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lieing to parents
okay. i am telling my mom that i am staying the night at my friends house. but i really am not. i am going to spend the night with my boyfriend. one problem. she wants to talk to my friends parents. how should i get around this? and is having my friend pretend to be her mother a good idea?
thanks
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Unfortunately you usually get caught in lies. Having your friend pretned to be her mother is not a good idea cause a teens voice sounds different than an adults voice.
I am curious is your boyfriend over the age of 18?
If you're spending the night with your boyfriend and you can't help but to have sex I have one word for you CONDOM. No glove no love. You wouldn't want to have to tell your mom you're pregnant.
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Ok.Ok.Ok,
I am saying this because I know what its like
DONT DO IT!SERIOUSLY.
It is defiantly not a good idea to tell your mum,if she found otu which she will because you can never get away with anything,she'll ground you and forbid you to see him.Seriously do not so this - you'll destroy every hope and trust your mum has in you.It happened to my sister and she got into trouble and though i dont know you, I dont want you getting into trouble.Think about your mum too - for her sake.Why dont you just tell her that you'd like her to meet someone.Please Please Please, dont lie to your mum,
sadie
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If you want the honest-to-God truth, I wouldn't do it. Ususally parents have ways of finding out what you're really doing. And if they were to find out, most likely you'll have some serious consequences, and you'll lose trust. I've learned that from experience, believe me on that.
Jess♥
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It will only work if your friend has a deep voice that sounds like a grown woman..
But you can also tell your friend to go to the movies with you and have her mother say yes to the movies and then kinda slide the spending the night thing then just say you have to leave when your over her house to her mom and say your cousin is outside to get you because your mom had to go somewhere and leave with him that same night
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i really dont think its a good idea. think about what could happen. your friend is a good one. what happens if she gets caught?? what will happen to you?? what will happen to her?? and your boyfriend?? think about those questions. your mom is gonna figure it out. so i say dont even do it. you mom is going to know either way. moms know that. so make the right choice. all of this just to see your boyfriend?? its alittle out of controll. but i cant stop you. if you wanna get around this... dont do it. theres nothing you can say. i know this isnt the advice your looking for but this is the best. what if you cant see your boyfriend anymore or if he cant see you. think about it. good luck. and sorry this isnt what your looking for but this is my advice and what i think. good luck
bluebell78
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Hey. O.k. I know that you're not going to want to hear this but lying to your parents is not the answer. I know we've all been through this =). You're going to look back and feel guilty and eventually your parents ARE going to find out whether it takes two weeks or several years but when they do you'll feel worse. You're afraid to tell them the truth because you know it's wrong and you know they'll say no. But the truth is that they're going to say no because they care more than anything about you and love you so much. They would feel so guilty if anything ever happened and I know you know it wouldn't but this is probably how they feel. I would either tell your boyfriend this and if he's a good guy (I'm sure he is) he'll understand and you can just hang out or I would tell your parents and who knows? Maybe they'll agree and if not they might respect you for telling them and let you do it in the future. Also, your friend might feel guilty too and that's not a good situation. I'm really sorry if this didn't help at all but I really hope it did and I wish you a lot of luck! =)
Chrisabelle<3
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i know you dont want to hear it but lying to your parents is bad. but if you REALLY want to spend the night at your bf's house mabey ask your friend if you can spend the night and when your mom calls her parents it will be true. but the day/day before you're suppost to go call and tell your friend you can't because your sick, or a family member is sick or something like that.
hope i helped =D
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