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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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Now we all kno that most guys like a little bit challange when it comes to girls. Well id like to know how to be that challange without totaly driving my boyfriend away.

any idea

i had the same problem some guys like a big tease others like a little bit of a tease, basicly when he tries to kiss you pull bac a little a grin then you can eather pull his hand and walk with him or kiss him , just little things that throgh him off, you can only do this next thing very few times. you can run from him try to get him to follow you . than pull him to the side and kiss him it is very fun 2 do also
hope i helped if you need anything els just ask
Andie

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Yo i need help
see i never really made out with anyone before how do i do it

its kinda hard to like tell some one how to make out but its like this kinda don't be to abruped at first like just lean in for a kiss and then move bac alittle if yall make eye contanct for more than 2-4 seconds kiss again and make it contunias after that when eather the other parter starts the tounge action or you feel confortable slowly add just a little so it doesn't freak them out . if the do it bac or let you then its usualy ok to add tounge. IF YOU HAVE ANY MORE QUESTIONS OR NEED FURTHER INSTRUCKSION ask
hope i helped
Andie

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hey my names jess....well my friends mom nd step dad went away for the night and considering were teenagers we invited a couple of boys over..well me my friend taylor nd 2 boys decided to go in the bathtub with bathingsuits on bc we were just swimmin but the girlswho house it was at took a picture of me nd one boy in the tub. her mom looked threw her camera nd found a the picture and she found another pic of my friends poisin with boys..her mom is flipping out and says she was gonna call the cops to find out what happened..im like really have a panic attack over here i know what i did was wrong but i dont know what to do...im having trouble breathing...im a very paranoid person so its really getting to me...how can i sop being nervous and make this situation better...without getting in more trouble than i should be in?

please help me!!
jess

thats a hard call but first BREATHok now that you have done that. just sit and relax ok you didn't do anything bad you didn't like have sex so thats good. but just admit you knew it was wrong and you are sorry you promise nothing even happend and you know you shouldn't have done it anyway. OR let it blow over a little before messing with it. see if her mom lightens up a little but deffinitly appolagize i know its hard to do that 2 i hate doing it but its best for the situation

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so when your on your period, where does all the blood come from? i know its 'releasing an egg' or whatever, but is the egg coming down in pieces lol? yeeeeah .. ok so just wondering about the blood.

the blood is the tissue in the uteras that has built up over the month or the time since your last period its like dead skin flushing off well out but ya knwo waht i mean the blood is cus its inside u so if u did have a baby the babe would have blood cus its inside u

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This may sound silly but, I just got a new hamster.. He is black and has a white line on his tummy. I was just wondering if anyone has any cute names for a black boy hamster that are unique.
Thankz! :)

omg ihe sounds adorable i had some hamsters when i was younger i had hamstin, teddy, fluffy, and cally any way he sounds so cute i like the name jelly been like the other girl said or maby teddy , tiffy... sorry i am not htat good at names it takes me a while to think of pet names 2 hope it helped some. Andie

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ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready?

eay just tell them to screw off ofr the nicer aprouch be like listen if yall want to go and have sex thats fine ok but if and when one of you gets pregnant i am not gona tell you i told you so cus i am noice and not the kind to shuve stuff down peopels throt and in there face. cus eventualy one will mess up and end up pregnant i know my best friend is hounger than me and she is going threw the same thing and god does it suck any way ya just tell them y or tell them you don't feel you need to explain your self its your desition so they can shuve it.

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why do thongs go up girls butts?
please answer
thank you

its easy when we wear like tite jeans or anything simi tight sometimes it shows the underwear line so thong com in handy cus there is no line easy as that. hope i helped

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does anyone use that IMVU 3D chat? is it safe for your computer like it doesn't give you a virus or anything right? if anyone on here does use it whats some cool things about it and what can you do?

i use it no it doesn't give you any viruses it may slow your comp down a little cus it takes up lots of space but its really fun you can buy pets different closes faces kinda and hair and lots and lots of stuff and the fun part is chatting you can change the back ground/ surroundings like you can be on the roof or in a coffe shop, riding horses and so on but you got to earn mony and there are little tricks to do that its lost of fun though so ya hope i helped. Andie

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this may be a little weird...but i was wondering, is it better to sleep with a bra or without one? thanks

without

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I havent had a boyfriend for like 3 months but it seems likes it been forever. I want a boyfriend bad. Is that a bad thing?

no not at all . its perfectly normal. like lots of people need to be in a relationship to be happy other just mind them eather way but every one needs a relationship every now and again

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i have a dog and she is about 4 years old. well this past week she has been acting differently and her teats have gotten bigger and her breathing has become heavier and her appetite is different than it normally is. are any of these signs of pregnancy?

ya they could be signs of pregnancy its very very possible. it look s like it is true so probably

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okay so there this guy and we have had sex a few times. and im really inlove with him so dont say anything about i should of waited. but is it possible to get pregnant if he DIDNT cum inside me or near me? oh and we used a condom PLEASE ANSWER I RATE 5's

ya there is always a posibility of it happening but unless the condom broke or something it shouldbe fine but take a pregnacy test jsut incase

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ok. ive been wanting to download FREE songs for a while now. does anyone have any idea where i can download absolutley FREE songs? ive tried limewire and bearshare, but whenever i try to go on search for those, is screws up. so i kinda need some step-by-step instructions and a website to download free songs. thanks!!!

i think therse a new one called frost wire

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ok like i have a huge probnlem. ok next week i have a vacation with my family and likemy frined invited me to go on vacation with her. my family doesnt want me coming with them on vacation but theywont let me go on vacation with my friend. i really wanna go on vacation with my friend but my parents are being retarded. they always make me feel like crap and they are only takin me on v acation with them because they have to. but tehn they dont want me to have fun ugggh!! i have no idea what to do!!!

just tell them like if yall go on vacation yall can be alown and have lots more fun not worring about me and yall can do what ever you want with out haveing to leave me behind or drag me along when its soem were only for yall and i can be with my friend so yall don't have to worrie about me be alown . hope it helps
Andie

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I don't know what exactly is wrong with me.

I've gotten 'There is no point in anything' stuck in my head. It gives me a sick feeling.

I can't trust many people nor do I believe what they say. I can't even really believe that my boyfriend cares for me.

And then I felt really bad one day because I felt like I would stop caring for him... like he said he wouldn't to me. But I know I don't think I would but I'm still too afraid of getting too attached to anyone as well.

I think my last relationship really affected me. But I'm pretty sure I'm over it.

But I feel depressed. And I know it's not the every day mood kind of term.

Since at times, I have no idea why I feel like shit.

What could I do about this?

eather ya get happy which is easyer said than done i know but like ya gotta have that one friend who you would give your life for and tell them everything and just let it out so maby it will let u trust a little more. i have a couple of those. ya well ya just gott talk it out and go out have fun and not care about anything it helps so much. hope i helped
Andie

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13/f
About 7 months ago I went into this mood where I was all pissed all the time and I was all gothic for a while and I was into all this rock music and things I even made my room black (black curtains, bedspread, area rug etc…) I was always wearing a hoodie and I was in my room from when I came home from school until I woke up to go back the next morning. Okay so about a month ago you would find me in my room (still has the black in it but I’m out of the gothic phase)…I’d still be having these mood swings and I’d just fight with someone (verbally) because I liked the way I felt when I was screaming at someone or something along that…and it was kind of weird…and then I’d lock myself in my room and blast some music. now I’m here and I still go through my stages where I’ll lock myself in my room but at times I’ll be super happy and hyper and then 5mins later I’ll be all pissed off or start thinking and go in my room be all depressed and stuff…then in a little while I’ll come out of my room and act like nothing ever happened and be happy and stuff again…I guess I was just wondering if this is something that a lot of people go through or is it like not a good thing…I mean I know constant mood swings aren’t good and fell like I cant go up to my parents and be like hey I’m havin major mood swings what do I do about it?…because when my mom found out I had anxiety she just like laughed in my face about it so I guess I’m just scared of I go to her she will do the same thing.
- thanks ( and yeah…sorry if I sound weird or crazy or something...)

omg i am was and kinda still am going threw that i love dark colors but i can be really happy 2 like i love it though so ya its totaly normal don't worry about it i think its col and better if you do go threw it cus then you get to experiance other things so ya its totaly good or normal what ever haha

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im takeing the missouri boating safty coarse and i need help with the following please help

A vessel may operate at greater than headway speed within 100 feet of which of the following?
a. a buoyed restricted area
b. an area where damage may be caused from the wake of your vessel
c. a dock or pier
d. in the traveled portion of a river or channel

The U.S. Aids to Navigation System of buoys and markers are the ____ of the waterways.
a. traffic signals
b. mooring stops
c. gathering places
d. speed markers


i am not sure but i wana say the first one is c
and the second one is d
not sure very much at all but i thought i would give it a shot
Andie

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Is there anyway to get free credits for ITunes on the web?

Anything I don't have to give out my creditcard #?

don't think thats posible sry

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Mike was one of my best guy friends. Our relationship together was going really good,and nothing was akward. I know that he used to have the hotts for me but i never felt the same way. Well as time went on i started to like the guy, and made the mistake of telling him. When he found out everything between us became akward. Now he has a girl friend and we havent talked in about two months!! Ok im going crazy! What the heck did i do wrong! or what can i do to make things normal between us again?

i did the same thing but more of a psyco stalker way ha ha so he sais but i didn't any way just be like i know things are wiered bettween us but i think it would be better for us to befriends cus i miss tlaking to you and stuff not in a alike you way just a i miss you as a friend way. hope i helped some what
Andie

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well last night we went out because it was my friend's birthday and i met pitbull (i live in miami). there was this guy there and he didn't have his camera with him so i threw the picture of him. he had this friend thats super cute. the boy i threw the picture of calls me this morning for the pic and to tell me his friend likes me and thinks im cute. i got his myspace... but i kinda want him to add me... auno... i dont wanna look desperate and + my mom is super into like everything i do and she says not to add him, to wait for him to add me. i just wanna get in contact with him.. but kind of in a way where i was part of it, but kinda not... im sure most girls noe what i mean. ideas? thank you

talk to the friend that told u he liked u and then tell him to tell the other guy like hey ya know she has myspace ya should totaly add her. she digs ya 2 ya know.
so hope i helped alittle
Andie

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