|
Trip
About two months ago, my two friends asked my friend and I (we're two freshman) if we would like to room together on this trip we were going to. 4 people per room. The trip is now in 2 months, but we're signing up for rooming now, and today one of the friends that asked me told me that they couldn't room with us because she didn't realize that other people were going. So now my friend and I are roomateless, and we know we're going to be roomed with people in younger grades, or people we don't really like that much. We also aren't really looking forward to going, because the department we're going with kind of have their own groups, and so since my friend and I are the only freshman who really do waht the department is, we're kind of on our own. And it's going to be really awkward because we'll just be by ourselves a lot. And I'm just so mad, like I don't even really want to go anymore because it's going to be so awkward. And I can't really yell at the friends who ditched us because they're so much older then us they will just laugh. Like I can just see us on the trip eating lunch by ourselves, or with the younger crowd. shopping by ourselves, awkwardly not talking to any of the older people because they're older and have their group. I don't know what to do PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!! I want to go, but I don't want to be in this SITUATION I HATE IT!!!!!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category?
Maybe give some free advice about: School?
Hey. Don't feel so down since you and your friend are at least going to be together. Sometimes it's better when there's just two people and not a big group because it makes it easier to do what you want to do on the trip rather than having so many different opinions about what you're going to do. I bet you'll both have a great time and it will be a lot of fun! And if you do get roomed with younger kids that's okay because you and your friend have eachother and I bet the younger kids feel the same way about you guys as you feel about the older kids on the trip. The youngsters will probably stay out of your way because they'll be intimidated by you or you can be nice to them and you and your friend will still have a really fun time! Also, I wouldn't be so paranoid about the older kids because they're probably going to be glad there's some younger kids on the trip. You said the people that said they couldn't go were older too so just try to be sociable and if they're nice, the older kids will be happy that they have new freshman friends. I really hope this helped and good luck! You and your friend will have a great time! =)
Chrissabelle <3
]
okay well i know you hate it but sometime you have to meet new ppl step out of your confort zone and talk the older ppl maybe ask them for some fashion tips or something. maybe bucking in with younger kid isnt so bad....think about it you guy will be the older once they willl be like in love with you asking you to there makeup and stuff......give it a chance.go one the trip...in the end you do have you best friend.
]
More Questions: |