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So theres this girl im head over heels for. I dont know why but im just naturally attracted to her. I drive 20 minutes to see her without even thinking about the costs or anything. Ive known her since the beginning of the summer and im 17 and ive actually never felt like this before. Ive asked her out but we both have commitment and mental issues, so we [by we i mean her] decided to take it slow. We have had completely different backgrounds, im from england while shes from the farms. She claims she likes me but its impossible to tell, sometimes i feel like giving up and ive tried, but i cant. but she makes me feel at a absolute low once in a while. I hate it. I love her but what she does to me emotionally i hate. I dont like feeling like this. Can someone help me, give me some advice to do? 17/m

you know what i know you may love her and it might be hard but i like you need to tell her that she has to take you or leave you. b/c trust me the thought of losing you will prob. drive her crazy! idk if this help. and do u live in england?

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i have this question and i only have gotten one answer for it so far. i need way more responses im desprate! the subject was:
so theres this guy[s]

send me the question

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[ i am a girl ] okay. i have this one friend names katlyn who cheers with me, and she was literally my best friend. we were insepperatable..but then one day i was over at my other friend kelley's house..and i was talking to katlyn on AIM. kelley said she thought katlyn was hilarious..so she asked for her screen name..i gave it to her. a couple weeks later kelley said she wanted to meet katlyn..and i said sure..no big deal right? so all three of us plan a sleepover last august. after the sleepover, kelley and katlyn talked a lot, but katlyn always assured me she didnt like kelley..or so i thought. months later, me and katlyn went through some friendship problems. it was bad. and during it kelley and katlyn got extremely close..until they planned a sleepover..WITHOUT me. and ever since that day i look at them differently. they put me through a lot of pain.. and now, we finally got it all worked out and we planned an "all three of us" sleepover..but kelley and katlyn also planned something just with them..the night before. i dont know what to do..i guess the only reason i feel soo weird about all this is that if it wasnt for me, kelley and katlyn would have no connection.. how should i handle this? and how can i help forgive them? sorry this is long..but i need the advice..im desperate.
♥thank you for your time
signed, *hopeless forgiver*

omg this happend to me like 4 years ago. but like i just found new friends and then a year later my best friend who is your katlyn came running back b/c she got sick of her. so wish you all the best. so just find new friends and dont worry about it.

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This is extremely embarassing for me to ask.

I am an 18 year old girl from Egypt, but I moved to the USA when I was seven. My parents got me circumcised when I was six. I am worried that no one will want to marry me because I am circumcised, and will think I am gross. I am very worried because when doctors look at me (just check ups, nothing is wrong with me) they gasp, and make a very big deal out of it.

Please any feedback is so appreciated.

umm girl cant get circumsied only boys can

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Hey I have so many cases of skin issues and every question I asked on here there's always a "go see a dermatoligist".
I want to but isn't that like having another doctor and thne I'd have to pay? I don't have a lot of money and I live with my dad so it's kinda embarrassing bringing him with me if I got an appointment. And I don't know where to find one. Money is a serious issue for me!

welll what do u have prob. withi?

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Ok, so I'm one of those shy guys that doesn't know how to approach a girl...But there's this girl I like, and she's like one of my bestfriends and I don't know how to tell her I like her...Anyone have an ideas??

just tell her in like a little love note

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okay well im having a sweet sixteen but its going to be more during the day and well afterwards i want to rent a limo. i really dont know hwere to go with the limo but i was thinking how much money would it cost to take the limo from the boston area to like virginia or north carolina. do limos even travel that far or for that long?

yea but y do u want to go out of the country

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ok there is this amazing girl at my school. i dated her last year, and now i am a freshman in highschool. while we were going out, i was to shy to really do anything. i wanted to kiss her so bad but i just couldnt find the strength to actually make my move. we broke up later because she did not like me anymore. we went out for about 3 weeks. before that we were really good friends, but now its like we dont talk at all anymore, part of the reason being we dont have any classes together. ever since we broke up though, its weird, it seemed like i wanted her more and more every day. i havnt stopped thinking about her every day and it has been almost a year now. i still see her almost everyday, because i go to a small private school. anyway, i have just learned that she is leaving my school, to go to another because she wants a change of things. i think i love her and i dont want her to leave, but i am too shy to step up and admit to her my feelings, not that it would change anything, but i just feel like she should know, before she goes that someone is thinking of her. i also feel that that might make things even more aukward between us, and i am really shy when it comes to this stuff. i dont know i was thinking of just going and telling her, but i dont know there is something just keeping me from doing that. maybe a note or something?

if this was me i would want you to like bring me like a little place in the school and just tell her how you feel and if its going well litly kiss her

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i have a question i was wondering what u can wear to look more preppy please i need help asap and also how to act it!! and i need anything possible that has to do with being preppy thankyou so much in advance!!!

polo under a shirt and stuff from hollister and abercrombie and acting preppy is just say like alot and like happy and jumpy

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when are the hollister jeans with the beads and glitter on the pockets coming back?

also the jean skirts with the same thing.

thanks

i dont think they ever will or like in 3 years

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PLEASE READ. okay i need advice- ovousily or i wouldn't be on here. ha. okay well im really shy and thats a problem because i dont have as many friends. i have like what 3? ha. i know right. i have friends from other towns but that doesnt really count because i want friends from MY own town- friends that like i hang out with outside of school too. i pretty much want to be popular. i know i could be and i have it in my like personality wise and im not ugly but like..im just so shy its crazy. also, this is the part that i hate so much. people think im a lezbain. like popular, average, or what ever. and the thing is IM NOT. and like i dont know how to prove that im not a lezbo because like im not ganna be a slut or anything. so yeah today in gym like my friend hes like JESSICA IS PALEEEE *clap clap clap clap clap* and this popular kid whos an extreme jerk is like JESSICA LIKES GIRLS *clap clap clap clap clap* . hes gay if anything. ha. yeah but really.

a) like how do i become popular and fast? && like over come my shyness? like please help. really. i mean i know i could be popular and stuff but ARGH PLEASE. like in other towns im popular because i dont care what they think and its harded to like actually do this then just say it. please!

b)please please please any advice on getting them not to call me a lez. really PLEASE. this is just the gayesttt thing ever. i think once i become popular then people will stop calling me a lez.


thank you SOO much if you read this and give me adive. omg. please. help. ah.

okay well just think what diffent from those towns from urs?......well i know every girls dream is to be populare but really its not that fun. Not matter what clique you are in the are all going to have masive partys! but if you really want to be popular then just be you self and dont be so shy.its going to be hard! but i think you can do that but....if you friends are nerdy then you have to pick populare or good friend
b/c u might not beable to have both. Well tto prove your not a lez. Well i have a good idea well eathier kiss one of them off gard or kiss someone else and to solve the plae part go tanning its not that much money but if it is then just get self tanner.tell me how it goes i will love to know and if this doest work i have some more ideas!

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well im confused. my mom says im not covered on her insurance when i drive alone [i drive her car sometimes if i go somewhere because sadly i dont have one yet] but everyone else is telling me that im covered on my parents insurance since im only 16, even when i drive alone. so i was wondering if anyone else knew.. i looked on the companys website but couldnt seem to find an answer. i live in Georgia and we have State Farm if that helps.

it doesnt matter who carwe you drive if they havent then its okay

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I am Catholic. I made my confirmation last year. Except the thing is.. i wasnt really ready. i didnt know god as much as i do now. I am such a better Christian now. I feel connected to him now. I pray every night and follow god as much as i possibly could. I dont cuss or drink or smoke or have sex..or do bad stuff. I kind of picked a confirmation saint name without thinking. It doesnt really relate to me, or hve much meaning to me. of course i researched it, and i thought it was really cool what she did.
But sometimes i think some things we as Catholics do, are kind of pointless. i know god would love me just as much if i wasnt confirmed. baptists dont get confirmed. and i actually dont remember my confirmation as being one of those heart touching special moments.

Am i wrong for feeling this way?
I just want to follow god w/out having to do these things that i find pointless...

no your okay i dont go to church or anything but i know god still loves me the same as someone who feed the poor everyday.

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there's this guy that i like & hes just a nice person. the thing is, im friends with his friends & so we talk in small groups during class a lot. i talk to them, they talk to me, etc etc. hes been in almost every one of my classes & sits near me in all. we never actually talked. i mean yeah we exchanged words about a class assignment or something, but that's about it. in my one class, a group of people would talk & they would all talk to me yet he wouldn't. im completely ignored by him. i've tried talking about this class were taking & it just didn't work out. i mean, if im talking he'll look at me but will never respond, or join in on the convo, etc. maybe im not social to the extreme, but i do talk to his friends & at least try to make conversation. does he just not like me?? or is it something else??

well have u liked tryed to start a cinvi with him? maybe you should just give up ( not really but make him think your are ) so then he will think you dont like him anymore then he will star talking to you

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are there any foods that make your metabolism faster?

no but if u est slow it will

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Who's playing in the superbowl this year? Haha I haven't been paying attention and I'm too embarassed to ask anyone else.

haha umm...the colts and the bears

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I applied at Victoria's Secret and they called me and told me to dress up in black pants, bring 2 forms of ID, and come in for orientation this weekend. They didn't mention anything about an interview. Does that mean I won't be having one and I'm already hired? I thought orientation came after your interview and after you're hired. Also, any idea how much they pay? Any input would be great. Thanks in advance!

well i think they pay good but yea i thik then u got the job...someplace dont do interviews

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17 female

my name is Rachel and my boyfriend roosevelt and i have only been going out for about 3 days and on the first day we started to go out he asked me if he could kiss me and i told him that it would be my first kiss and i would have to think about it first the thing is iam kind of nervous becouse he wants to french kiss me and i've never kissed a boy before much less french kissed a boy and i don't think iam ready since i've only been going out with him for 3 days and i want to know how do i know when iam read to kiss a boy?

if its a big deal then just wait but its really nothing to worry about

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so i'm a fifteen year old girl.
i've had sex before with my boyfriend with condoms and it's been all good.
until today, we had it with the "mint tingle" from trogen.
we went all the way
and it broke.
we didnt notice it broke until he cumed.

so my questions are
what should i do? i've cleaned my self out a lot. we got it (or most of it) before it got in, i cleaned it with water and i'm about to go shower.
and what are the chances of me getting preg?
and has this happened to some one else, what happened, and what condom did you use?

oo jezz um.....yea you can all it take is one.um...i dont mean to be judgemental but your 15 wow thats really young......well i would just c how it goes if u dont get you . then i would def. tell your mom or dad

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I am a freshman. And im popularISHH I am not the most gorgeous person but im cute. I am madly in love with this senior!!!! I like have an insane crush on him. I dont know what to do. He is popular and intimidating. Hes single and no girls {besides me} like him. Its so random to go up and talk and i way to scard to do that! What do i do?

talk to him....what it going to hurt.

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