i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
Website: myspace
E-mail: thepresident89@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: montana
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: noggindude22
Member Since: August 10, 2004
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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tell him what is going on. and if anyone comes up and starts bad-mouthing you, say that its all because of a friend's jealousy. if he loves you then way that you love him, he will listen to you and forget about what all the other people say.
or what could happen, is that the girl was just trying to scare you. trying to make it seem like everything was going to end. tell him what she said, but also know that it might never happen at all.
your friend is jealous of what you have, so she is trying to make it seem horrible. she wants what you have, and she can't. act as though you don't care what she says. if she confronts you and starts to say that she's going to mess things up, say that your bf loves you and nothing will change that.
i hope that everything works out. and if your friend continues to threaten you, tell a trusted adult, and see what happens. i hope i helped.
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this will be very long..sorry! well me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately..and hes been wanting to me to prove to him how much i love him cause sometimes he wonders! so i went out of my way and paid my friends sister to take me to the mall so i could get him a bracelet he wanted carved with our names on it! so i spent like $74 on that and then i found the cutest card ever! well then since last night he has been acting kinda distant..like we couldnt really talk or anything! well then today he had to go help his grandpa so i thought no big deal ill talk to him when he gets home! well i looked at his buddypic thing and he took my name off and just put he had a girlfriend and added some other girl on there too which scared me! so i texted him and said something..no response! so then i called his house and he talked to me and said hed get online in a minute! well then he tells me hes going on vacation, he just got a job, and hes doing modeling so we wont really talk anymore so he thinks its best for now if we go on a break and i prove to him how much i love him! and he said after i send him his stuff he will read it all and think about it! and he said he cant talk on his cell cause his aunt wont let him and now he cant get on the computer either for like a week! it kills me so much cause ive never felt this way in my life..hes supposably bought me a promise ring and everything else! well i IMed that girl that was on his buddypic and seen what was up and i guess shes in love with him or something! and he was talking to her with me and i found out another girl says she loves him too and im so scared that he will move on although he keeps telling me he wont and those girls are too good of friends! i wanna believe him but its so hard! well i have his password for everything n he has mine too..well then he decides hes gonna change his AIM password and now i dont know what to think..im so scared something might be going on! i just dont know what to do! i have done nothing but cry since i found out! he told me after i send his stuff he will write me a letter back and i guess thats how we have to talk for now! i really dont know what to do cause im use to talking to him all day..it kills me so much! and i dunno what to do! do you have any cute ideas i could do with his card and bracelet that i can send through the mail? thanks so much! (link)
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wow, i am sorry that you would have to go through that. no offense to him or you, but it sounds like he is using you. he wants to be with you, but not in the way that you want to be with him. he wants you to prove how much you love him because he knows that you will. he knows that he has got you under something and it will only take a realization to know what he is doing. he is playing you. the reason he wants a break is so he can do things with other girls and not get caught. i am really sorry to tell you this, but its true. i have seen so many friends go through what you are and have been through. its all the guy wants. you need to tell him that you are not some game piece that he can do whatever he wants with. you are a person with feelings and you deserve to be treated with respect and love. send him the stuff, but also know and understand, that it might not make any affect on him. maybe you can write something in the card to make him realize that you know what is going on and you are not going to stand for it. tell him what you are feelings. i know that you love him, but sometimes when the love is only coming from one side, you need to break it off.
if that is not the case, or you don't think it is..i think some cute ways to send him the card would be...let me think. write him a really sweet note in the card. add things like inside jokes only that you two know, make some new inside jokes. call him names that only you would call him (i.e. baby, sweetheart ect.). as for the bracelet, put it one of those boxes for jewlery, then wrap it in a cool paper then wrote something sweet on it.
i hope that everything works out. and if i am completely wrong about what i said in the first paragraph, then i will apologize right now. i hope that i helped.
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Hi, I'm 13/f and i weigh 136.5 lbs. I kno im overweight and i need 2 kno what i can do 2 help me loose weight. I cant really run a far distance without my knee or mi ankle starting 2 hurt.. So, is there any way I can loose weight without running??? Pleeze help! (link)
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exercise at home
do ab work
lift dumb bells if you have any
and if not, go get some
do exercise tapes, like The Firm or something
take a walk
play a sport
go to the park and play games with some friends
there are a lot of options
just open your mind to them
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i always wear my hair up in a ponytail cuz i dont like it when it gets in my face so i wanted to do a sloppy bun but because my hair is so long it doesnt work to well...any tips? (link)
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use bobbypins
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...What do people think about a teenage pregnancy? Is it bad i mean If a person thinks they are lonley an are scared to be alone while their boyfriend leaves for awhile for the military..would it be okay to have a baby? (link)
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do not have a child until you are married. if you get married, then go ahead. teenage pregnancies usually don't turn out the way that most people want them to. the boyfriend leaves, you have no way to take care of the kid, you don't want the kid at all. just wait. waiting is so much better than jumping the gun. you are 17...that doesn't mean that you are ready...and it doesn't mean that you're not. but my advice is to wait...until you are married.
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well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.
Do you think hes using me? (link)
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he wants to be friends with benefits...not boyfriend and girlfriend. so in other words...yes he is.
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the guy i really like just got asked out by this girl. i'm not sure if he said yes or no or wheather or not hes going to say yes or no. but im just trying to be suportive to him no matter what but really its killing me inside and i hope to god he says no. i have no clue what to do im so confuesd. (link)
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tell him that you like him.
wow...that was hard.
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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.
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i think that you should dump this dude. he won't leave you alone. he doesn't trust you and one of the things that form a foundation to a relatioship is trust. he doesn't have any. he is trying to controll what you do with YOUR friends, and what you do is your decision...NOT his.
you won't cheat on him, that is what you said. i think that he needs to learn that you aren't going to do that. next time you are alone with your guy friends, keep your phone on for a little while and after he calls a couple of times, turn the phone OFF. this way, he has no way to know what you are doing and this is where the trust factor is going to come in.
i hope everything works out.
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hey!
i'm on a diet where i'm really watching what i eat, and not eating junk food or anything any more! but it's 9:35 at night..and i'm hungry! what can i have that won't cause me to gain weight? we don't have alot.. but suggestions would be soo helpful! (link)
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fruit, veggies or maybe a piece of toast with some butter or jelly.
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i think that i am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend. he seems flirty towards me but i dont know if it is cause he likes me or cause we are such good friends...i dont know what to do.
THANKS!! (link)
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do not do anything until you are sure that you like him. the worst mistake to make is to tell someone that you MIGHT have feelings for them. just go on like you usually do, and if your feelings get stronger towards him, then tell him.
he seems flirty because he is a guy. and possibly he has feelings for you. i don't know that, but its possible.
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I was dating someone and he just stopped talking to me after I made a mistake. I keep telling myself that it's over and that I'm over him, but then something happens like a song comes on that we used to listen to all the time and I start thinking about him again.
I've tried talking to him, just trying to be his friend so I could get over him, but he doesn't want to talk to me. I gave up on that, but I still think about him and I miss him, because he was part of my life for a period of time and now he's just gone. It's really hard just to try to adjust your life without him in it.
I still have a few texts on my cell phone that he sent me, but I can't bring myself to delete those either.
He brought out the best in me, after I was depressed on and off, cutting myself, drinking, he changed it all and I think that might be the reason I can't just let him go.
Do you have any ideas how I can talk to him again to thank him, or should I let go?
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just go up to him and say "all i want to do is thank you for what you did in my life." and leave it at that. just saying what you wanted to say and not babbling intruges a guy's interest. and if he decides to start talking to you again, things will go from there. but if he doesn't say anything, you need to let him go. you need to let him go anyway. let him go in the way that you used to think about him. stuff will still remind you of him and you will have things that are linked to him in some way, but that's going to happen. let him go if it seems like you are the only one making the effort to be friends. i know its hard, trust me, i know, but its all worth it in the end.
hope i helped.
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alright hey my brother is getting married and he did not want a big big wedding i don't know why but he did not...so after the wedding like the next weekend they are have a cookout with like EVERYONE they know!! adn everyone says their going to wear like a skirt or a dress or something fancy or something and there is going to be an inground swimming pool to. and i was woundering dose anyone know what i should wear?? (link)
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just wear a nice skirt and a nice t-shirt. old-navy has some really nice but comfortable t-shirts.
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hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks (link)
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i don't think that you should. how do you know that she is the one that is suppose to be your first? i know that you 'love' her, but is that really enough to do this? this either could something totally awesome or something totally terrible ending with an unplanned pregnacy. i think that you should wait and think about it some more. yes, you think you are ready, but think about all the possible consquences of this before you do anything.
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does anybody know of any good hair gel or mousse i have a perm but the gel i have makes my hair hard and i hate that. i want gel/mousse where when you put it in it doesnt look like you have any and your hair is bouncy. price ranges would help to please. thanks. (link)
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get that aussie stuff in the purple bottle with the kangaroo on it. that stuff works wonders.
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ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight??? (link)
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what! are you kidding me?!?!?
heck no!
you are NOT overweight. shesh, who told you that? you are a very good weight for someone of your age. and just because your sister is like that, doesn't mean that you have to be just like her. you are not overweight, and i think its silly to even think that. when i was 13, i would wish i was that thin.
shesh...thinness is not everything. be content with yourself and learn to appreciate what you have.
overweight...pshaw.
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high. (link)
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just be yourself. the worst thing a guy can do to a girl is to fake your way through a relationship. it pisses the girl off. trust me, i know.
show her that you are not like the other guys that she has been with. you said that you are different on here, but have you told her that you are different? she needs to know that she can trust you and count on you when she needs it. prove to her that you are what you say you are.
she will love it.
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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small (link)
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the reason that you fight is because you are too young to be engaged. you are too young to have this kind of relationship. do you know what love is? i don't think so. he is older and therefore is going through different things than you right now. you and him are not suppose to do this...especially at the age you are. the fights are telling you something, you just have to figure out what. i am sorry that i am being blunt about this, but its true. i would definently think about this A LOT more.
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hey i just came up with a weird question that i really want to know the answer to. if a bug bites a cat (like a misquito) will the cat have to itch it like humans? haha i know it's stupid but i wanna know! haha. (link)
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i don't think that the posion will affect the cat the same way it affects a person.
i think that the cat will scratch the bite, but it wouldn't be like us.
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okay my friend got fingured by her boyfriend. shes just about 2 weeks late for her period, and she keeps asking me if that could have affected her period track. she keeps thinking shes pregant, but i know that cant be the case. can someone finguring you cause you to skip a period? or any thing? please post and fast with advice!! (link)
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her period just might be late
she can't be pregnant from getting fingered
periods tend to jump around, even when you've had it for a while
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Ok i'm 13/f and I've got a solo for our summer music institute "L'ho perduta, me meschina" of Barbarina from Act IV of "Le Nozze de Figaro" (aka. "The Marriage of Figaro")
The time signature is:
6
8
I know I should know, but my brain isn't functioning today. could somebody here remind me what the numbers stand for? Also it would be really nice if anyone here who has sung this solo to give me a few pointers on the piece???
♠
♠ Sheila ♠
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six beats per measure and the eight means that the eighth note gets 1 beat.
here is a site that will help you.
http://www.empire.k12.ca.us/capistrano/Mike/capmusic/rhythm/rhythm.htm
it is all about music and rhythm.
hope i helped.
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