Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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what do you talk about (link)
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hey!
Thats an interesting question. It's funny I didnt read the title and I was like what do you talk about... huh? and that I was like Ohhhh!
Well I'm trying to think about what I usually talk about while I'm in the movie theatre. Maybe talk about what the last movie you saw was and see whether or not the other person has seen that one, or talk about what movies you want to see in the future.
You can always do what my friends and I do when we're in the the movie theatre, or in public generally... make fun of whomevers around us, but maybe you're not that type of person :P.
Talk about what you did that day, or what you're going to do tomorrow.
Talk about whose in the movie and what other movies they were in.
I can see why you asked this question, it's actually kinda hard, and I talk a lot (like ALOT).
You can always talk about things that have absolutely nothing to do with movies I guess, like sports or stuff at school/ work.
I think that the most important thing, is if there are any awkward silences, just act calmly, and don't make a huge deal of filling them, just look around a little bit or watch one of the previews.
I think that should answer your question. I hope I helped, and thanks for asking me your question! Love ya,
Angie91
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is it possible to have music downloaded from limewire go directly to your windows media player library? and if it is, how do you do it? (link)
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Hey!
Yeah actually it is, It wont go by playlist or anything like in Limewire, but what you do, is go to windows media player and go to tools, then go down to search computer for media, I think the short cut is F3 and then it will ask you if you want to search your computer click yes and it will scan the computer for the files and pick up all the ones on limewire, then everytime you download a new song off limewire, press F3 or whatever on windows media and it should be added to your media library.
Hope that helps, Love ya,
angie91
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I didn't get this joke.Please explain it to me.
http://www.stripcreator.com/comics/ladyjdotnet/375729 (link)
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Hey!
The woman is like in a good mood, and then the pirate shows up and he's like an annalogy to her period, so he makes her want like chocolate chips or salty things, because most women crave those during their period.
It's not really that funny, but it's kinda true.
Hope that helps, love ya,
Angie91
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what are the some songs that are like
*you and me - lifehouse
*stickwitu - PCD
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as in cute love songs???
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Hey!
Oh man she got so many of the ones I wanted to tell you.:P so I'l emphasize my favs, the tim Mcgraw ones are good, so is the brad paisley one.
"Cry" by mandy moore is cute
i dont remember if she said "love you out loud", by rascle flatts, but that one rules *****
"Just to "see you smile"-tim Mcgraw I love that one *****
"I got a feeling" - billy currington
"we danced" another brad paisly one and "wrapped around her finger" which again is brad paisly *****
"Strawberry wine" deana carter
"once you've loved somebody"- dixie chicks
"every little thing she does" John mayer
"you had me at hello" kenny chesney
"third grade romance" Kenny chesney
"once in a life time love" Keith urban
"my front poarch looking in" Lonestar
"gallery" mario
K I know she mentioned some tim mcgraw stuff, but he's my fave so I'll re mention them :P
"some things never change" *****
"please remember me"
"she never lets it go to her heart"
"one boy, one girl"
" dont take the girl" *****
"you had me at hello" is good too, but I dont remember who its by
Thats pretty good, if I think of anything else I'll edit my answer and add it in. Hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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So i like this kid Bob, and hes a total ass to me. So why do i like him? (link)
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Hey!
I'm not a science geek, don't even think I am, lmao, but I know theres a scientific reason you're attracted to the people you are attracted to, and it's called pheromones and basically it's like how you smell, sorta, and guys are atracted to certain girls pheromones, and girls are attracted to certain guys pheromones. So you may be really attracted to an idiot, but you like him for his smell, sorta, :P. And the one person was right too, it may also be his looks rather than his personality.
Another thing could be, remember when you were little and the guys who liked you pulled your hair and made fun of you, well theres always the possibilty that he likes you and thats why he treats you liek dirt. Guys can be complicated :P.
Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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so ive been going out with ym boyfriend for a year and were really close. but his brother kinda sayas really perverted thinggs to me when hes not around and one time he didnt rape me but he sat on me and fingered me and i was biting him but he wouldnt get off. and he got inside me but i dont think it was rape. its really uncomfortable going over his house but he always asks me too. i dont wanna tell him but idk what to do help please. (link)
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Hey!
If something makes you uncomfortable, as that did, then you can't let yourself be endangered. I would tell your boyfriend what happened and tell him that you still want to go out with him and stuff, but you cant go and put yourself in danger any more. And I read the other persons comment, and I think she's right. You probably should talk to someone about this, like your parents, because shes right it was sexual abuse and it was against your will, but thats up to you. I think the most important thing to do though is tell your boyfriend. You don't want him to think that you dont want to go over there because of him when really it's his brother.
I hope I helped, and remember that not all guys are like that, and your boyfriend is probably a much better guy.
Love ya,
angie91
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what do you talk about on dates... and where is a good first date. (link)
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Hey!
First dates are the time where you get to know the most about another person. This is what defines whether or not you two are going to go out on more dates and whether or not you like the other persons personality. So you need to find ways to bring out the best parts of your personality.
Come up with 20 questions that you want to try and get the answer to by the end of the night, you probably wont need them, but it's better to be more prepared some example questions would be like:
Whats your fave colour
what kind of music do you like
do you have any siblings
Do you have any pets
what do you want to be (like as a career)
whats your fave movie
as far as a good first date, the classic is dinner and a movie, and I like that idea, because if you just to dinner, it can be short but if you just do a movie you dont get to talk and get to know more intimate stuff about the other person.
Other good first dates are shopping at the mall, or going to a sports game. Because you can talk and do something fun.
Hope that answers your question, love ya,
Angie91
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I still like Rhodri alot but I can't take it anymore. I really want to get over him so I can move on and like someone else. The problem is when I stop liking him he'll do something sweet or funny or wont leave me alone and ill like him all over again. Do you know anyway I can just stop liking him, im sick of people saying we look like a couple or people saying Mary loves Rhodri but who would ever love Mary. im popular but hes more than me. We are pretty good friends but sometimes I wish we didnt know eachother. I think and dream about him every night and it drives me insane to like him. (link)
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Hey!
Because this answer has two parts, I'm just going to reject the other one, I'm just telling you, because I would hate if my question was rejected :P.
Well first of all, thank you for chosing me for your question, I try really hard to give excellent advice, and I like the feedback, because it helps me to be better.
Well this is definitely a crush, but every situation is different, and this one is especially ifferent because he's your friend. I think that one of the reason he ignores people that tellhim they like him, is that he thinks that if he's a jerk, then they'll give up and move on, and because you're still young and kinda new at this stuff, I think you should go for it. Tell him how you feel. This way you'll know how it feels, and yeah it will definitely hurt alittle bit, but it's part of the process, and you have to think of it like sports, say you like baseball, you know if you slide to that base, you'll hurt yourself, but if you stay at the base you're at you'll never move on.
So theres two ways this could go, you could move on from the situation and everything will be the same, or it will be super awkward.
Now about the people talking, they're idiots, you're an awesome person, and lots of people love you. I don't know for sure that Rhodri does, but someone does/will. So don't let them get to you, they're probably just jealous of the relationship you have with Rhodri.
I know that right now it feels kinda insane and you just want to be his friend and move on at the same time, but that doesnt really work that well, because you've noticed, you want to stop likeing him, but he'll say something sweet and I know how that can be.
Okay, well there are alot of steps to moving on, and you probably should follow them in order, but because this is a friendship type relationship, I think you should just skip down to the last one, and find a guy. People say it's impossible to create a crush on someone, but it's totally not. So pick a hot guy, and develop a crush on him. So yeah some of the dreams you'll have at night will be about Rhodri, but try and focus your day dreams on the new guy. If you concentrate on something else (or in this case someone else) it can help you to forget some of the feelings about Rhodri.
But on the downside, I've had a on and of crush on a guy since the 6th grade, so crushs don't just disapear. If you try to move on though (which means takeing the steps and telling him how you feel), you will get to a place where you can be in the same place at him without feeling badly.
Try that, and let me know how it goes, if you need more help, I'm here for you, I have all the moving on tips, so if this one doesnt work, we can follow them in order okay? Good luck, this is a sucky situation, but you're not the only one going through it, and remember you're an awesome person no matter what anyone says!
Love ya,
angie91
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ok im a 16/f im struggling with school.. i bring home an f like everday... and also i still like my xboyfriend and he was my first b/f we made up and everything but we don't talk much.. and i feel like my whole world is faling apart and i feel depressed all the time... help what should i do? (link)
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Hey!
It looks like its one of those times where life is just totall sucking eh? Well we can get you through this.
As far as the first bit, the F's that sucks. Last semester I had math and I had a horrible mark, and I just tried really hard, tell your parents that you are going to try hard, but you need some support, and see if they can help with that.
Talk to your teachers, and set up times to ask them for help. Tell them you're totally serious you want to get your act together and you really need their help. Take time to study each night, even if you dont have homework, study ahead so that way when you get to a test you can actually be prepared (I'm horrible for that lol)
As far as the exboyfriend thing, I have alot of moving on tips, if you want them let me know.
I think the biggest thing right now, is get your mind straight, right now life isnt going so great, but it will get better, you just need to try and think positively and concentraite on the good rather than the bad. When you're depressed think about five great things that are going on in your life right now. Whenever I wake up in the morning and I'm like god I have to go to school I say well at least I get to see my friends, at least I dont have any tests today, at least its friday you know what I mean?
Those are just a few pointers, but I don't want to make this super long, so let me know if you need anything else. Hoep I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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i have a friend and it is her birthday soon, but she hasn't even invited me and her party is tomorrow. :[ im really bummed out because we are friends.. its gonna be a really big party and it kinda hurts my feelings... what do to not feel so left out? :[[ (link)
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hey!
When my friend didnt invite me to her birthday, my other friend got really upset and wouldnt stop talking about how she wasnt invited, and I just told her to chill. WE went to a movie with a bunch of friends and I forget when the day even was because we spent the entire time having fun. And the most important thing is to not hold a grudge. Invite her to your party and forget about all the past focus on tha future, and thats what you need to do for tomorrow, plan something, and when ever you find yourself thinking about how someone else is having more fun at your friends party remember that you wont be invited to all the parties so it's important to focus on the fun you're having now in the present and not what you're not doing with your friends. If you focus your entire life on things that you're not included in, then life will feel really sucky, but if you live life in the present and think about the fun you're having, it'll all be okay.
Feel better, there will always be otehr parties. Hopefully you find something awesome to do tomorrow instead and if not, watch a movie at home and just think that next time you'll be included. Hope I helped, love ya,
angie91
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okay, so i dont go to your school and i dont know you but i saw you give really good advice.. so my best friend in the world i really popular, so am i... but i never feel as good as her, and i always feel like people are trying to take her away from me... people say like youre obsessed w/ her, she says i'm not but i wonder if she thinks i am or something, and i dont know how to not be worried, i dont want to be annoying to her or anything, but i'm really unsure of how to like be her best friend and not be scared that people are gonna take her away from me.. please just help! (link)
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Hey!
Well thanks for the complitment, I don't if I'm that good at giving advice, but I try hard to help people.
I've never been in your situation before, but I can understand how you feel. Sometimes people feel that way and they don't even know why, like it's just a worry they have for no real reason, but sometimes there is a real reason. So the first thing to do I guess would be to figure out what that reason is, if there is one. Like have you lost friends in the past, and so that gives you the fear that you will lose more friends? Because if it's something that is liek underlying and in your subconcious, then it may be harder to get over than you would think.
If it's not that big of a deal, then just start by when you're hanging out with multiple friends and your best friend, try and branch off and talk mostly to the other friends, like don't igonre your friend just try and talk to other people.
Then you have to stop feeling liek she's better than you. Thats a tough one, it's more of a self confidence issue, you just need to know that you are an awesome person, and yeah shes awesome too, but you're better and you know it. Don't go by how many friends you have or how great your relationships are with all these people, just go by yourself, and how great you are.
Remember, that if she is a really great friend, she isnt going to let people take her away from you, and if she does, shes not as great of a friend as you would think. I think that it's all about how you think about the siuation, if you just try and focus on the now, and try and stop obsessing (which I know can be hard, I have major OCD) about what may or may not happen, then you will have a better quality of life. If you're worried about losing this friend then branch out and meet new people make more than one best friend, then you always have a back up plan, and your friend will be feeling the way you feel rather than the other way around, if those don't work let me know and I'll try and think of some other ways to help you solve this problem.
Thank you for asking me your question, I'm glad I look like that type of person, because I strive so hard to be that way and it's good that you noticed. I hope I answered your question, but if I didn't feel free to ask another. Good luck and remember you're an awesome person, and friendships don't make you who you are, they only shape the person you'll become.
Love ya,
Angie91
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is there gonna be another season of zoey 101?
if so...when?! (link)
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hey,
go to IMDB and type in zoey 101. It tells you all the facts about the seasons and everything else you need to know about a television show or movie. It also has dates and information on the different actors and actrices.
Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
www.IMDB.com
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wel im 19 and trying out for a job as a secretary. these jobs are veri high paying. i have been to 5 interviews so far, the first one fell through even tho i thort i was really good but apparently he wanted more. so in the next one i gave the boss a blowjob (he had already promised i would get the job if i did), but he went against his word and didnt. the next two bosses i did the same, and did it to comletion like before, but they kept going against their word and not giving me the job. the last guy i had sex with, thinking other girls would probably have done that, but he still refused after. what am i doing wrong?! help. (link)
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Hey!
I think that you are an awesome secretary, and if you lower your standards and sleep with your future bosses, you are telling them that they can use you and take advantage of you. Then if you get the job they will just expect that you will do anything that they want. And I think that you are above that. I think that you should go into your next interview in your best clothing, looking like you mean business, and if you don't get the job, then they're idiots. You will get a job, and you don't need to lower yourself to that level to get it. In fact, the men who take advantage of you liek that are less likely to use you as a secretary, because they've already gotten what they want from you, and if they do anything while you work for them, they could go to court. So If you want a job, I would say, don't do anything, just try hard, and if that doesnt work, try for some other jobs to beef up your resume. Hope I helped, remeber you're better than this! Love ya,
Angie91
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14/f. I happen to drink about 3 glasses of orange juice everyday. How is this good for me? (link)
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Hey!
Well orange juice has a lot of great aspects. Theres a lot of calcium and vitamin C in it, but theres, also a lot of sugar. So if you want to further enhance your diet substitue one of those glasses for water and you'll be even better. But other than that it probably is really good for you depending on the brand of juice.
Hope I helped,
Love ya,
Angie91
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i have looked everywhere for this song and i can't find it anywhere. on limewire i try to download it and every source i pick doesn't work. does anyone know where i can find it? (link)
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hmm thats weird I downloaded it off limewire. Did you try typing in that it's by the beatles. Try just downloading it and then press find more sources. and the be patient
Hope that helps.
Love ya
angie91
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Broke up on April 23, 2007
Relationship lasted for 3 months (since January 16, 2007)
He began not acting like a boyfriend as in not walking with me, hardly talking to me, over all he ignored me.
His reason for breaking up: Computers && Videogames [WTF?!?!?!!?!?]
Now me, i took our relationship too seriously and unfortunately i really fell for him even though my friends warned me not to take it too seriously cause he's like a kid you know into video games and stuff .. not all that mature yet.
My problem is that i can't get over him. Worst part, we're in the same class so i have to see him everyday. I also get a feeling that i might be able to get over him but i just choose not to.
Help me please! Thanks! =] (link)
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Hey!
Well you've come to the right place, I'm the expert on getting over guys.
well, first of all, theres always the chance you're right. You may not want to get over him yet, but that will come with time. Getting over someone is a process, it takes a long time, but you just have to take the steps, and our first goal is to get you to a point where you can be in the same room as him and not feel so bad
So the first thing to do is decide why you cant get over him, do you think there is any chance you would want to get back with him. If there is, then you never will get over him. You cant get over him until you know theres nothing stopping you.
Then get involved in something else. Find a new sport or volunteer somewhere, this will help you to get involved and find something to mark your achevement, watch yourself grow and change to a point where you can look back onto this situation and realize that you're better than him, and you don't need him anymore.
Then make a day for you and your friends, and try and do something different each week, make it places where you definitely wont find your boyfriend that way theres no chance of running into him.
Then make a me day. Do things that relax you and help you to concentrate on your needs.
Find things that you couldnt do with him and do them.
Set a range of goals to better yourself, and whenever you complete one, knwo that you are growing into a better person, and reward yourself for it.
Those all might not seem liek they are going to help, but they will, they get you changing into a better person, and this experience can go from one you remember as something that makes you feel horrible to something that you can attribute to all these good things.
The next step is moving on. Now you probably arent ready for a new boyfriend, and you'll know when you are, so for right now, you just need to find a new relationship with a guy. Find a friend in a guy. A new friendship, or an old one that just needs to be worked on. This will help you to remember that all guys arent pigs.
Then find a guy you want more with. Maybe it's the guy who sits beside you in science class, and just think about him. Develop a crush. And then when you want to move on, you've got an awesome chance. (don't pick someone who you would never go out with, or has a girlfriend. Thats just trouble).
Amd in class with your ex, try and find other things to concentrate on, like oh I dunno, the teacher (:P).
One day, you will have to talk to him about this situation, but theres no point in trying to talk to him now. A lot of people make the mistake of talking to their exs on a regular basis, trying to make it not seem weird, but it is weird. Theres no point avoiding it. It's a strange situation. And it wil be awkward, but for a bit it just has to be like that.
That should get you started, if those tips don't work, and you've given them all a chance, let me know, I've got more and I don't mind helping you out. Love ya and good luck,
Angie91
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see, theres this boy, hes like one of my best friends, and well ive known him for about 3 years, and ive liked him for about 2 years, and he likes me...
but theres this other boy, and he likes me too, and hes like my perfect match, were exactly alike, we like the same things, and all this great stuff..
but.. what should i do?
best friend, or perfect match. (link)
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Hey!
Well first of all you're pretty lucky, you've got two awesome guys who both want you. So heres what you have to do, you have to listen to your heart and pick which everyone feels right. Yeah, that will be tough, but you know them and you know which one is right. Yeah we could tell you, that would make life alot easier, and you'd have someone to blame if it gets all messed up, but you just have to go with the one you feel more secure with. Do the pros and cons, if you still don't feel like one is better than the other, toss a coin. If you get that feeling liek the coins wrong, then you know in you're heart who the real choice is.
I hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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What are some suggetions for getting rid of a bad habit? (link)
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I was totally going to suggest the one melissa did. If you give yourself motivation not to do something, you're more likely not to do it. There are a lot of different things that work, but it really depends on the bad habit. If you want to diet, puting up motivational pictures on refridgerators or cupboad doors helps. If you want to quit getting bad grades set time aside for studing and reward yourself afterward. I have a billion ideas, but it would be easier if you gave me a bit of information about the bad habit. If you need some help, I've got ya covered. Hope I helped alittle bit, love ya,
Angie91
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What are some songs about these topics
*Getting a new boyfrined
*Falling In love
*First Kiss
Yes, and just bascily being in love and everytihng. Recent, songs please? Not like, Oldies, Haha. Thanks! (link)
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hey!
~Love you out loud
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im a girl age 14 turning 15 and well all the guys say i play hard to get and everytime i hang out with guys theres always at least one guy thats like lets do stuff or something and i wont do it and untill maybee laterr and i was wondering do guys like when girls play hard to get? please tell me.
--angie (link)
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hey Angie!
Well there are two types of guys out there, patient and impatient. If you get one who wants to go out with you now, and you're like maybe later, and he trys again and you're like oh I'm busy, then he thinks you don't like him and moves on. And that would suck right? So I think that a rule of thumb for playing hard to get is only once. If you say that you're busy the first time, the second time say yeah that'd be cool. Otherwise you'll lose half the awesome guys.
Yeah you might make the guys who are patient and want the hard to get girls, think yopu're too easy, but if you try and object once the second time should be okay. Everyone says third times a charm, but some guys wil ditch by then, hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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