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falling for him
ok theres this guy who i really like but he kind of likes this really pretty and popular girl so can someone please give me tips on what to do.
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Okay, if you like him, that's good. And for all you know, maybe he likes you too. BUT, one thing of advice before I even go on: if you try to change yourself, that's a game you're never going to win. If you do that, he won't get to see the real you, and if he doesn't like you for you, then he's not someone who deserves you. So, it's okay to like him, that's not a bad thing. Maybe try talking to him, just be yourself, or if you get to know him a little better, maybe if you have any classes together you can "study" with each other. I find this technique works when I want to hang out with a guy.
Jess♥
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Hey. Well usually when a guy you like, likes another girl it's probably just a crush (on his part towards this other girl). So if he knew you liked him he would probably be more likely to take an interest in you. When guys don't think someones into them then they really don't go for it. I bet the girl he likes flirts with him a lot. So I would start of slow by like starting minor conversation or making a few small jokes. Try to get closer with him as the relationship progresses. It might be hard but I would deffinitely do it. Or it might be really easy for you (depending on how You are). He'll probably start to like you and appreciate the flirting. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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ive tnever been in that group, ive always been in the group rite below them.even though you may not believe me, its not about popularity. its's about vibes. you ened to send out a vibe to let him know you're interested. trust me from experiance. always smile at him, and definately flirt. also, always be confident, because if you are, he will notice and might like you.
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Well there are two different routes to take. The one where you decide to continue likeing him, or the one where you decide not to like him.
A) So lets say you pick the first one. Just because you like him and he likes someone else, it oesnt mean you cant like him. See there are two more ways to look at this (lo l) You can look at this as the perspective of someone who needs a boufriend. You need one now. Or theres the one where you would just sort of like a boyfriend, but if you dont get one this week its not the end of the world. So if you decide you want a boyfried like now, move on to B. If you are just thinking about get a boyfriend, you don't really care if it's him, you just want someone to look at or think about when yo're bored. This guys awesome. Maybe One day he'll be your boyfriend, but today might not be the day. This is the category, where yo think about maybe one day making a move, but other than that you just stick around and look at him.
B) Kay, now heres where you Decide between hidden option one, where you wait out this thing with the "pretty" girl, or 2 where you go up and ask him out. So you have to decide, are you the type of person who will swoop in and steal his attention or are you going to just wait and when he loses intrest in the other girl, then go in for the kill. The only problem is he might not lose interest tomorrow or the next day or next week even...
so are you the type of girl who can be confident, flirt and get this guys attention,(option B 1 or maybe even 2) or are you happy just sitting and watching while he goes out with other girls (option A and a bit B2). So once you pick that, then the answer might be obvious, but if you need some more help, you know where to look eh? :D
Hope I helped, Lots of love,
Angie91
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Hey there.
If you like him tell him how you feel so what about that girl let him know straight up that you are feelin him and you really like him.
or if your shy write him a note..
flirt with him and give him hints!!!
the best way to get a boy to know you like him is to flirt alot and get his attention show off in front of him kinda have his eye on you then her
but dont go to out but just act more flirty towards him and get his eye and hug him and talk to him dont be scared
hope i helped!!
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