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ok i have worn uniforms for EIGHT YEARS and im sick of them. WHat can i do to bend the rules but not break them and dress up my uniform .OUr unifrom rules are pretty leniant. I rate high!!

*always carry a cute handbag!
*bows, ribbons, in hair
*belts over uniform= always hot!
*cute jewlery, rings, pearls, hot dangly noticible earrings
*get a cute messenger/book bag
*cut up your skirt to make it a MINI skirt! (haha kidding)
good luck dOLL!
xOxO, aLeX

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Ok im 14 and i never got my period. i just want someone 2 tell me what happens b4 you do

Much luv thanx

aWw Thats totally normal! and i am totally jealous of you! periods suck! if u mean before you get your period in general the beginning of puberty, you'll notice that your breasts are developing and you're starting to grow a little hair under your arms. Hair also will grow on your genitals (pubic hair).

but before you regurally get your period you will have cramps, have mood swings, bloating eTc..
hOpe i helped ya dOLL!
xOxO, aLeX

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ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken?

heY! i am a vegetarian myself! and chicken is definately meat! some poultry is considered meat! like fish and eggs are ok... evn though i dont eat them... but my friend who is a vegetarina eats them!
xOxO, aLeX

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I need help badly...ok what is the best straightner?? I have Shoulder length wavy hair, and i don't wan any combonations of Crimpers...and my price range is up to $35 dollars...and does anybody know any really good crimpers ethier but remeber no combos!
I RATE 5's!

hEY! i usEd 2 hAVe a starighner from taRget... and it was revlon vidal sassoon... ceramic.. it heats up quickly and gets my hair super stick stright! even though its naturally wAvY! it was $30 i think... totally worth it cause i used it like everyday! my new starightner is from trade secret and kinda more expensive! but if your price range is $35... go with the Target 1... it changed my life and works wonders! hahah
xOxO, aLeX

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I know this is kind of a stupid question to ask because I shouldn't care what people think, but I'm new to my school and I want to fit in and not get made fun of so I was just wondering if Etnies and DVS shoes are just for "skaters" or what. I don't want to be called a poser - and I know I shouldnt care what people think - but like I said, I'm new and don't want to get made fun of. Thanks in advance.

they are a skater kind of shoe... but hUN! who CARes?! bE original! if your not a skater... but loves etnies or DVS shoes... then buy them! they probably look hOT anyways! part of going to a new school, you shouldnt care what other think! i'm sure you'll make a lot of friends cause your original! aNd if anyone makes fun of you... their jealous and your better then them anyways! good luck doll!
xOxO, aLeX

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I shave 'down there' and i do it because it's better for guys and if i dont shave,it'd itch really bad (even before i started shaving) So anyways i have to go to the doctors for a physical and they have to check there..what will the doctor say to me..and will they think it's ok i do?

dOctOrs tOtALLY wOnt cARE! their not intrested in how your "groomed" down there... their lookin at other stuff... LoL! tHey arE toally used 2 iT! they see hUndreds of... uMm you know... everyday aNd the doc has nO right sayin anYtHIng hUN! uR nOrmal!
xOxO, aLeX

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Ok... so i have a total guy problem! sorry if this is to long! i am 17 years old and there is this guy that works with me, but at a different location if you get what i mean. (hes 21) well we were in a parade for work and he was all over me! we were hanging out like the whole enitre time! so then he asked for my number and we hung out that night. (he had people over at his house) and we all got totally wasted... and i ended up staying over there. (just me) and i ended up doing everything but sex with him. so the next morning i left and he said that he would call me after he got done with work and he never did! then i went on vacation for a week and i came back and he didnt call me either! i dont know what happened! his friend told me i was to young for him, and i asked him and he said no. or was it because i hooked up with him? or wHy?! i totally need help... because i really like him! thanks so mUch!

hEy HUN! iM super soRRY! bUT iT seeMs Like He MaY hAVe usED u... oR mAYbe Wsant intrested... seriously... guys lOVE when girls play hard to get! so maybe he was turned off when you were so willing to be with him...! the age thing could be a difference... alot of guys want 2 wait till girls are legal 18+... maybe he was looking for a friendship and he is flirty by nature and then when you guys hooked up, he feels awkward!(dont u hate when that happens!) he probably wasnt looking for a relationship... since hes 21, college life, partying eTc... but good luck bABe! i hope i helped! and plus... there are a mILLiON guys out there for ya!
xOxO, aLeX

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Well I'm 10 years old.The longest boyfriend that i've had was for about 3 years.When we first met it was love at first site but during the third year of being together things wasn't going to well.I go to Fairview In Cullman Alabama and at my school was where we met.I'm a cheerleader,and he used to be a football player.He told me when he wrote the last letter that was sent in the mail by him it said,"His phone# was changed because of somebody who got mad at his mom."But,I think he just done that because he was breaking up with me.Email me at prettyshell31@yahoo.com
I might have more to ask you.Are u Paris Hilton?I reconised the pictures of u.If you are I'm a really big fan of yours.Talk later

wOw... ur only 10 and the longest relationship you've had has been 3 years! so u started dating at 7 or earlier?! thaTs cRAzY! tRY 2 caLL him and see if his number "before" is actually still his phone number! and then ask him for his new number... if you guys are dating it shouldnt be that big of a deal! relationships are all about honesty and openness! so ask hIM! and if he pretened to change his number to break up with you... TheN hes a DuMBAsS! and not worth your time! that would be pathetic! and yES! i am THE PARIS HILTON! thanks for being a fan! that means alot to me!
tHaTs hOT!
s.W.a.K. PARIS!
(hahahahaha)

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i need help what should i name my new puppy? like cute names. its a girl puppy

Daisy
Princess
Paris
Barbie
Cupcake
Baby
Buttercup

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what's the song called that goes "i try to go on like i never knew you" and who sings it?
thanks

InCOMPLeTe BaCKsTREET BOys!
aLL MY lOve: aLeX

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i dont tan very while and i just wanted to know any good tanning oils that like actually work. i go tanning in the winter but it like doesnt seem to work! lol so any good tips on how to get tan? i have like fair skin

hey hun! just get a good tanning lotion! the workers at the salons will help you find one thats the best for your skiN! and go frequently! if you go tanning like once a week with fair skin... your not going to get any results! you could also use mystic tan! that creates a real looking tan without the damage! celebs use it all the time! (so they dont have bad skin in the future!) and they also use self tanner... it can be tricky... with the uneveness.. but get a kind that will work well for yEW! and also brush a little bronzer on your cheekbones! hope i helped ya doLL! good luck!
aLL mY LOVe: aLEx

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I lost my class ring about a week ago BUT i never take it off and it doesn't slip either. I don't remember taking it off at all and ive looked every where. N/E advice on how i could find it?!?! yeah i know such a silly question!

THANKS
-twiSted

Theres no such thing as a silly question! i loose things all the time! isnt it sOo annoying?!
some places you could check: your bed, or under your bed, if you dont remeber taking it off, it could have somehow came off in the night or you could have taken it off in your sleep (sounds stupid i know, but i do alot of weird stuff in my sleep!) retrace your steps, check pockets, bathrooms, friends houses, in between couches random places like that!

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okay so im going to the movies wiht this guy i met through a friend(i guess you can say) on the internet ... he seems so swwet and nice..but i really want him to notice me when i see him....what are some ways for him to notice me?

hey hun! as much as you think... short skirts and bra like shirts are gonna reel him in (aHh that sounded so cheesy!) your personaltiy is really what hes going to remember! just being yourself is going to get him to think: hey shes a cool girl, i wanna hang out with him again. and also looking fabulous is a plus too! haha wear something that your going to be comfortable and confident in! be yourself... and dont let it be all about you! get to know him too! if your looking to be noticed... i reccomend the victorias secret very sexy push up bra! haha! kIddIng... (kInd oF!) good luck doll!
aLL mY LOVe: aLeX

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Well I like Rock music. Like The Used, New Found Glory, Spill Canvas, AC/DC, Lynyrd Skynyrd, and all of that.

My favorite numbers are 33(basketball) 7(lucky) 14(age)

HeY! 33 is totally my fav. number so thats cool! well... hMmm... i came up with a couple... so let me know if you need more... or if you choose one! haha! sorry if these arent 100% awesome... i did mY besT! i like when letters gO lIKe tHis... but feel free to change anything!
rOcKeR_cHiC33
xXxAcDc7xXx
rOckIN_stEaDY7
rOcKxXxeR14
theUSEDisLOVE33
alwaysROCKINxXx7
nEwfOuNdgLOrYgIrLy7
rOcKin_OUT33
aLwAysrockin14
ROCKmUsIcisLOve7
aDcD_aDDiCT33
hMm.... anyMore?!
aLL mY lOVe: aLeX

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Hey does anyone know how much a Polo, and how much a demin skirt frm Abercormei Kids would cost. Only if you've been there please, not on the site.


THanks

Hey! well abercrombie is mY faV store haha! but kids is a little cheaper... actually if you go on the site... the prices are eXaCtLY the same in the stores! not a cent off!I WORK AT ABERCROMBIE KIDS! (cause i'm only 17 and i cant work at abercrombie!) hahaha! seems like you have good style 2! (jUsT lIKe mE!) haha because i am obsessed with a&f's denim skirts and i've recently been into pOlOs!
Heres all of their denim skirts: (I loVe the Karen one!)
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10851&storeId=10101&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12150&categoryId=12150&productId=218813&langId=-1
And their polos: (which are on the bottom!)
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10851&storeId=10101&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12177&categoryId=12177&productId=221309&langId=-1

good luck doll!
aLL mY lOVe: aLeX

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Hey
I'm in need of a new screenname for AIM. I had this website and stupidly enough, I put my SN on it. So I had a buncha people I really didn't want to talk to IM me. I know that I can 'block' people, but it's not the same. I'm looking for something maybe dealing with music? Or just anything in general. Just give me anything.

I rate high.

Any ideas?
PLEASE&THANKS

hey HuN! i'd be happy to help you! but just give me some intrests... you said you like music... but if i said couNtRymUsIcLuvER haha and you like rock... then that might be different! whats your fav. numbers or more specific intrests?! drop 1 in my box if you want more help!
aLL mY lOVe: aLeX

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Hi this may sound stupid but what does eating out a girl mean. I have an idea but im not totally clear about it.
Thank You

aWw dont worry about sounding stUpid! eating out a girl is well... giving her oRaL seX! "going down on a girl" means your using your tongue to please her oRaLLY! eating out a girl sounds really sick dosent it?! haha but thats what it is!
aLL mY lOve: aLeX

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what age do most teens have sex? and how do you know when,where, and how to do it? also how do you know that your partner would like to do it too?

-needs help in texas

The average age a teenager looses his/her virginity is 17 years old. But that dosnet mean that every person has had sex at age 17. some before and some later! i would suggest talking to your partner! that way, you guys can plan out somewhere to do it... and when! casually bring it up, and if their intrested, then talk further. remember the risks though!
aLL mY LOve: aLeX

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what happens when you get raped?? im totally scared of it......HELP PLEASE!!!

rape 1
n.
1. The crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.
2. The act of seizing and carrying off by force; abduction.
3. Abusive or improper treatment; violation: a rape of justice.
tr.v. raped, rap·ing, rapes
1. To force (another person) to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse; commit rape on.
2. To seize and carry off by force.
3. To plunder or pillage.

thats basically what happens... somebody engages in sex, and it is not wanted by you... even a boyfriend could rape you! dont be scared hun! just be safe! travel with your girls and be careful who you trust!
aLL mY LOVe: aLeX

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hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac????

YES! hahaha! i'm sorry... but its true! 20 years old?! i want to be with the person i'm gonna marry by that time! and plus when you turn 18, your a legal adult.. so your parents dont have any say anyways! just be honest... try talking to them about it and if they dont compromise... say you'll go on group dates, or they'll have to meet the guy before you can go out with him or you'll give them the exact place your going, and when your gonna be back.. stuff like that will make them trust you more and maybe let you date before your 20! good luck doll!
aLL mY LOve:
aLeX

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