Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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i have blue eyes and dark hair and i really want to bring out the blue eyes. i have so many eye shadows and stuff but i usually dont wear them. does anyone know any good colors or any make-up i should wear? thank you. (link)
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Hey. If you have blue eyes I would deffinitely stick with black eye liner which will completely bring out your eyes. Believe it or not blue eye liner looks really great too on blue eyes. You wouldn't think so but it really does. For eye shadow I would wear it dark too and if will deffinitely bring out your eyes. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrisabelle
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ok theres this guy who i really like but he kind of likes this really pretty and popular girl so can someone please give me tips on what to do. (link)
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Hey. Well usually when a guy you like, likes another girl it's probably just a crush (on his part towards this other girl). So if he knew you liked him he would probably be more likely to take an interest in you. When guys don't think someones into them then they really don't go for it. I bet the girl he likes flirts with him a lot. So I would start of slow by like starting minor conversation or making a few small jokes. Try to get closer with him as the relationship progresses. It might be hard but I would deffinitely do it. Or it might be really easy for you (depending on how You are). He'll probably start to like you and appreciate the flirting. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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okay. i am telling my mom that i am staying the night at my friends house. but i really am not. i am going to spend the night with my boyfriend. one problem. she wants to talk to my friends parents. how should i get around this? and is having my friend pretend to be her mother a good idea?
thanks (link)
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Hey. O.k. I know that you're not going to want to hear this but lying to your parents is not the answer. I know we've all been through this =). You're going to look back and feel guilty and eventually your parents ARE going to find out whether it takes two weeks or several years but when they do you'll feel worse. You're afraid to tell them the truth because you know it's wrong and you know they'll say no. But the truth is that they're going to say no because they care more than anything about you and love you so much. They would feel so guilty if anything ever happened and I know you know it wouldn't but this is probably how they feel. I would either tell your boyfriend this and if he's a good guy (I'm sure he is) he'll understand and you can just hang out or I would tell your parents and who knows? Maybe they'll agree and if not they might respect you for telling them and let you do it in the future. Also, your friend might feel guilty too and that's not a good situation. I'm really sorry if this didn't help at all but I really hope it did and I wish you a lot of luck! =)
Chrisabelle
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well theres this guy. (i know sounds like every other question but bear with me) ok im pretty sure he likes me. i REALLY like him and should i wait for him to make the first move??
and wat are some signs that a guy is into you and likes you?? (preferrably for guys to answer but girls who KNOW what theyre talking about are ok too)
thanx SOO much! (link)
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Hey. Well I would wait just a little while longer and continue to look for the signs. Guys like girls who are hard to get or who play hard to get and he may prefer to be the one to ask you out. Some signs that a guy likes you are that he asks embarressed or like shy around you. OR there's the other scenario where a guy constantly teases you (although he's really flirting). Or he'll just treat you as a friend and make jokes with you (but he really likes you). These are the typical signs but if you think he's the shy type then he might really appreciate if you made the first move. But usually the other types that tease like girls who are hard to get most of the time. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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tryouts for high school cheerleading start soon. if any of you are cheerleaders already ; could you please let me know what exactly i should know to have a shot at making it?? I`m currently attending tumbling classes trying to master my back handspring && back tuck.. if that helps any. thank you in advance. (link)
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Hey. I'm not a cheerleader but I remember at my old school all everyone kept practicing for tryouts was splits. And I think you need to know like a back and front handspring, a handstand, tucks (like you said =)) and like hurky's (may be spelt wrong). Pretty much you just have to be able to do flips and stuff like that. I really hope I helped and good luck with your tryouts!
Chrissabelle
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there is this guy at school & he is like real popular. im pretty popular , but there are these 3 girls that all the guys like. and he has gone out with all of them, but i dont think he likes any of them. anyways. i always thought he was hott, but this year he just really matured and i guess i kind of like him. when we talk in school, its usually only for like a minute or two. but he looks at me ALOT. and he is always showin me these love songs that he is listenin to.
the problem is, i dont know what to talk to him about. and im not the type of girl to be like.. so what are you in to? because. ive known just about everyone at my school since i was in kindergarden, except i never really got popular until like 7th grade. ( in 9th grade now ). and we just never talked much then either. so i would sound so stupid to be like.. what are you in to?
What should I do? (link)
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Hey. I completely understand what you mean. Well if you've known him this long you can start laughing and be like "remember that "whatchamacallit" from grade school?" He'll probably find this really comical. Or you can talk about stores near your house, bands you like, classes you're in, teachers you like/dislike, or just stupid stuff that can lead into a really interesting conversation. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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ok, so i know that i love being called beautiful.
but do guys like being called handsome?
or does that sound, like, stupid?
sorry if its kinda a stupid question.
thanks in advance :] (link)
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Hey. There's no such thing as a stupid question =). But I think handsomes not bad but that nowadays guys would prefer hot, sexy (as like a flirt) or good looking. But handsomes definitely a nice compliment too! It really depends on the guy. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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When im typing on the internet on a search bar like anywhere(myspace,google,etc.) a little whit box dropped down automatically, it said the history of what i had typed in that box in the past.It was like a little history box. It was realli helpful but my computer just got redone and the little box doesnt come down anymore
I was wondering where i could do to enable it again? LIke where on my internet tools do i go to?
PLease and thank you so much (link)
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Hey I love that thing too! After you use it for a while it should automatically show up. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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I have this friend named Alica, we were really good, close friends during my sophomore year (now a junior), but she has done many things behind my back. Once she randomly stopped talking, and what I found out was she was trying to get away from me! I asked why, and she said I was "not being a friend". As a fact, I did nothing to her! I am 100% sure I didn't (so don't say I might of anyway). Then we made up, and she always overreacts. If I forget to call her or text her, she'll yell at me when she sees me, asking where I was, why I didn't call, and she goes, "Why are you mad at me?!?!" When I am not!
So we got into an argument, and stopped being friends. Then we madeup 6 months later, but she got worse. She does what she used to do, plus she always lied to me. I would tell her to meet me somewhere after school THREE times, but never showed, and all of a sudden stopped talking to me again. So I got very angry, called her up, and went off on her, cussing her out, and telling her to not talk to me again. We haven't talked since, and my friends are glad I am not wasting my time with her anymore. I feel quilty for being harsh, but she has done so many horrible things to me! But did I do the right thing?
Sorry for it being so long, but thank you very much for your time. (link)
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Hey. You Definitely did the right thing without a doubt. You sound incredibly nice to feel guilty because this girl sounds like a really bad friend. You've tried numerous times but she ditched you, talked about you, and lied to you. Don't feel bad! Get FAR away! I've been in a similair situation and I finally did the right thing. Got away from someone like this who is so mean to people who are supposed to be friends. You certainly did the right thing =). I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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ok well theres this guy. Well you see I'm older then him (not that much) and he went out with one of my friends she's in his grade. That's how i met him. My first step was to become his friend Then he asked me out and i was like shocked and so happy but then three days later he broke up with me. That was last year and i still kinda like him now when i see him in the halls at school he stares at me and i stare at him as we walked past each other. I purposly tried to walk past him or a class he was in to make him look at me. During cross country after school on the bus he owuld always like pull my hair and hit me with stuff and trip me. He would always flirt with me but even when he liked someone else or had a girlfriend he would flirt with me. Now i rarely see him execpt in the halls when we stare at each other. My one friend tried to ask him to dance with me bc shes good friends with him and he said idk does that mean he doesnt like me?? or do you think he does ?? what should i do?? plz help !! (link)
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Hey. It sounds like this guy is the type who likes a lot of girls and can't make up his mind. The relationship was probably just over too soon so now he feels awkward saying hi to you since he ended it so soon (not your fault of course). If it was just a crush I would move on because you can find a guy that really loves you and actually says hi to you in the hallway rather than staring! But if you really like him than I would try talking to him. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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I have average skin. [not oily or dry]
But I have these little bumps on my cheek that will not go away.
Anything to make them disappear? (link)
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Hey. Yeah I get this sometimes too. Just wash your face every night and believe it or not sometimes it's the way you eat. Like if you've eaten french fries several days in a row, or chocolate so just try to keep off these foods for a few days. They should go away if you stick with this. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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About two months ago, my two friends asked my friend and I (we're two freshman) if we would like to room together on this trip we were going to. 4 people per room. The trip is now in 2 months, but we're signing up for rooming now, and today one of the friends that asked me told me that they couldn't room with us because she didn't realize that other people were going. So now my friend and I are roomateless, and we know we're going to be roomed with people in younger grades, or people we don't really like that much. We also aren't really looking forward to going, because the department we're going with kind of have their own groups, and so since my friend and I are the only freshman who really do waht the department is, we're kind of on our own. And it's going to be really awkward because we'll just be by ourselves a lot. And I'm just so mad, like I don't even really want to go anymore because it's going to be so awkward. And I can't really yell at the friends who ditched us because they're so much older then us they will just laugh. Like I can just see us on the trip eating lunch by ourselves, or with the younger crowd. shopping by ourselves, awkwardly not talking to any of the older people because they're older and have their group. I don't know what to do PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!! I want to go, but I don't want to be in this SITUATION I HATE IT!!!!!! (link)
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Hey. Don't feel so down since you and your friend are at least going to be together. Sometimes it's better when there's just two people and not a big group because it makes it easier to do what you want to do on the trip rather than having so many different opinions about what you're going to do. I bet you'll both have a great time and it will be a lot of fun! And if you do get roomed with younger kids that's okay because you and your friend have eachother and I bet the younger kids feel the same way about you guys as you feel about the older kids on the trip. The youngsters will probably stay out of your way because they'll be intimidated by you or you can be nice to them and you and your friend will still have a really fun time! Also, I wouldn't be so paranoid about the older kids because they're probably going to be glad there's some younger kids on the trip. You said the people that said they couldn't go were older too so just try to be sociable and if they're nice, the older kids will be happy that they have new freshman friends. I really hope this helped and good luck! You and your friend will have a great time! =)
Chrissabelle
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ok so basicly
i think i have to have all my wisdom teeth out
and that freaks me out...
i would rather be unconcious during it, but NO, i cant.
and i have small mouth, and idk.. i'm scared (link)
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Hey. Don't worry about it, so many of us have been through this =) You won't be asleep but they will give you a pain killer so you won't feel the pain so badly. The dentist who's doing it is probably so used to doing this too that he's an expert. Also, you can take medicine when you get home so you'll feel better too! I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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I have 2 best friends. One of them has been getting on my last nerve constantly lately. She always thinks she is right, and she is kinda over weight a lot, and she wears tight jeans and low cut shirts, and she's like.. "my boobs are so big, those guys keep looking at them" no they arent that big, its that she's kinda a lot fat. I dont mean to be mean, but she's fat, and very much overweight, and my other friend and I are just sick of her bragging all the time that she thinks guys are checking her out, when really the way she is dressing is drawing attention to her fat... and thats all.
what do i do? (link)
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Hey. I had a friend who sounds a lot like this girl. She probably is wearing the tight clothes because she is really insecure. It makes her feel better to think that she looks good in such a small size and she says that she has big boobs because this really makes her feel better about herself. She just doesn't want to admit this to herself so she covers things up by acting this way. As for the bragging this is just another way to cover up her insecurities but I'm sure everyone knows how she looks so I wouldn't say anything because she'll just feel silly in the long run. Or you can tell her how you feel but because she's so insecure she may get really upset and be mean to you which wouldn't be good either. Also, you and your other friend can slowly distance yourselves from her if she is really getting on your nerves to the point you really just don't like her anymore. But if this is just her main flaws, you may like her for other things and can keep her as a casual friend or however you feel about her she can be "that friend". I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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my gf dumped me and im really upset because she dumped me because her mates were calling her a sell out and her grades were falling:( im really upset she said it wasnt my fault and shes really sorry but im still annoyed i keep gettin random outbursts of anger e.g i clotheslined the hardest guy in my school because he annoyed me not a gd idea i also punched my wall n craked it broke my light switch and kiked my door of its hinges im pretty strong so i can do alot of damage what can i do to calm my self down:( (link)
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Hey. It sounds like your girlfriend has been under a lot of stress right now so just understand that it's not your fault at all. A lot of things were probably going on in her life right now. Before you know it you will have a new girlfriend that you love just as much or maybe things will work out with you and your old girlfriend. If not, that's ok because pretty soon you'll find someone you love just as much or more so keep your head up and just keep this in mind before getting angry. Or you can do what I do to stop anger. Just think of the person that's upsetting you at the moment doing a little jig with a unicorn horn strapped on their head or something stupid like this. It will cheer you up and make you stop continuing to think about your girlfriend. Time heals all wounds. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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heyy umm im looking for guys to answer this question.. but girls are fine too.
so umm im gonna go to my boyfriends house this weekend and i was just wondering if you could like suggest some fun stuff we could do.. im not having sex with him. and please dont suggest like make out.. bj.. hj.. or any of like the bases or anything. just like fun stuff to do. and this is the part thats basically for guys... whats some stuff that guys like girls to do to them? like besides make out & that stuff
thanks! xo (link)
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Hey. I'm not a guy but some fun things you can do are, play like a goofy game outside or something (or like a sport), you can watch a movie together, cook something together and then eat it, look up things on the computer (or do whatever on the computer), this may sound wierd but you can put on a fashion show for him, or just like watch t.v. and cuddle. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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how do you see underwater? i wanna do that, but it kinda hurts when i do it. also, im not really much of a swimmer, and i wanna learn how to but i cant find any places. im a 13 year old girl if that helps.. (link)
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Hey. Well it's the chlorine that really hurts your eyes so try doing it before your pool gets filled with chlorine or in a fresh water lake. That would be pretty cold this time of year depending on where you live though. Otherwise just buy goggles since I know how much it hurts opening your eyes in the pool, especially if there's a lot of chlorine. You really just have to force yourself to keep them open (as long as you're not in pain of course!) and it will work. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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this is a really random question but my classes get really boring and i like to doodle so what are ssome things i could doodle that i wont get tired of. i want to look like im taking notes so doodling is the only option. (link)
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Hey. I know how fun it is to doodle lol. Anyways, I always like to draw people for some odd reason. Just a random person or someone I know in like a top hat with a bow tie on or something. Or you can draw your name over and over in bubble letters and decorate it. Also, you can draw like your dream house for when you get older or pictures of you and your friends on motorcycles or something. You can make a list of who you would invite if you were to have a giant party (not really doodling but still fun) or you can draw like a really wierd invention or new amusement park you'd like to open. If you want to keep it smaller I'd stick with the hearts, flowers, smiley faces, ying yangs, and peace signs all over the page. I really hope this helped and doodle on! (sorry for the corney saying but I had to do it) =)
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Okay so I'm a freshman in college. Thursdays and Fridays are the longest days for me because I have a 3 1/2 hour and then a 1 1/2 our class on Thursdays and a 6 hour class on Fridays. I never eat breakfast because I'm never hungry when I wake up and I can't stand eating when I'm not hungry. When I get to school I usually buy like a 16 ounce coffee with a little bit of cream and sugar and maybe have a cigarette or two as the day progresses, but I don't eat until I get home. I think it may be because of all the caffeine and lack of physical movement, but whenever I'm in class on these days I'm extremely shaky and jumpy and twitchy and dizzy and restless and stammery...it's so weird and I hate it! What could be causing this? How can I avoid feeling like this during long classes like this?
P.S. I usually have to have coffee to be able to stay awake during the day. I get about 6 hours of sleep every night maximum because I have problems with falling asleep. (link)
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Hey. It deffinitely sounds as if the coffee is what's making you so jumpy. I understand about horrible lunch schedules, believe me =) but anyways even if you're not hungry I would eat something. Even if it's just a little something such as crackers, a piece of bread or a bannana because the effect of the caffenine will lessen if you have something in you and you Deffinitely won't be dizzy. All of this twitchiness and diziness is from lack of a meal and believe it or not it will be more healthy for you to eat something rather than not at all. Also, with the coffee maybe you can try having a little less so that you're not as twitchy. I know what it's like to need coffee. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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My grandmother just passed away, and our family needs music to play at her service. I need at least more than one song, please. Any slow music, even with good lyrics would be really good.
Thanks! (link)
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Hey. Well first of all I am so sorry about your grandmother =( I know how much it hurts to loose someone you love. If you ever need someone to talk to you can come to me. You can play Amazing Grace, or the song that goes I'm finding it hard to believe we're in heaven I'm not sure of the name but it may just be called Heaven, or the song by Bob Carlisle called Christmas shoes. I really hope this helped and once again I am so sorry about your grandma.
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