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im soo nervous
hey my names jess....well my friends mom nd step dad went away for the night and considering were teenagers we invited a couple of boys over..well me my friend taylor nd 2 boys decided to go in the bathtub with bathingsuits on bc we were just swimmin but the girlswho house it was at took a picture of me nd one boy in the tub. her mom looked threw her camera nd found a the picture and she found another pic of my friends poisin with boys..her mom is flipping out and says she was gonna call the cops to find out what happened..im like really have a panic attack over here i know what i did was wrong but i dont know what to do...im having trouble breathing...im a very paranoid person so its really getting to me...how can i sop being nervous and make this situation better...without getting in more trouble than i should be in?
please help me!!
jess
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you didnt do anything illegal so there is no need to be worried when her mom calls the cops. the only thing that could happen is that she would call your parents. sure you might be grounded for a while but oh well. if you feel guilty then go to your mom and tell her what you did. that should make you feel better.
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Try calming down,tell someone about it that can help you,have your back,apologize to her about the incident,that it won't happen again,try to come with a good explanation about it,that she doesn't have to call the cops because nothing further than posing for the camera happened so she doesn't have to go to extreme measures like that, to give you a second chance, and that if she does she won't regret it at all.
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I don't really understand the big deal. I'm guessing you're at least in your early teens so sitting in a bathtub in a bathing suit with a guy is nooot a big deal. Posing for a photo with a guy is even less so. No-one can do a damn thing to you for doing it with the possible exception of your parents who may well freak out at the idea of their little girl being in any kind of close contact with a boy and ground you or something.
If you're worried tell your parents before your friend's mum does. It'll at least show you're honest and you get a chance to explain the situation and that nothing else happened before it gets blown all out of proportion by this woman's overreaction.
I know stuff like this seems like a cardinal sin at the time but you're growing up and everybody's going to have to learn to deal with that. So long as you're responsible and take care of yourself there's nothing wrong with having a laugh at a party, even shock horror, with boys.
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thats a hard call but first BREATHok now that you have done that. just sit and relax ok you didn't do anything bad you didn't like have sex so thats good. but just admit you knew it was wrong and you are sorry you promise nothing even happend and you know you shouldn't have done it anyway. OR let it blow over a little before messing with it. see if her mom lightens up a little but deffinitly appolagize i know its hard to do that 2 i hate doing it but its best for the situation
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It does not sound like any of you did anything illegal. The police are going to tell her to deal with this on her own unless the boys were alot older then you (obviously well above 18).
The worst thing that could happen is that she will call your parents, so I wouldn't worry about it. Your parents would be angry but they will get over it.
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