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13/f
About 7 months ago I went into this mood where I was all pissed all the time and I was all gothic for a while and I was into all this rock music and things I even made my room black (black curtains, bedspread, area rug etc…) I was always wearing a hoodie and I was in my room from when I came home from school until I woke up to go back the next morning. Okay so about a month ago you would find me in my room (still has the black in it but I’m out of the gothic phase)…I’d still be having these mood swings and I’d just fight with someone (verbally) because I liked the way I felt when I was screaming at someone or something along that…and it was kind of weird…and then I’d lock myself in my room and blast some music. now I’m here and I still go through my stages where I’ll lock myself in my room but at times I’ll be super happy and hyper and then 5mins later I’ll be all pissed off or start thinking and go in my room be all depressed and stuff…then in a little while I’ll come out of my room and act like nothing ever happened and be happy and stuff again…I guess I was just wondering if this is something that a lot of people go through or is it like not a good thing…I mean I know constant mood swings aren’t good and fell like I cant go up to my parents and be like hey I’m havin major mood swings what do I do about it?…because when my mom found out I had anxiety she just like laughed in my face about it so I guess I’m just scared of I go to her she will do the same thing.
- thanks ( and yeah…sorry if I sound weird or crazy or something...)
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alot of people seem to be able to relate to this question but there is nothing wrong with being gothic it is jus the way you see it some people do it to "rebel" some do it because they dont get love from their parents and some just want attention black is not a bad color to some people it is a happy color because black is the shadow of everything you and me and everyone else if you like screaming go for it maybe you like fighting you could possibly have bipolar disease which is most often the case and if you cant feel you can talk to your parents about it then that means you feel like they dont give you as much attention as they need to because if they did you would not have a problem going to them jus to let you know hunny if everybody was perfect we wouldnt be here advising you so your problems make us feel needed so if theres anything you want to ask me or any other advisor just feel free to ask or you could always IM me on my screen name which you can find at my column so dont ever feel that you are alone because we are here for you and if someone isnt weird these days they arent normal
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~Alex~
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Wow...I have found my equal. I have major mood swings too, and I'm 13/f. Gets me into trouble with my parents. But you're a normal teen, so this is normal. Going through those "stages", (you know like puberty and adolescence) you're bound to be happy then angry. Your not crazy, or troubled, and you don't have problems. And for going gothic, another stage of life. Having teachers who are just becoming adults, like they're in their 20's, you should hear their stories. My art teacher for example. She said how she went from prep to gothic to emo to one of those people who pierce themselves in weird places. Not everyone is like you and me. My cousin is completely good, and she's 15. But then again, her mother would kick her out if she behaved like us, and I can tell, my cousin is holding back from her true self. But back to you. Sorry to go into people from my own life, I was just trying to give you some examples. You'll grow out of your mood swings. Who knows, you may be a prep when you're 14. I'm not saying you will. But just be yourself and don't hold back. If you try to be good, then you're gonna blow up. Be yourself. If you feel like arguing, argue.
Hope I helped!
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ok, so yeah this is normal teenage stuff,but i have a friend who is the same way, one day she will be EXTREMELY happy and then like 5 minutes later she doesnt want to talk to you. I would have to say that if this continues and doesn't get any better i would go to a doctor for a chemical imbalance.You can get medicine and it will calm you down. Stress could be a big issue though, i would try to a avoid too much drama, yes, its hard, but im sure you can do it. And as for your mom, if this is serious you really should talk to her and let her know that this is something serious. hopefully she will understand.
hope i could help. good luck and much girl power to ya,
=] mts*
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It's normal teenage stuff. Yor 13 so your going through all kinds of changes. i was really horrible between the ages of 13 and 16, mood swings, shouting, swearing, being really nasty to my mum. it's just normal, don't worry x
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omg i am was and kinda still am going threw that i love dark colors but i can be really happy 2 like i love it though so ya its totaly normal don't worry about it i think its col and better if you do go threw it cus then you get to experiance other things so ya its totaly good or normal what ever haha
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You don't sound crazy. You are a normal teen.
You have hormones a plenty and they are playing havoc with your moods. It will level out sooner or later.
They only time you need worry about depression is if it comes on and just does not leave. You will have some but normal is when it comes and goes as yours does. :)
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