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I'm Bekki. I'm 19. Ask me anything! I'll give you my honest opinion. :)
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i have this really good friend but lately she has been acting different. she says she cuts but i dont know if she is lying because i do cut or she really does. i asked her what she "cut" with and she said i dont remember and she like never has any marks on her. I would like a second opinion because she wont tell me if she is lying or not and i think she is.
well people can cut other places besides their wrists...I've heard of people cutting on their stomachs or legs..so unless you've seen ALL of her body i wouldnt be so sure yet...and i would say that wether shes lying or not..saying shes a cutter is a cry for help...i would tell her parents or something..i know it seems like the most "uncool" thing to do but believe me..one day your friend will thank you..i used to be suicidal and for the longest time i hated my friend for telling our school counsler...but i hate myself even more for ever wishing i was dead because i would have missed out on so much...but like i said..you seriously need to have a talk with your friend..just sit her down and explain that you really care about her safety and her and that if shes lying she should stop..talk to her first..and then if you find out its true..NO MATTER WHAT or no matter how many times she begs you NOT to tell....DO tell...would you really want your friend dead?
Here's a few websites you can go to for more professional help:
http://www.psycom.net/depression.central.suicide.html
http://www.afsp.org/index-1.htm
http://www.save.org/
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/whattodo.htm
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
i really like this guy, and all my friends say he likes me because he flirts with me. WE wrote notes in class, and we talk on the phone pretty much every night, and we hung out one time alone with each other. Everyone is telling me he likes me because he flirts with me, but i have a hard time belieing that he actually does. If somebody flirts with you does that mean they like you, and does this guy seem like he would like me? Thanks!!
you know...it seems like he does like you...but ive been thru a small dilema like this and he COULD be just acting nice to you...thats how guys are..I think the only way to really find out is to go for it and ask him (WHEN YOUR ALONE!! BIG MISTAKE IF YOU ASK IN A HUGE GROUP!) just ask him straight up. tell him youve been gettin some vibes and then just ask if he likes you...yeah it'll be embarassing if he says no but just play it cool. if he does say no a few things you could say would be "oh really? thats okay i dont like you like that either" or something like "alright thats cool i was just makin sure" but whatever you do, dont get upset. Hope i helped and good luck!
okay...i have my end of the year swimming party on monday (today is thursday) and I just got my period. Usually my periods are 3-4 days long...so it is perfect timing in a sense. BUT on Monday I am worried that while I'm at the pool in my bathing suit i'll have a disgusting stain or something. I've never used tampons before but I am ready to start. What my question is...what can I do to have fun at the party while still not having any problems with my period? I need an answer asap! thanks
trust me on this one...i've been thru this...tampons work...just follow the instructions on the side of the box or w.e and your set to go! it may not feel right at first but after awhile you'll get used to it! hope i helped
okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing!
well honestly i think ALL girls do it! wether they tell you they dont or not! i know i do it all the time and i thought i was the only one...but i dont think you should stop i mean no matter what i think all girls will always do it...but if you dont want anyone thinking your a lesbian you dont want to say anything outloud...or if your admiring something like boobs or a girls butt just do it secretly like dont stare but glance if you dont want anyone (especially her to notice) its always worked for me! hope i helped
I have circles under my eyes and they look terrible. Please,dose anyone no websites or a simple home made solution for it?[[or something you could by at CVS along those lines..]]
you know...concealer works really really really good! im almost positive cvs or walgreens...dollarmart...big lots..all those have concealer...for dark circles you want the YELLOW conclear but if you ever get a blemish you want to hide...a lil tip...there is green concealer too but for dark circles like i said you want YELLOW! and make sure if its like a cream type thing you blend it in really really good! hope i helped
hey im chelsie i have my own advice colum but im really into the playboy thing!! i have everything playboy!!(in my room) i was wondering where u got ur bak dround ir eally like it!!
thanx*chelsie*
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ohhh god! thankx for droppin by!! but i cannot remember the slightest bit as to where i got that background!!!!!!! If you want me to I can find it some how! Or maybe if you have AIM or MSN i can send it to you there im sorry!!
Well iive had my screen name for a while and i was wonderin if anyone had any good ideas for a screen name! ok here are my interests
im girly
i like pink
my name is bryttnii
my nicknames are brittzee and britty or brytt
if u can just give me a list of cute s/ns thanx!
pinkispriss04
totallybrytt
brittzeeloop
adorkable_brytt
QTpie_britty
girly_pimp_in_pink
lol! hope i helped!!!!
this is to all the girls is it norrmal to masterbate, if i dont am i weird, i mean is it like the guys if u dont jack off ur gay
hells yeah its completely normal to do that!!!!!!!!!!!! everyone does!!!!! most of the girls just wont admit it but a fairly good amount of girls in the US does!!! Its even normal NOT to do it!! its like voting...its ur OWN opinion!!!! YOU ARE COMPLETELY NORMAL!!!!! and i dunno where u heard the thing about the guys! but just because you dont masturbate doesnt mean your gay in any way at all!! hope i helped
Wats some good websites that are free that have really good games that are really fun
I hope ur a girl!!!! cuz theres this website i go to its called www.myjellybean.com its got EVERYTHING like beauty tips n embarrasing moments n fun quizes and all sorts of things!!!! its got the games too!!!! my personal fave is bug on a wire!!!! hope i helped
Ok Im seriously not a cutter. But i got scratched up by my pet rabbit and i dont want ppl thinking im a cutter at school 2morrow. Im not gonna wear a hoodie all day tomorrow or a long sleeve shirt so what are some good ways to cover it up?
welp you could try makeup! or maybe ur a guy....if thats the case then that wouldnt work unless u had a sister...but if ur a girl then try makeup!!! i dunno how well it'll cover but it will make it less visible which wont make it seem like you cut yourself
I hate life sometimes. I really wonder if i should just run away or kill myself. Why do i hate it so much, i'm only 12 and want to die. I don't cut and do shit like that but i'm so lost and dead. What should i do?
well ive been thru the same stuff and im 13...but maybe its got something to do with your life....if there is anything wrong or bad in ur life (or maybe ur stressed) that could be causing it....i really cant give you straight advice cuz i dont have enuff details...if you can tell me more details then ill try again =0)
Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?
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This is from expirence hun...if you really love him back and want to be with him then I would say go for it.....IF YOU KNOW HE IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS!!! There are ALOT of psycos out there esp. old men tryna get young girls! See, I dated a guy in GA for like...1 year and 5 months....well, i talked to his mom...his cuzin...he sent me accual pictures in the mail...and when we decided to meet...he was gonna bring his parents....so i trusted him but hun if youve only seen a pic from the computer then you cant trust it...you just cant....really really think it thru before you continue....DONT MEET HIM IF HE WANTS TO MEET ALONE...dont be like other girls hun...its not worth it
hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx
a c-section is where they cut your stomach open to get the baby (or babies) out. Im not sure as to which is more painful but in my opinion i would say just a regular birth would hurt worse because they have to cut you "down there"...but if your drugged up (which isnt bad because most people are....for pain) then i doubt it hurts at all :\ hope i helped!
what does it mean when u get fingered?
it means that a guy is stickin his fingers in your pussy (vagina) and basically jus givin you pleasure (sometimes)
hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?
accually wearing 2 would give a higher risk of making them break because of friction....just try to relax and go with one and maybe birth control if your that scared
ok i haven't had my period yet but i have a question. When ur having ur period and your swimming, what do you wear- pads of tampons so u won't leak?
ok well when u do get it you totally wanna wear tampons in any water (unless the bath/shower...then it is totally fine to go without) pads would just get all soggy and wouldnt catch the blood but a tampon would stop the blood (just like a pad when outside of water)....inserting a tampon doesnt hurt either...just follow the instructions on the box and RELAX....relaxing is the key..
hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?
Yeah its totally normal! It accually depends tho too on how long ago you started...if you started like...just recently then itll be about 2 years or so till it becomes regular...if youve had it for awhile then i guess thats just how ur made up...i think its perfectly normal =) hope i helped
My bf jokes around with me all the time like he'll say
"your dumb" jk. Or eww who would want to go out with you? then he says no im jk your beatafull. (don't know how to spell it lol) Is he just flirting or is he really thinking that and just saying jk? we've been going out for 8 months and I really don't think he would say somthing like that. but tell me what you think!
my bf....well...x bf used to do that to me too! But i really think he was juss playin! and im sure ur guy is too! Guys tend to do that!! just joke rite back with him!!
This is just a question of curiosity...how many mL's (milligrams) of water are you suppose to get each day? If not mL's..then oz's(ounces)..? Thanks!!!(14 year old gurlio)
i have NO clue how many ml but i think its supposed to be 64 ozs of wata!!!!!! More than that is always grreat tho!
OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!
ok just one ?....why would you care what people think of you?? I mean if people make fun of you then thats their problem....i doubt they'd make a HUGE deal out of it! n if he brakes up with you then oh well...i mean what can you do? the best thing u could do is try to get over him or try to win him back!!!! >:)