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Okay, I have a problem. See there's this guy I like. I just met him this year. He's a senior and I'm a freshman, but for now there's two years apart because he hasn't turned 18 yet. He's so different from every other guy I've liked/dated. I feel we have chemistry, but because he's so different, I can't tell what is going on in his head. I mean he's not a jerk, he doesn't really care what people think about him, and he's first in his class! See what I mean, a lot different from most guys. Also, he has this higher pitched voice that made me think at first he could be gay. So here's my question...how do I a) figure out if he's into me b) decide if he's gay or not because I can't ask him c) maybe just tell him how I feel and see what he says
Thanx!!!
hmm well if you want to know if hes gay and you know his sn ask him anonymously or you could ask around and stuff like that. Sadly, there's no for sure way to know if a guys into you. Just keep going with your friendship and just see how it goes and how he acts. im srry if i don't know that much but i hope that helps! good luck!
This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks.
hmm this doesn't really sound like a question.it sounds more like you lecturing. "why do YOU feel the need to dress provocitavely".. "YOU don't need to be showing all of that". You sound like you're assuming that EVERYONE is like that and you're talking down to them. Not everyone dresses like that. I guess they are just into looking a different way. Maybe they like attention from guys, don't see anything wrong with that. I understand you're point, but it's hard growing up, and i feel for those 13 year old girls trying to find their place and fit it. Anyways, I do get what you're saying and i know it can be pretty annoying when girls who look 10 act like 16 year old.. but who cares, let them.
how do you make icons on iconator it makes me mad beacuse i look and look and look and i cant find how to make one!!!
http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=%2AIcOn+MaKiNg+HeLp%2A
go to that site, it tells you how.
xox good luck
Ok a couple of nights ago my girlfriend told me about her eating disorder...im really concernd... i told her that it was ok and that i still loved her... i really want to help her... all i really could say was that "your beauitful you dont need to do all this stuff" and i dont know what to do...please help me!!!
Ok, this is really serious. You might not realize it, but it is. She could die or cause permanent damage to her body. You need to talk to her about it and if you can't get through to her maybe try talking to her friends... try to get her to eat.. something.. what eating disorder does she have? sorry you have to go through this and hope this helps! good luck!
xox kt
Hey-I found out how to change the colors (not font) bt using some common sence! But the problem is...How can you change the format of it? Like- The question that you've answer you put then @ the bottom, how did you do that? No rush...but I would like to know ASAP-thanks again!
ok go to column setting, and find where it says Approved Public Styles, you can use any of those and it changes how ur page looks! if u have any other questions feel free to ask. srry about the delay.. xmas break.. been kinda busy lol. hope i helped!
Wut does lmao mean? ppl r lyk good icon Imao n then ppl r lyk bad icon Imao...im so confused...lol
~SaMmy
lmao mean laughing my ass off. lol. if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.
what does x3 mean? srry this is probably stupid but o well! LOL!
its like a sideways heart. some ppl do
my dad hits me occasionally and he say things like im a worthless piece of shit and all he does is put me down. hes gotten me so upset that i started cutting myself. i dont know what to do. i really want to stop hurting myself but i feel like thats the only way to get through it all..can you please help me..what should i do?
omg im so sorry. Cutting yourself will only make it worse. You NEED to talk to someone. If you can, talk to your mom, or a family member, or a friend, a friends parent, or someone at school, like a counselor. You can't let this keep happening. You need to talk to someone.. and please don't cut, it makes things worse. I really hope this works out for you!
-- kt
Ok well I really like this guy and he doesnt like me. well i stopped liking him for a short amount of time and it started to seem like he liked me. I was curious so I asked my friend (a guy) if a girl liked him and stopped liking him, would he like her? and he said yes. So the guy that I like is kind of shy and doesnt really talk to girls that much, so how do I get him to ask me out? Im not the type of person to ask a guy out so I cant do that and I asked someone else and she said to wear really tight clothes and try and look sexy all the time, and I dont do that either. I try and look cute but I dont feel comfortable wearing slutty clothes.
~Boy Probs
well i think you're pretty much doing everything right. flirt with him and look cute, you dont have to be slutty. there is a chance that he doesn't like you so then you could be friends.. but when you stopped liking him you probably acted a little different, maybe you didn't even notice, and he missed it when you liked him or something like that so now he likes you. Guys are confusing! lol
good luck!
kt
I tried all the links on your advice column for the banners and colors and everything, and NONE of them worked. I love your advice column and want the banner and colors but those are either not the correct websites, or they just don't work on my computer. Thanks Em
well the only link i see on there is the www.starlightmks.com one and thats for the cursor. if you want the banners and stuff like that, you need html codes. heres a website for that:: http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#star
good luck!
kt
i've been absent from school 7 1/2 days this year. ive been sick a lot and there are lots of bugs going around.plus i broke my elbow earlier. well i was absent today and the vice principal called. he said i had to go school or they'd get the county involved. he said that the max number of days you can be absent in a year is 10, but the rules state 20. it also says you cant miss more than 5. well the first grading period i was absent 5 days, so that isnt breaking any rules. should i be in trouble for this because he is clearly lying? i dont see how im breaking any of the written rules. ive heard of no such change in them either so it isnt like i missed it. what do i do?
i think hes just trying to scare you. Don't worry too much about it. You know what the rules are, he probably thinks you don't. If he says anything else tell him that you were sick and that youre going to try to miss as few days as possible and then just mention what the rule really is. But don't worry about it. You haven't missed that much.
im going to ask for a mini ipod for christmas, but which is better a regular ipod or a mini ipod and whats the differnce, and can i get a gift card thing to get songs at the itunes music thing online. and are they easy to use? becaus im not good with tech. things so im hoping its easy to use...please tell me anything you can about them.
i rate!!!!
i have an ipod mini and its actually pretty easy to use. The difference between the 2 is that the minis will hold about 1,000 songs, and the regular ones can hold up to 10,000 songs. Also the minis come in colors :). you dont have to buy the songs from itunes. i download mine from WinMX because it's free. It's pretty easy to use. Hope this helps! good luck with ur ipod! if u any other questions about it feel free to ask me.
kt
Hi it's Tegan does it hurt to have your belly button pierced?my dad will let me have it done but when i asked my mum she said no but i desperatly want it done can you help me please?
Well, I dont have mine pierced so i dont really know. But yeah im guessing its hurts a little. If ur parents are divorced i'd get it done when ur with ur dad but if there not try to convince ur mom and tell her your dad said it was ok. hope this helps, good luck!
kt
hey i have a question about making icons. HOW DO YOU MAKE THEM!!!!??? im talking about doll icons please answer and tell thanx bye
http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=%2AIcOn+MaKiNg+HeLp%2A
i made it- it tells u everything u need to no about making icons! good luck!
kt
hey..i know that u dont like ppl stealing from u..and i wont. i just want to know how u got that banner thing
u get the banner from html codes. if u go here http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?x=safe&u=html+.+help#1 it tells u how! good luck!
kt
i love ur webpage. how and where did u make it??
thanx! i made it using html codes. heres 2 places that give u the codes:: http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#star and http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?x=safe&u=html+.+help#1
hope this helps good luck!
hey kt okay i really like this boy but he has a girlfriend his girlfriend is one of my really good friends but i dont want to tell her i like him because i dont want her to be mad and i dont want to tell him because i dont want things to be weird when im around him i really need help!what would you do?thanks a bunch!
-*aJ
Hey. Well it sounds like you have the right idea. Honestly, i don't think any good could come from telling either of them. Just stay friends with both of them. This guy might be taken but that doesn't mean you can't be friends! Who knows, maybe someday, but right now friends would probably be the way to go. Hope i helped! Good luck!
-kt
I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal?
DEPENDS WHAT STATE!! i live in michigan and if u did u could have sex right now! Theres the consent age. It's different in every state it's usually 16-18. go to this site http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm and find ur state! hope this helps!
In America, is there a certain age you have to be before you are allowed to have sex? It's just that in England you have to be sixteen.
yeah theres the age of consent.. i dono y ppl are telling u it doesnt matter! lol. both ppl have to be the age of consent of older for it to be legal. at the beginning of the year a judge came to my skool and talked to us. you can charged with sexual misconduct for underaged sex.. no joke. i like in michigan and the age here is 16 but like others said it's different in each state. hope i helped!
HeY..
This week it started getting freakin cold in texas *where i live*. And my skin freaked out, it has these spots where it's dry i guess but it looks like my skin's peeling. Ha ok it doesn't look as bad as that sounded, it's really not noticable but it is in my magnifying mirror! Ne ideas of what i can use to make it go away, or not show temporarily? Foundation just makes it look worse!
i live in michigan so i know exactly what ur talking about! get a really good moisturizer. nothing to greasy. look for something that made for ur face. hope i helped! kt!