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my girl freind dumped me and i keep going crazy!!
my gf dumped me and im really upset because she dumped me because her mates were calling her a sell out and her grades were falling:( im really upset she said it wasnt my fault and shes really sorry but im still annoyed i keep gettin random outbursts of anger e.g i clotheslined the hardest guy in my school because he annoyed me not a gd idea i also punched my wall n craked it broke my light switch and kiked my door of its hinges im pretty strong so i can do alot of damage what can i do to calm my self down:(
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well this is going to be interesting but masterbate i guess get your mind off her. trust me it gets the stress out. but... if you dont feel comforstable with that then
1.close your eyes
2.take a deep breath in and out
3.think of a happy place and the sounds in the back round
4.do this over and over
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Hi. I don't want you to hate me for this, but... It seems your girlfriend had some things going on and this is why she left you. Take her word, it really wasn't your fault. Seems like she had some problems, I don't know. And also try to calm down a little, because angriness can't do you any good or help you in any way. If things between you and your girlfriend will settle out, it's OK, and if not... It's a little bit more tricky. Don't take my answer as a general, universal rule, because it's not, but it's something that "emerged" out of my past (and failed) experiences: I lived with a guy for 2 years, but the last year was a horrible sh*t, an immense burden caused by the fact that, despite everything going wrong, neither of us had the guts to "dump" the other one. My point is: when a relationship is getting "loose", it's often not wise to try to hang on with any possible means, since it will - in most cases - lead to a nasty end. Just my 2 cents :)
Anyway, calm down - it's *not* your fault - and you'll see, as the other poster said, that everything will just settle down by itself with time. You need a little time for each "hop" in your life, but... eventually you'll get past it. So try to cheer up! :)
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Sounds like you got your first lesson in what teenage girls especially love to make you do- feel angry and jealous over them. Acting like a tough guy isn't going to get anywhere, it's not cool, it's not impressive.
Relax dude- there are going to be many more girls after her and you will have these feelings again. She knows that you are acting this way and it means she is getting attention- you are letting her win.
Take a breather and get back out and don't worry about having a girlfriend until you're serious enough to commit to a relationship and are getting your life in order later down the road. For now- just be single, get as many girls as you can and live and learn.
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Hey. It sounds like your girlfriend has been under a lot of stress right now so just understand that it's not your fault at all. A lot of things were probably going on in her life right now. Before you know it you will have a new girlfriend that you love just as much or maybe things will work out with you and your old girlfriend. If not, that's ok because pretty soon you'll find someone you love just as much or more so keep your head up and just keep this in mind before getting angry. Or you can do what I do to stop anger. Just think of the person that's upsetting you at the moment doing a little jig with a unicorn horn strapped on their head or something stupid like this. It will cheer you up and make you stop continuing to think about your girlfriend. Time heals all wounds. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle <3
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