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bad bosses. please help!
wel im 19 and trying out for a job as a secretary. these jobs are veri high paying. i have been to 5 interviews so far, the first one fell through even tho i thort i was really good but apparently he wanted more. so in the next one i gave the boss a blowjob (he had already promised i would get the job if i did), but he went against his word and didnt. the next two bosses i did the same, and did it to comletion like before, but they kept going against their word and not giving me the job. the last guy i had sex with, thinking other girls would probably have done that, but he still refused after. what am i doing wrong?! help.
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You need to have pride in yourself and not do those kind of sexual acts for some pervert. Dont do anything like that again..be professional. If they ask for a sexual favor..walk out and even report itt to the police. That is disgusting. Even if the guy asks for a sexual act and i say no..and even if i get the job i wouldnt take it because i wouldnt want to be around a scum like that. You desserve better than that. Keep looking for jobs..but do nottt do sexual things for these idiots. Keep your pride and respect ffor yourself high..be professional..and you will get a job.
-melissa-
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What are you doing wrong? Any above-board career opportunity does not require a blowjob as an interview exam. By giving sexual favors, you have hurt yourself as a serious candidate for employment. People do not give seuxal favors in order to get a job!
If someone hires you after getting sexual favors from you, he then opens things up so you may demand a continuing relationship, further favors like a company car, or whatever. By not hiring you now, he doesn't have to worry that you'll get ticked off later, when there's more evidence, and go to his boss or his wife.
What I suggest you do is get real skills. If you already have real skills, keep job interviews focused on your qualifications. I'm not a preacher and I definitely think that most people have to define morality for themselves, so I won't lecture you about how wrong it is to trade sex for favors, but I will tell you that when something is so clearly not working in your life it's time to rethink your approach.
Maybe you could take college classes and aspire to be something other than an administrative assistant, even.
Sabine
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Hey!
I think that you are an awesome secretary, and if you lower your standards and sleep with your future bosses, you are telling them that they can use you and take advantage of you. Then if you get the job they will just expect that you will do anything that they want. And I think that you are above that. I think that you should go into your next interview in your best clothing, looking like you mean business, and if you don't get the job, then they're idiots. You will get a job, and you don't need to lower yourself to that level to get it. In fact, the men who take advantage of you liek that are less likely to use you as a secretary, because they've already gotten what they want from you, and if they do anything while you work for them, they could go to court. So If you want a job, I would say, don't do anything, just try hard, and if that doesnt work, try for some other jobs to beef up your resume. Hope I helped, remeber you're better than this! Love ya,
Angie91
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