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hey everyone[: im emily, im thirteen + i love giving advice. drama, gossip, and rumors suuuck. if you ask me a question i will give you an honest good answer not a crappy bad one. if you dont like that, then dont ask me question. im on this site to give accurate good answers to help people. ive been on this site for a little over 2 years. if you dont get an answer you are looking for from another person, AIM me, im sure to help you, or just leave me a question.

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Ok well how many days is your period supposed to last?
Cause my sister said hers lasted about 5 days.. and mine only lasts 3. She said there was somthing wrong with me....do you think its true????
Or is that normal?

well the first 1-2 years your period is irregular and it will change from month to month on how long it lasts. But periods can last up to 2-8 days.

hope i helped
xoxo
emilyy (:

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my lil sis is worryed and trying to gain wieght. im telling her, she just needs to go throught puberty a lil more.

shes female, 12 years old, about 88 pounds and like mabie just about 5 foot.

is she underwieght, or normal?
thanks

everyone grows at different times. your sister is just fine (;

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I am really tall, and I don't like it. Im 13 and 5'9". People dont make fun of me, but im insecure about it. What should do? I just feel like I dont fit in.

My friend is really tall to. There is really nothing you can do to make yourself look shorter except wearing flats. Being tall is great. I am VERY short and I would love to be tall! I'm 4'11 and I am 13. Believe me, yo'll appreciate your tallness someday (:

hope i helped
xoxo
emiily

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Heyy. So i just got my period for the first time, and Im pretty shy. How do I tell my mom about my period?

alright, well you can just go up to her and say "...mom i got my period for the first time, can u help me?" She's your mom, you can tell her anything and she can help you. She's been through the same thing you have. She'll understand (:

hope i helped
xoxox
emilyy

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So my friend Alice has been my best friend since like the first grade. Even though we didnt go to the same elementary school, we were always pretty close. Now, she has found a new best friend that she spends all her time with. It makes me real sad. Im sleeping over her house tonight, for the first time in a few months. It is always a really akward silence when were together, and when shes with her new friend, they are laughing all the time. What should I do/ what should I talk to her about??

heyy (: Well one thing u could do is try to make friends with her other friend. That way, you'll make a new friend and second all of you can hang out together. But, if she is your best friend then you guys will never loose eachother ecause best friends dont do that (;

hope i helped (:
xoxo
emily

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what are some good picture sites that i can upload pictures and show them to my friends? besides photobucket and picturetrail. are there any better ones? thank youu!

well theres a site where you can put your pics into a slideshow- www.rockyou.com

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So my cousin lives with me.But she's jealous of me - saying how get all this stuff when she has it.I've never done anything to her.She touches my stuff like all little sisters and siblings do.She's very rude and gets into trouble at school.But no Im so upset that Im crying because she took some of my jewellery and broke it and then took something of mine which has sentamental value,put it under the wheel of bed and started scraping my REAL jewells of and everything and she dont know whats it like for me -sharing a room and being the girl whos being hated.How do i control my stress because all I want to do is runaway and everything i own - really nice stuff i ALL GONE - and she denies it well shes admitted to it but she still lies

yeahh just the columnist below said-
get an adult and talk to them. Show them the pieces of things she destroyed. Try asking maybe for another room or maybe some privacy.

xoxo
hope i helped
& hope everything gets better (:
--emilyy

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me and my friend alicen have been friends for a long time. but lately she has started to be friends with this other girl. they talk all the time. I really want to be better friends with alicen, but whenever we are on the phone, it gets really akward, and i dont know what to do to make it less akward. also when we are just talking, we run out of things to talk about. what should i do?

ive been through this maaany times (: Well you know what i would do, try becoming friends with the other girl. Try to fit it with the other girl. That way when you try and talk to alicen it wont be alkward. Also, try talking to alicen about how you feel. She is never going to know how you feel, and then she can't help it feel less alkward. Then maybe once you become friends with the other girl, all three of you can hang outt!

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i have a myspace, and all my friends have a cool backround. Could you pleaseeeee tell me how to do that?

ohh this is easy (:
heres an AWESOME website called:
www.whateverlife.com, there are backrounds galore! On the side yo find MYSPACE and then click MYSPACE LAYOUTS. There are a bunch of different catagories to choose from. They come with codes. You copy the code and paste it into your ABOUT ME section in your myspace (:
xoxo
hope i helpedd
-emily

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how do i get myspace layouts and where do i get them? im new at myspace.
ex_oh

i LOOOVE the site
www.whateverlife.com
they will give you directions on how to do everything on how to put it in to yor profile and stuff(:

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how do i get really good sayings onto my aim buddy info? i cant seem to find anything good.

i get these questions a lot(:
Here is a link to a wicked awesome website(:
http://share.buddy4u.com/top.php

You click on one of the profiles in the list. Then once it loads, yo find a catagory in their profile called SUB PAGES or sometimes called SUBBIES -- there should be a section IN SOME OF THEM, NOT ALL (if there isnt a subbie called AIM PROS, then try a different profile) Aim Pros. You click that. You find cuutsie ones that you want and there are codes at the bottom of each one. When you find one that you want, you copy the code, then paste the code in your profilee =D

hope i helped(:

xoxoxo
drop me one anyytime(:

emiilyy

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hey well im 14/f
and i have a school dance this week. and i have a date.
but i have one MAJOR problem. i suck at slow dancing and dont really know how.. i dont wanna look retarded. please help if u can! :)

dances are fun =]

well slowdancing isnt that hard. when a slow song comes on you get your date and you put your hands around his neck (above the shoulders) and he'll put his hands at your hips. It might seen enbarresing at first, but believe me, once you do it once you'll never regret it!

...hope you have fun!

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What cute sayings can i put in my aim buddy profile? all my friends have really cute stuff but i need some help thinking of some stuff to put in it!

theres an awesome site called Buddy4u.com:

http://share.buddy4u.com/top.php

u click on any ones profile you want and most of them have a sub page called Aim Profiles and they have codes. You copy the codes into your profile =]

hope i helped =]

xxoxooo
emily

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Ok so I just started talking to my ex again because i missed him so i IMed him and he was like heyy and i was like look i really like you stil and he felt the same way! && now i dont know what my next move should be cuz i dont want to get hurt again.

this exact thing happened to my friend. If you really like the guy, u should date him. But in my opinion he's probably going to do the same exact thing he did to you before. But if you really like him, try it, if it happens again ull know for the next time =]

hope i helped
xoxo
emily

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where do you download Itunes onto your computer? Do you need to have software or go to a website? I already have an IPOD, but I got a new computer and Im not sure how to get Itunes on this computer. Thanks.

www.apple.com, then at the top it will have a different number of options, click the iTunes one. It will ask you to download it.

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hope i helped
xoxo
emily

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Could someone tell me if the Razr phones are good? We are updating our phones soon and I want a camera phone and I like the pink Razr but I've heard they are crap. Any opinions or suggestions?

I have a pink razr and I absolutely love it. Its awesome. The pictures aren't as clear as they could be, but they are pretty clear. You can do mostly anything with them. They are wicked thin and light. There are wicked cool cases for them too =]

=] hope i helped
xoxox
-emily

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I have the orginal iPod and its few years old. Recently it has been freezing and i just let it die and then charge it again and its fine. But now its not working at all. I have tried everything, seriously. When i turn it on it has a little iPod with am unhappy face on the screen and a "!" with a triangle around it.
what does this mean!
how do i fix it!
i cant tell my mom she'll kill me
and she wont let me get a new one.

please help!

I am not sure what the unhappy face means but the "!" with the triangle around it means it needs to be charged.. Try charging it again. Maybe you could look on google and maybe research the unhappy sign.


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hope i helped
xoxoxo
-emily

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is there any way to speed up periods so that its over in like 3 days without a pill? like any foods i can eat or excercises? because i dont want to have my period on Christmas :)

No, there is not a way to make your period go faster. If you have your period now, then I dont think it is going to last until christmas, but having your period on chrstmas wont be so bad. It'll be christmas!

=] hope i helped
xoxox
emilyy

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okay so you know what aim is right? okay well i noticed how in the buddy info part, my friends have like colorful sayings that say different stuff. Okay I was wondering where they get them from? cause I want some but not the ones my friends have. So is there like a site I can get them from?? thankz..help is apreciated. =D

http://share.buddy4u.com/top.php

thats an awesome siteee! You just click on one of the usernames and they have subpages and there is Aim Pros on most of them, u find the cutziee ones that you want and there is a code under it, copy the code and paste it in your profile =]

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What exactly is an unlocked phone?

Can somebody explain what exactly the point is?

its when u get a phone that it can be used with any carrier or service u choose.

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