i really like this guy, and all my friends say he likes me because he flirts with me. WE wrote notes in class, and we talk on the phone pretty much every night, and we hung out one time alone with each other. Everyone is telling me he likes me because he flirts with me, but i have a hard time belieing that he actually does. If somebody flirts with you does that mean they like you, and does this guy seem like he would like me? Thanks!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? aDoRkAbLe_Co0kIe_ answered Thursday June 2 2005, 10:01 pm: you know...it seems like he does like you...but ive been thru a small dilema like this and he COULD be just acting nice to you...thats how guys are..I think the only way to really find out is to go for it and ask him (WHEN YOUR ALONE!! BIG MISTAKE IF YOU ASK IN A HUGE GROUP!) just ask him straight up. tell him youve been gettin some vibes and then just ask if he likes you...yeah it'll be embarassing if he says no but just play it cool. if he does say no a few things you could say would be "oh really? thats okay i dont like you like that either" or something like "alright thats cool i was just makin sure" but whatever you do, dont get upset. Hope i helped and good luck! [ aDoRkAbLe_Co0kIe_'s advice column | Ask aDoRkAbLe_Co0kIe_ A Question ]
milliethu answered Thursday June 2 2005, 7:03 pm: dude, he likes u. im not saying if someone flirts with u they like u, but all that other crap has me convinced. hope i helped [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Thursday June 2 2005, 6:32 pm: Well just because someone is fliRting does NOT mean they like you!!!! If you want to find out how he feels about you, the best way would be to flat out ASK HIM. It MAY be a bit embaRRassing and haRd to accomplish, but just take a deep bReath and go foR it!! It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if how he feels about you. ShoRe, you can *ASSUME* alllll you want... but you'll neveR *know* exactly how he feel unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lips. And if you discoveR that he unfoRtunately does NOT hold the same feelings foR you, as much as it sucks.. you'Re just going to have to find it in you to accept AND Respect this hoRRible new by picking youRself back up, and keep tRucking foRwaRd. It's awful, but life WILL go on. Best wishes!! :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
vermillion26 answered Thursday June 2 2005, 6:27 pm: flirting doesnt nesscisarily mean he likes you, but its something to go on. does he flirt with lots of girls, or just you? if its just you he probably likes you. is it just kind of casual flirting? do you make physical contact? i dont know either of you so i cant tell you if he likes you or not. you might try asking a trustworthy friend to casually bring you up in a conversation with him and see how he reacts.
Teza answered Thursday June 2 2005, 6:13 pm: When people flirt it doesnt always mean that there is feelings and that they like you. He might have a little crush on you but you NEVER know unless you talk to him. Since you seem pretty close friends you should ask him about it. He probablly does like you. Keep flirting with him tho. ♥ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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