourself! That's just gets you into deeper trouble... Go out with some of you girl friends and jsut have a good time! You will be over him in no time! I hoped i helped!! :)
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Wow. i went thru almost the exact same thing as you! i know what its like. All i can say is please dont make the same mistake i did and hurt urself. no guy is worth that! no matter how much you love him!! its okay that ur not ready to give him up. But also dont think about this too much. relax. go out with some girlfriends. have a good time. and you dont NEED him back. I know it may seem like that at first. but from what you were saying. it sounds like you can do much better than this boy. jus think about things, gather ur thoughts... and when you ready go out and have a good time!!! but please dont hurt urslef!!! please!!
*hope i helped*
*no guy is worth ur tears and the one that is wont make you cry!!*
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Well sorry hunny but seriously its time to let go and move on im sorry to put it like that but i dont want to have u hurt again
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well if u have his # then call him and tell
him how u still feel bout' him im sur he will understand and if not then tell him how he made ure life complete and ure scared bcuz u might hurt ureself ova this relationship of ures
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