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i have a friend and it is her birthday soon, but she hasn't even invited me and her party is tomorrow. :[ im really bummed out because we are friends.. its gonna be a really big party and it kinda hurts my feelings... what do to not feel so left out? :[[
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You could check with her to make sure that she isn't just assuming that you WILL come. Saying something like "I want to know what to bring to your birthday party" lets her know that YOU, at least, are thinking about your friendship.
However, if she really meant to leave you out, recognize it and just let it go. Friends come and go -- but your self-respect stays forever.
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hey!
When my friend didnt invite me to her birthday, my other friend got really upset and wouldnt stop talking about how she wasnt invited, and I just told her to chill. WE went to a movie with a bunch of friends and I forget when the day even was because we spent the entire time having fun. And the most important thing is to not hold a grudge. Invite her to your party and forget about all the past focus on tha future, and thats what you need to do for tomorrow, plan something, and when ever you find yourself thinking about how someone else is having more fun at your friends party remember that you wont be invited to all the parties so it's important to focus on the fun you're having now in the present and not what you're not doing with your friends. If you focus your entire life on things that you're not included in, then life will feel really sucky, but if you live life in the present and think about the fun you're having, it'll all be okay.
Feel better, there will always be otehr parties. Hopefully you find something awesome to do tomorrow instead and if not, watch a movie at home and just think that next time you'll be included. Hope I helped, love ya,
angie91
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mabye she just think since yall are friends she doesnt need to invite you because she thinks your gonna come anyway. but if thats not the case call her tomorrow and be like i wanted to wish you a happy birthday. how is the party going? and then mabye shell be like you should come by and if she doesnt then mabye its a party for her friends that shes been friends with for a long time. hope i helped
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