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lez? popularity? ASAP
PLEASE READ. okay i need advice- ovousily or i wouldn't be on here. ha. okay well im really shy and thats a problem because i dont have as many friends. i have like what 3? ha. i know right. i have friends from other towns but that doesnt really count because i want friends from MY own town- friends that like i hang out with outside of school too. i pretty much want to be popular. i know i could be and i have it in my like personality wise and im not ugly but like..im just so shy its crazy. also, this is the part that i hate so much. people think im a lezbain. like popular, average, or what ever. and the thing is IM NOT. and like i dont know how to prove that im not a lezbo because like im not ganna be a slut or anything. so yeah today in gym like my friend hes like JESSICA IS PALEEEE *clap clap clap clap clap* and this popular kid whos an extreme jerk is like JESSICA LIKES GIRLS *clap clap clap clap clap* . hes gay if anything. ha. yeah but really.
a) like how do i become popular and fast? && like over come my shyness? like please help. really. i mean i know i could be popular and stuff but ARGH PLEASE. like in other towns im popular because i dont care what they think and its harded to like actually do this then just say it. please!
b)please please please any advice on getting them not to call me a lez. really PLEASE. this is just the gayesttt thing ever. i think once i become popular then people will stop calling me a lez.
thank you SOO much if you read this and give me adive. omg. please. help. ah.
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7th grade i too was so shy i felt as if i had no friends and was i was totally unpopular. 8th grade (after the summer) i came back to school with a whole new look. new tighter clothes that were in style, loud, happy, preppy [not too much], and most of all i didnt stick with one group of friends. i hung out with like totally differnt groups like the goth/punks, wanna b hunters, preps, populars, geeks,nerds, all kinds. im saying these are just some ways to change. im not totally sure how i did it but i had the will-power to come outta my box and have people notice me. you how like you have a certain style? well its like one day you totally get out of your box and go to another one. like im not saying change your style just get out of your box or your head. let people notice you're there. befriend everyone and be nice to everyone no matter what! becoming popular has a lot more to do with than that. its a lot of pressure. you're always contantly trying to be perfect or at least i was. and if you're popular enough, everyone is always going to know about you, who you're dating or what you did last friday. some people are even going to make up rumors about you just be ready for it.. LOL maybe to get over your shyness you could either plan an out of your box outfit with your 3 friends. or go to the hotspot hangout(where-ever your school goes, like mine to the mall on fridays) or you could just try to talk more, even online ask some guys.girls for their aim if u have it or email or number and talk to them(sometimes its easier when its not in person.. laugh out loud oh my i think this is really long but i have so much to say about this so if you want to talk more or whatever contact me and i can give you my aim or email hope i helped
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Well, first things first--you can't get anything as fast as you want. If you do in fact get something quickly, you're bound to lose it all quickly.
Many guys and girls pray to be popular at their school and think it's all that and they try to be popular by becoming someone else. If you want to be popular, the people at your school have to like you for who YOU are. I'm sure you have a great personality but it's just hidden behind all that shyness.
Hmm, okay so have your friends have little get togethers with some other friends of theirs and you should meet your friends' friends. Does that make sense? Have your friends have a little party and ask them to invite a few of their friends so that you can meet them and follow the same pattern and let your friendship circle expand.
About your being shy problem...do you really want people to know you as that quiet girl sitting by herself? I think not. People won't know you until you start talking and revealing yourself! Don't worry about them liking you or not because if they don't, it's not the end of the world at all so go out there and meet people. Eventually, you'll gain some popularity if you put yourself out there to new people.
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About the lesbian thing, tell them that they're being really immature and stupid. If you let them bother you with this, they'll drag it on because it seems funny to them. So the next time they call you a lesbian and whatnot, tell them to get a life or go suck a d**k. Haha, I know..the last part isn't the prettiest or the nicest...
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okay well just think what diffent from those towns from urs?......well i know every girls dream is to be populare but really its not that fun. Not matter what clique you are in the are all going to have masive partys! but if you really want to be popular then just be you self and dont be so shy.its going to be hard! but i think you can do that but....if you friends are nerdy then you have to pick populare or good friend
b/c u might not beable to have both. Well tto prove your not a lez. Well i have a good idea well eathier kiss one of them off gard or kiss someone else and to solve the plae part go tanning its not that much money but if it is then just get self tanner.tell me how it goes i will love to know and if this doest work i have some more ideas!
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